i see a ton of posts regarding manifesting an sp, and it seems to be a big struggle for some so i thought i’d share a success story on how i manifested mine a few years back
At the time, my sweet 16 year old lesbian self found myself really obsessed with this insta famous girl. i won’t name drop but she was highly popular on the internet around this time and i wanted to at least be her friend so badly.
i would say i ‘attempted’ to manifest her into my life for a solid 9 months before i found a 30 day sp challenge to which i decided to try. And it worked.
But it wasn’t necessarily the challenge that worked, it was me. And this is crucial but..you are the method.
Now what did i actually do?
i began imagining random scenarios where we were texting, interacting on social media and overall had eachother in our lives. i remember specifically feeling like there was no movement and i felt particularly bored while living in the end. there was no sign it was near, or feeling that i was doing anything right, i just kept persisting and i did it nonchalantly. i would occasionally affirm but it was mostly visualization whenever i thought of her.
2 weeks in and her close friend mutualed me out of nowhere, within a few days i was added to a gc with my sp and she followed me and we became close friends and still are to this day:,)
i didn’t ever make the first move, i didn’t even take any inspired action. Everything fell into my lap.
and that technically wasn’t the only sp ive manifested into my life. So many people i used to daydream about befriending i’ve either dated, or eventually became friends with. i would like to think of it as devine timing bc i wouldn’t want to have known them any sooner or later.
to conclude: manifesting an sp is something ive never had resistance towards because people are so emotionally fluid and constantly changing. you can have the person of your dreams or the person that blocked you.
it’s your universe baby.
Don't forget to take care of your self concept : everything comes from there.
Had something bad happen yesterday and I wavered so badly,,, How do you get yourself back on track after you lose your faith?
👋🏻 hello,✨
🧚🏻♀️fairy can you please help me by suggesting some info about Sp , actually i am manifesting steps but i don't know when to jump to next affirmation cuz my manifestation is happening in the delusional world 💗
1st affirmation is { why is he so madly in love with me,why is he constantly thinking about me}
I know you help 🤗✨
Of course, here’s a simple breakdown to help you manifest your SP (specific person) and confidently navigate the process, even if it feels delusional right now:
1. Understand Manifestation Stages
Manifesting works in the “inner world” (4D) first, then reflects in the 3D. It’s normal to feel it’s only happening in your imagination at first. That’s how it starts for everyone. The 3D will eventually catch up when your belief becomes dominant.
2. Affirmation Progression
Here’s how to adjust your affirmations as you move through stages:
• Initial Stage: Build belief.
• Example: “SP loves talking to me.”
• Focus on imagining them reaching out or thinking about you.
• Middle Stage: Deepen connection in your 4D.
• Example: “SP adores me and prioritizes me in their life.”
• Visualize or affirm conversations and actions that align with this.
• Final Stage: Assume it’s done.
• Example: “We are already in a happy, loving relationship.”
• Live as though it’s your reality now.
Move to the next affirmation when the current one feels natural or neutral, meaning it no longer feels like you’re trying to convince yourself.
3. Signs It’s Working
• Feeling calmer and less “needy” about it.
• Random thoughts or dreams about your SP.
• Synchronicities, like seeing their name, numbers, or reminders.
4. How to Stop Feeling Delusional
• Remember: Your imagination creates reality. Everything in the physical world was once a thought.
• Flip any doubts with affirmations: “What I see in my mind, I will hold in my hands.”
5. Key Tips While Manifesting SP
• Stay consistent with your affirmations and self-concept (e.g., “I am irresistible, loved, and chosen”).
• Don’t stress about the “when” or “how.” Trust that it’s already unfolding.
• Avoid obsessively checking the 3D. It’s just a reflection of your past assumptions.
Keep persisting, and soon the “delusional” world will become your physical reality! 💗
And right after my last update where I was complaining about not seeing any movement:
I started seeing a lot of angel numbers again and I even had a dream that we were on a festival and that we were together and he was kissing me all the time aaahhhhhhh🥹
Listen your mindset NEEDS to match the self concept your embodying. Whether that’s being chosen, you need to start adapting the beliefs in every aspect of your life that YOU ARE CHOSEN. When you are thinking about yourself and who you are, you need to see yourself as chosen and produce thoughts that version of yourself would have. When you think about your person, you must think of them from the version of you that is chosen, by them and everyone else. You must collectively embody the full state of your new self concept.
