I was literally JUST having this conversation with my sister but I think one of the most difficult aspects of committed long term relationships is that there will be times when your partner is not okay and you just gotta drop everything and show up for them, no matter how inconvenient the timing might be for you, no matter how HARD and not-fun it is to steadfastly sit with someone in depression and anxiety and grief. that’s what for richer for poorer in sickness and in health means. and in a balanced relationship those roles reverse bc you both do that for each other
I get harry that harry wanted to name his kids after people he loved and people who died protecting him. I totally get that feeling of gratitude but what bugs me is the choice of names.
Sirius, James and Lily? Justified.
But Albus Severus? Really? One of them literally protected him to kill him in the end and the other one bullied him and his friends. They may deserve some recognition but didn’t they already get a hell lot of recognition?!
What about the other people who actually gave away their lives to protect Harry without demanding anything in return. They just fought selflessly to protect their world and their loved ones and got no recognition what so ever.
17 year old Cedric Diggory trying to make his parents proud.
18 year old Regulus Black trying to right the wrong of his ways.
Alastor Moody trying to protect the only hope left in the world he’s grown old protecting.
Ted Tonks trying to protect his wife and daughter in a world where his kind are in grave danger.
20 year old Fred Weasley trying to protect his family, and fighting for what is right and for the kind messy haired boy who’s now become family.
38 year old Remus Lupin trying to protect his best friends’ (who he couldn’t protect) son and to make the world a better place for his own son.
25 year old NymphadoraTonks trying to make a world a better place for her son, fighting for her dad and against the unfair practice.
17 year old Lavender Brown doing what she felt is right.
16 year old Colin creevy trying to protect his childhood idol and not caring if he’s underage because this is what he feels is correct.
And 50 other people who we don’t even know the names of because Harry doesn’t bother finding out. And Rebeus Hagrid? He made Harry a birthday cake and bought him an owl for his 11th birthday and he didn’t even know him. He loved everyone unconditionally and was extremely loyal even after all he’s gone through. That man deserves the world. Hagrid deserves more recognition than he ever got by anyone (be it Harry, Ron, Hermione, Dmbledore and the whole wizarding community).
These people are the real heroes and they don’t deserve to be forgotten.
A/N: i’m posting twice today to make up for not posting yesterday lmao, so uh day 2 of christmas (even though it’s day 3)
Both you and Edmund attempt to make gingerbread houses every year
It’s one of your favourite traditions during the Christmas season with Edmund
A few days before you two go shopping, you two would go online and look at inspiration for your decorations
“Oh, look at this one Edmund!”
“Y/N, I love that you believe that we’re this talented with gingerbread house making but we aren’t.”
Once you two settled on a theme, you would go out to the store and get a gingerbread house starter
Once you were home, you would play christmas music while Edmund unboxed it and looked at the directions
You and Edmund being somewhat clumsy putting the base together
“Careful love.”
“I’m trying, my hands are shaky.”
Once the base was together, you both would start decorating
“Okay, you do the roof and I’ll start the front.”
You humming to the christmas songs while making the windows
edmund being lowkey good at decorating
“Why are the windows... lopsided?”
“Uh... A for effort?”
Edmund eating the gumdrops once the icing was on
“Stop eating the decorations!”
“But it’s good!”
The gum drops and other candies kept slowly slipping off
“We need more icing.”
Edmund applying more icing
By the end of finishing the gingerbread house, you two would wash your hands
“You know, I think this might be the best gingerbread house we’ve made.”
“Even with the lopsided windows?”
“Especially with the lopsided windows.”
You would laugh at Edmund’s encouraging teasing and you’d pull him into a kiss
Suddenly you two would hear a crack and something falling apart
When you guys would turn around you would see the ‘best gingerbread house so far’ in pieces
Both you and Edmund would glance at each other before laughing at your failed attempt
meeting up in the library in the morning and idly chattering while planning the day
sitting together in silence while working but still touching elbows or knees and feeling the comfort of each other’s presence
comparing schedules to see when you can spend time together
helping each other understand an academic concept and then smiling and giggling because wow your s/o is so cute and smart and you are so proud of them
drinking way too much coffee and/or tea together
planning a date and then saying, “screw it, we are tired and i’d rather watch a movie and cuddle at your dorm”
being frustrated when life is busy but ecstatic once you get to spend time with them
chilling at campus cafes in between classes
finding time to spend even 20 minutes with each other because you miss them and want to catch up
feeling proud of them when they do well on a test
comforting them when they do poorly on a test
whining about school, then making out and feeling better
“I cannot make you understand. I cannot make anyone understand what is happening inside me. I cannot even explain it to myself.” - Franz Kafka, The Metamorphosis
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Rainbow-bearded Thornbill (Chalcostigma herrani), male, family Trochilidae, found in the western Andes of Ecuador and Colombia
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It’s important to be aware of your sadness but not let it consume or define you. I found that I was thinking a lot about my sadness, because I wanted to be figure out why I was sad and fix it. It was kind of counter intuitive, but spending less energy and attention on it helped me focus on the happier parts of life. I am more than just my sadness, and I found that helped me breathe more. 💛
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“Scientists come in two varieties, hedgehogs and foxes. I borrow this terminology from Isaiah Berlin (1953), who borrowed it from the ancient Greek poet Archilochus. Archilochus told us that foxes know many tricks, hedgehogs only one. Foxes are broad, hedgehogs are deep. Foxes are interested in everything and move easily from one problem to another. Hedgehogs are only interested in a few problems that they consider fundamental, and stick with the same problems for years or decades. Most of the great discoveries are made by hedgehogs, most of the little discoveries by foxes. Science needs both hedgehogs and foxes for its healthy growth, hedgehogs to dig deep into the nature of things, foxes to explore the complicated details of our marvelous universe. Albert Einstein and Edwin Hubble were hedgehogs. Charley Townes, who invented the laser, and Enrico Fermi, who built the first nuclear reactor in Chicago, were foxes. It often happens that foxes are as creative as hedgehogs. The laser was a big discovery made by a fox. The general public is misled by the media into believing that great scientists are all hedgehogs. Some periods in the history of science are good times for hedgehogs, other periods are good times for foxes. The beginning of the twentieth century was good for hedgehogs. The hedgehogs—Einstein and his followers in Europe, Hubble and his followers in America—dug deep and found new foundations for physics and astronomy. When Fermi and Townes came onto the scene in the middle of the century, the foundations were firm and the universe was wide open for foxes to explore. Most of the progress in physics and astronomy since the 1920s was made by foxes.”
— Freeman J. Dyson, A Many-Colored Glass: Reflections on the Place of Life in the Universe
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