this is going to be a generalized take, so please forgive me, but women are an underrated enforcer of femininity.
I’ve noticed this with hairdressers. multiple times I’ve gone to lady hairdressers and said “cut it all off,” and they’ve gone “hmm alright,” and basically just trimmed the split ends. meanwhile I can go to a dude and say “hey, can you make my hair slightly shorter?” and he’ll go “on it boss,” and shave me bald.
twice now, I’ve also had lady tattoo artists add pink to femme up a tattoo, despite that not being on the initial design.
god, also thinking about this brought back a memory. my mom once threw a fit because my shoes were “too masculine” (they were black women’s flats), saying that I’d upset my dad and ruin the formal event we were going to. I wore the shoes, my dad didn’t give a shit.
I dunno. it just feels like the misogyny is coming from inside the house sometimes.
Every fucking time Eddie Diaz says “you’re making this about you,” what he means is “I needed help and I wanted you and you weren’t there,” and that makes me FUCKING INSANE
all the f1 x gladiator drawings i've done so far
something i noticed with "anti-xyz" spaces is that.... there is no room for "anti-xyz" spaces, because those spaces will not be focused on support, fun, or community. it's just a cult used to diminish other people's self worth and esteem.
an example is in DID/OSDD/Plurality/Multiplicity spaces. I popped into the tag on tumblr to see what others' experiences are, and am met with something labelled "anti endo" etc. . And I think, if you're making a community, the only option is to be "pro-endo" or "pro-xyz" because that's the only way you're gonna meet individuals who are focused on safety, friendship, and community. Because if you constantly focus on how "you fan only be plural if you have trauma"- it is NOT your business to guess what another's persons trauma is! You don't need to know if a person is traumatized or not to validate their existence! You don't need to know other people's traumas! That is not your business, nor is that knowledge a suitable foundation on which to build a relationship.
The only choice is to be pro-whatever discourse. Because people are first. if all you focus on is whether or not your traumas are enough or real, you're just going to doubt yourself and cause unnecessary stress.
Shout out to the ten year old who just got diagnosed. Shout out to the housebound fourteen year old. Shout out to the eighteen year old who can’t go to the university they wanted. Shout out to the twenty two year old who can’t get a job. Shout out to the twenty six year old with a caretaker. Shout out to the thirty year old who can’t buy their own house.
Shout out to young disabled people. We exist.
An introduction by yours truly, Ash
Attempt 3000 of having a Tumblr I like.
I'm Ash, I am 20 year old. Disabled and queer. Chronically online and ill.
🎶🎵 I''ve got the best of both words 🎵🎶
Auto-diag is valid by the way, there's enough information to auto-diagonise yourself with some stuff, and you are the only expert on your life. Ask for help if you need it though
Some people need to chill.
I have two side blogs : @lonebabyone (agere), @onesburyinghole (vent)
DMs open and asks too, for anything.
This blog is primarily to have a space to express myself on subjects i like. More details under the cut.
I enjoy most humanitarians subjects, like psychology, sociology, history, philosophy, politics (because for anarchy i need to know about it urgh). I'm anticapitalist, i do enjoy some stuff produced by it tho (i mean look in which platform i am), antigovernment (authorities and stuff ew). I am for communities and for helping thy neighnoor, at least i'm trying. I'm just a human trying to live in this world and help others when i can. I'm also chronically online and ill so take that as you will.
I will tell you one time if i see you don't respect my boundaries, you will be blocked.
Anyways, I also love some stuff and here some of them if you want to know:
Witch Hat Atelier
Epic the musical
I don't want to be a magical girl
Gravity falls
Formula 1
Rise of the guardians
Amphibia
The owl House
Hazbin hotel
Helluva boss
Spiderman and adjacents
Batfam
Flash
Five Nights at Freddy's
Teen Wolf
Arcane
Ao3
Fandoms in general
Percy Jackson
How to train your dragon
Hunger Games
9-1-1
Winnie the Pooh
Winx
...
The Music Freaks
Bluey
This list is inconclusive and doesn't really have an order.
Alright, so. I’m beyond infuriated and disappointed with the recent revelations about the Winx Club reboot.
I already had my worries because of some leaks and how things were handled in Mermaid Magic. For those unaware, MerMag had an AI generated octopus image in a background; meanwhile, the promos used AI generated voices. The leaks had some things that looked vaguely AI generated.
As it turns out, the reboot is actively using AI for official art and backgrounds. I wouldn’t be surprised if the reboot uses AI for “writing” and promotion.
I won’t post about the reboot or watch it at this point. I recommend that you don’t watch it either. We need to figure out a way to get to Rainbow about this abhorrent behavior of their’s.
Rainbow, if you’re reading this somehow…. Do better. AI generation is taken from stolen content. Not only that but it’s terrible for the environment.
You know what the worst part of having a dissociative disorder is, for me personally?
The emotional amnesia.
Your entire life feels like something that you watched on TV, rather than something that you actually lived through.
You know that some of the most horrific things imaginable have happened to you, and you feel nothing about it. Sure, the memories disgust you on principle, but you don’t feel anything.
It makes you question if anything that you remember is real. If that actually happened, shouldn’t it feel significant? Shouldn’t you be sad, angry, hurt, something?
And to top it all off, nobody understands. Not even yourself.
theyre so cute :(
Just to talk and enjoy my stuff. I have two side blogs ;) Read my pinned post ! Humans are fascinating
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