— Anne Michaels, from "Infinite Gradation," originally published in October 2017
honey instead of romanticising neat little plans that live only in your head, you gotta fall in love with the mess, the challenge, the chaos of a life truly lived. it is so so beautiful but you’re so afraid of anything real and raw; you think it’s ugly and frightening. but it’s not, it’s not!
𝑇𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑤ℎ𝑜 𝑙𝑜𝑜𝑘 𝑎𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑟𝑠 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑤𝑖𝑠ℎ ⋆.˚
so often, i notice people living online - consistently doomscrolling or playing meaningless games. i think that they forget how life is the journey. you need to make sure you don't miss it.
know yourself understanding who you are at your core is crucial. reflect on your values, passions, and strengths. this can help lead to a more fulfilling life.
set goals define what you want to achieve in life. having clear, actionable goals gives you direction and purpose. if you don't know what you want - then you have to get out and try things! experience! understand what you want and don't want for yourself.
stay healthy take care of your physical and mental health. regular exercise, a balanced diet, and mindfulness practices can significantly improve your well-being.
be present focus on the present moment. enjoy the small things. being exposed to social media and electronic devices from a young age has lead gen z to information overload and stress.
studies show that we experience higher levels of anxiety and depression compared to previous generations. try mindfulness to promote relaxation and emotional regulation. learn how to return yourself to the present moment - to be able to get offline, and out of your own head.
build relationships surround yourself with positive, supportive people. strong relationships can provide emotional support and enrich your life.
keep learning this is something that i will forever preach! never stop learning and growing. whether it's through formal education, reading, or new experiences, continuous learning keeps life interesting.
❤️nene
dear me,
hope i remember to never let myself down <3
love, me.
Last year of 2024, the year when by so fast now I’m staring at the mirage of January
I’m not unhappy about this year, though there’s so much more I could have done, I’m proud of what i have done. Life is as easy as you make it; this year I choose the hard mode.
I’m excited for 2025, ultimately in my mind 2025 has sort of started already, 2024’s looming presence has shunken. Moving on to 2025 starts now lol
— Natalie Diaz, Manhattan Is a Lenape Word
Unfortunately, the possibility of what if plays on in my mind, it’s a broken record I don’t know how to fix
— Donte Collins