here’s a little thingy i recently found out about
✨the 369 manifestation method✨
what u do:
1. write your desire 3 times
2. write your intention 6 times
3. write the outcome 9 times
what it does:
you remind urself of smth you want to happen and influence your brain to make decisions that help you achieve your goals
Hi. IDK if this is allowed to be asked on this blog. But, I've been manifesting my sp on and off since 2022. He did the things I affirmed for, a while then when there were some inaccuracies in the 3D I started wavering and he showed up that way as well. Then I actively stopped affirming for like 3-4 months as things were going really good between us. Then when he wasn't texting me so much or any deviation from what I wanted instead of affirming again, I tried to force things in the 3D and it led to a huge fight between us and we're in NC for 3 months now. Usually, I'd affirm a lot after a fight and go talk to him on my own. But this time I wanted him to initiate it because even if it were my thoughts that made him act that way the things he said were hurtful. Usually when affirming I'd always see us together and in a loving light. But this time I'm not seeing that and I think I'm still holding onto the anger of what he did to me. I'm affirming that He's always been madly in love with me, I have always been the love of his life, and He's always been doing everything to be with me and that we've always been happily married. I did try Nadi Shodana and Ho'oponopono to reduce the anger I felt for him. It did help. Then a month back I had a random visual where he and I were married and in bed and me stroking his hair and talking. I could feel his hair and he turned and kissed my mangal sutra and I kissed him back on the forehead. After repeating that scene for a while, I could see him lovingly again. I am going to persist in affirming through the day and affirming in the night. Please do let me know if I'm going wrong if I am being stubborn for waiting for him to contact me.
I'm going to be short and to the point.
What do you want really? To be in a relationship with this person right?
Focus on that. That's all you need to do. Leave all these and just focus on your end goal. Don't be thinking how long you've been trying to manifest him or his texting or fighting. This is all just irrelevant stuff that you keep bringing in your reality which in turn is not letting you actually manifest him into your life. You are the reason why you're not together rn. But that's alright. You can choose rn to change the whole story.
You guys are together rn. You guys are so fucking happy with each other. He loves you beyond reason. That's it. That's all you need to be focussing on. Nothing else just that. Read this post as many times as you want. Let it click for you. Manifestation is just that easy. It's already done and that's it. End of story.
Really? You don't know?
Ok lemme ask you this. What are you thinking about them? Imagining your dream relationship together? How obsessed is he with you? How he'd do anything just to see you smile? Or how he's ignoring you? How he apparently told you it's over? Or How he seems to be doing just great without you?
Cause whatever it is I have to say you are exactly right. He is thinking exactly what you think he's thinking. I mean what other answer were you expecting???!
That's all there is to it. Now idc what happened in your 3d. I don't even care if he's right in front of you telling you that he likes someone else. It really doesn't fucking matter. How do you even know what's going on in his mind? Do u even know what is going on behind the scenes? You really think people won't change their minds in a second?
Stop ruining your manifestations by thinking what you don't want. Just focus on what you do want and quit complaining. Let him love you the way you wanna be loved. Let him do everything you don't even have to move a finger if you don't want to. It's that simple. Let it be simple ok???
That's all there is to this really. Circumstances don't matter fucking matter. All that matters is what you assume. If you want him to be obsessed then you affirm that he is. You decide. If he's not worshipping the ground that you walk on then that's because you're not letting him. (I like my man obsessed so that's why I'm like this)
Quit complicating this shit. You are the god of your reality. You're not manipulating anyone if all you're doing is affirming or visualising for what you want. It's not your fault if they end up reflecting your affirmations back to you right. I mean like c'mon.
You decide.
𝕿𝖍𝖊𝖗𝖊 𝖎𝖘 𝖆𝖑𝖜𝖆𝖞𝖘 𝖒𝖔𝖛𝖊𝖒𝖊𝖓𝖙ᵕ̈
i was manifesting my sp, and it was the beginning of my loass journey, he had a gf, which i also manifested, (everyone told me he didn’t and i persisted into the fact that he did, due to a gut feeling and well he did 💀 what a surprise)
at the time i’ve been manifesting for a month and i saw little to no movement, which made me fold and text him first, which i still believe was inspired action (or whatever it’s called), basically i texted him, that is how i found out he had a gf and i dropped manifesting him and focused on school. this mf texted me, about two/three weeks later, he no longer had a gf and was so obviously into me.
all the affirming if done right doesn’t go nowhere.
so the moral is, the month i affirmed and meditated and did the whisper method and all the other ones, payed off, he was in love with me, he texted me just like i affirmed, he came up talked to me just like i affirmed and he wanted to come up and talk to me many times, but ended up not doing so as well, so there is always movement, to this day i have no idea who his gf was, no idea how they broke up or anything, but one thing i can tell you is that whatever you’re doing HAS to reflect, as long as your inner world is changing your outer world will too.
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