self care tips 🫖
❤︎ bi monthly facials - based on your needs (do your research)
❤︎ biweekly mani/pedis
❤︎ skin care everyday and night
❤︎ journal/paint/bake/pottery (get a hobby)
❤︎ give your space a makeover (your environment matters)
❤︎ shower every night before bed (everything shower once a week)
❤︎ drink tea daily - lavender for stress, matcha for health etc.
❤︎ take your vitamins daily
❤︎ regular pampering (lashes/eyebrows/hair)
❤︎ limit your screen time
❤︎ keep your space as tidy as possible (messy space = messy mind)
❤︎ read one book a month on a topic you’re interested in
❤︎ invest in crystals, learn more about manifestation
❤︎ work out 2-3x a week
❤︎ eat healthier but don’t be too strict.
❤︎ take yourself on dates
❤︎ buy yourself flowers
❤︎ tuck some money for needs/ future investments
❤︎ INVEST IN YOURSELF (a bag, cosmetic surgery, that tech you’ve been eyeing, your future business) whatever you know would improve yourself in anyway. mentally, physically or financially.
details matter! <3
🍡 hair - clean, frizzy free, moisturized, shiny, no split ends. what suits your face? long straight dark hair, blondie with layers, curly red hair? try out different things. keep your under tone in mind.
🍡 hands - clean & polished nails, moisturized hands. your nails should not look chewed or ripped off. they should be a healthy length, shiny and your cuticles should always be tended to.
🍡 face - clear, dewy. (im not saying clear skin = perfect and beautiful). just make sure you have a solid skin care routine that fits your needs. balanced features.
🍡 jewelry - anything you like. again, keep your undertone in mind. what looks better on you? gold or silver?
🍡 lashes - do they suit your face? be honest. extra long lash ≠ perfect lash. let’s make sure we are enhancing our beauty and not hiding it
🍡 body - clean, moisturized, smelling yummy. i like when my skin is glowing and sparkly like honey and caramel. oils and glitters are my essential!
🍡 clothes - matching, wrinkle free, fresh scent, matching socks, suits your body & style. long or short skirts? layered tops or crop tops? trench coats or fur jackets? what’s your vibe?
🍡 shoes - no scuffs, dirt, rips. make sure they compliment your outfit and you can actually walk in them. you don’t have to suffer to look good. go shoe shopping!
🍡 accessories - adds on to every outfit
🍡 makeup - blended! UNDERTONESSSSSS! it helps SO much when picking out makeup!!! concealer&foundation, blush, eyeshadow and lip glosses&lip sticks!! trust me!!! and remember, enhance your beauty!
🍡 eyebrows - clean and groomed. what suits your face? clean cut? bushy brows? thin or thick?
🍡 scent - something for people to remember you by. make sure to pair your perfume with body mists and a body butter for a long lasting scent. don’t forget about your hair! spray hair perfume into your brush or comb for an extra whiff of yumminess!
🍡 feet - no dead skin, no nasty cuticles, moisturized, polished toe nails. i love toe rings and anklets on mine! the essential details for me really.
btw if you've ever seen those videos online which are like "how to give him butterflies" or whatever, stop for a sec. i want you to know that for the right guy; your whole existence will give him butterflies.
you don't have to do anything to get an excited reaction in him, all you need to do is exist. because the right guy will get butterflies from the way you walk, the way you talk, your eyes, when you look at him, when you're even a bit close to him, etc.
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Me everyday ♡
this post is inspired by @arielleslipgloss's post about dolly mindset and i just wanna make my own post about keeping a doll mindset so i hope that u enjoy…💬🎀
WHATS IN UR MIND ;
whats in ur mind manifests. what u think consistently everyday is what u will experience, thats just how the brain works. so if ur thinking positive thoughts, you'll experience positive things but the same is true if u think negative thoughts.
BE POSITIVE ;
affirm. affirm. affirm. if u dont want to experience it, then dont dwell on it. when u spend so much time dwelling on negativity you'll only perpetuate that into ur reality so can we not? be POSITIVE and dwell only on things that u want to manifest and experience.
DONT THINK TOO MUCH ;
with that being said, DONT THINK TOO MUCH. sometimes its good to get out of ur own head and just affirm positively on autopilot. dont spend so much time pondering things that upset you. ofc its important to ponder things that you struggle with because thats how u overcome them, but if u dwell on them too much you'll only perpetuate it. make ur mind a good place to be. dont worry about a thing ♡
dont give others the power to make u uncomfortable in ur own mind. dont dwell on other people's negative opinions or criticism, dont be consumed by a situationship. the center of ur universe should be you, you and YOU.
HOW TO MAKE UR OWN DOLLHOUSE (IN UR MIND) ;
this section is inspired by something that i read about in the book pyscho cybernetics and essentially the idea is that u create a space in ur mind that is completely and wholly yours. a place that u can go when u need a breather and i though it was just ADORABLE.
so create ur own dollhouse in ur mind. how i did this was i focused on my 5 senses and i imagined myself creating a space for myself. once i was done imagining it, i imagined myself walking into it and just relaxing in it.
♡ i imagine a cute room (pretty large) with baby pink wallpaper
♡ i imagine a balcony with fresh flowers and a cute pink chair
♡ pink drapes DUH
♡ plush couches with leopard print throw pillows and cashmere blankets
♡ very 90's hollywood mansion inspired with cute dolly music playing softly in the background
and whenever i want to i just imagine myself walking into this space and relaxing on the couch. painting my nails, doing a face mask or just talking to myself and its so soothing…💬🎀
WHAT SHOULD CONSUME UR THOUGHTS ;
♡ shopping
♡ glitter
♡ self pampering
♡ your education
♡ YOUR FUTURE (the most important one btw)
♡ urself and ur future
WHAT SHOULDN'T CONSUME UR THOUGHTS ;
♡ toxicity from any source (bad friends, social media etc)
♡ the past
♡ jealousy
♡ and anything that u DONT want to manifest
THINGS THAT CAN HELP UR MIND ;
if u find it particularly difficult to stay positive or ur just going through a hard time, first of all know that ur NOT alone and things will always get better 💗 some things that can help ur state of mind can include ->
getting a full 8-10 hours of sleep every night, staying hydrated and eating a balanced diet, getting sunlight and fresh air everyday, journalling and other forms of self expression. and to finish off this post i wanna leave u guys with some dolly affirmations to live ur best dolly life 💗
🧁 i am so flawless from head to toe
🎀 i am absolutely in love with myself, and why WOULDN'T i be?
🧁 i manifest instantly
🎀 i am more than capable of anything that i want to do
🧁 i am gorgeous on the inside and on the outside
🎀 im just SUCH a ray of sunshine and beauty to everything and everyone
Hi! I'm LovelyLavDolly, u can call me lav 4 short, I'm 20 years old & neurodivergent, This is a girly, nerdy, cutesy, purple blog♡
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