I Think The Goal Is Not To Be Perfect And Try To Change Everything Of Us (or Others Too, As We Project

I think the goal is not to be perfect and try to change everything of us (or others too, as we project on them our "dark" sides) but to accept ourselves despite our imperfections and "flaws". No matter how much we try, we'll always end up doing or saying something that can be considered wrong or bad, even unconsciously. And that's completely okay. We interface with different people, and we cannot please everyone or we'll just go crazy. But we need to please ourselves and give us a break. Be kind with ourselves as we're just trying. Appreciate who we are, light and dark. We'll always make mistakes, we'll always make a wrong choice... Sure we can try to change what we really do not appreciate, the coping mechanisms that are hindering and making us suffer (the ones we're not even aware of), but we need to remember there's no recipe to be perfect as there's no real perfection. We can always try to be better but we cannot reach that perfection we aim to as it doesn't exist. We cannot be that to feel accepted and included, to feel seen and valued, to feel less alone: people change their mind as the wind anyway. But we can see all of who we are and welcome our darkest side and try to feel more content and... not make us feel alone by abandoning and neglecting a side of us that still exists and needs our love, even if we accuse it to not let us be accepted by others. Maybe if we accepted it, accepted our whole self, and knew us... maybe we'd feel less alone, more apt to see our light within without having to compare to others and more open to others too.

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10 months ago

write unpublishable things. it's good for you.


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An image of a white wolf and a black wolf on either side of the screen. The white wolf has pictures representing the shows "Gravity Falls" and "Steven Universe". The black wolf has pictures representing the shows "Bojack Horseman" and "Moral Orel". The caption reads "Inside every autistic person there are two types of comfort shows."

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10 months ago

Having to live a future you didn’t think you’d be alive for is so fucking hard


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11 months ago

hi! atomiclovedestiny is a documented scammer profiting off of the genocide that stole their story from this legitimate gofundme https://gofund.me/522a0090 and are instead linking to their private PayPal account with the name Mercy Jerop

would you mind deleting their scam from your blog, or clearly labeling it as a scam so it doesn't spread to others? in the future, please remember to search the username/paypal account name/text used by the people asking for money in your inbox

please familiarize yourself with the posts of some current scammers while they are still under these usernames: taheeeramohamed, stevmwita, lucymkiraa, thoughtfulfestivallove, keenladysussymerrriine, lucymkiraa, swagprincessfire, nashonimudaki, marryum-aljabill, quoradigestere, atomiclovedestiny

Thank you so much! knew it was a bit suspicious but on the off chance it was real wanted to post, but everyone else be aware of the scammers impersonating Palestinians and be cautious who your donating to‼️‼️‼️

Also I updated the old post to let others know it was a scam as well🫡


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