this is my little hoard of posts that I wanted to keep Might be a dragon. been here a while just quiet
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I tried to scroll past this. I really did
less “if you see a man and woman together at pride be nice! they could be bi/pan/trans/ace/aro” and more “stop gendering strangers to harass them anywhere, but especially at pride holy shit”
me: why is everyone always so focused on sex and relationships except for me?
life: you’re aro-ace
me: oh okay makes sense
me:
me: is that also why i don’t give a shit about gender expression?
life: no that’s because you’re agender
me: nice
I needed this
Forgive me if someone has made this already, but I thought it would be cool to list the symbols of the ace and aro communities. The ace symbols are generally accepted, but the aromantic symbols are things that I have seen floating around on tumblr. If you have any questions about where these come from I’d be happy to link you to the posts/ sources
This is meant to be a comprehensive collection, so if I forgot anything, please let me know so I can add it!
Asexual symbols
Asexual flag
Black ring on the middle finger of the right hand
Dragons
Cake
Cards (Ace of hearts and Ace of spades)
Pirates, “Ace pirates aren’t interested in your booty”
Axolotls
Space
Denim Vests
Cryptids
Wolves
Ghosts (Just for Demisexuals)
Aromantic Symbols
Aromantic flag
White ring on the middle finger of the left hand
Griffins
Pizza
Arrows/Archery
Aardvarks
Yellow roses
Ice cream sandwiches
Rats
Nandays and Caiques
Let me know if I’m missing anything! (thank you to @singeroftalesvoiceofages , @somethingawesomeandironic , and anonymous for your additions)
proud to announce that i have officially given up on gender. i dont want anything to do with that shit anymore.
for anyone wondering, “useless lesbian” jokes were originally made by lesbians as a sort of self depreciating joke, based on the fact that many of us don’t recognize when girls are flirting with us due to never learning about it + due to heteronormity.
when non-lesbians (especially men) make useless lesbians jokes is. gross. especially since many of them go really far (ex. lesbians are stupid / morons / clueless / too dumb to function). it’s really just. gross to go to someone’s blog + to see a bunch of “my lesbian followers are dumb + stupid + useless” or “lesbians are morons”.
if you’re a non lesbian, it would be super sexy if you’d stop taking our jokes made about our experiences + turning them into “every lesbian is stupid + dumb + useless! please give me notes!” lmao.
So, I've been thinking a lot and as a horse person, I would like to share some horse terminology.
Horse - refers to an equine over the height of 14.2 hands (1 hand = 4 inches) and is descended from that ancestor that horses are descended from (also recommended to ride these guys instead of ponies, ponies are little shits most of the time).
Pony - refers to an equine 14.2 hands or smaller, and is descended from the same ancestor as horses, but spilt off after a bit and became its own thing (also an absolute twat waffle when it come to manners and behaving).
Foal - actually refers to a horse or pony under or the age of 4, but more commonly refers to a horse or pony under the age of 1.
Yearling - refers to a horse or pony at a year of age.
Filly - refers to a female horse or pony under or the age of 4, but more commonly refers to a horse or pony under the age of 1.
Colt - refers to a male horse or pony under or the age of 4, but more commonly refers to a horse or pony under the age of 1.
Lesson Horses or Ponies - Mindless horses or ponies used to teach people how to ride, and don't spook at inanimate objects.
If anyone wants to know more terms, I can add, but if not I just wanted to put this out there because I know a lot of people don't know the difference between a pony and a foal, and that bothers me a lot.
I’m doing a type of experiment
My brother keeps telling me aro/ace people aren’t real and that they don’t exist.
Reblog or like this if you ARE aro/ace or you support them
*Points agressively to this*
If you ever date an asexual and/or aromantic person, please, please, please get the specifics of our comfort level when it comes to physical affection. We kind of deal with a fear that someone we open up to is going to try to “change” us being the way we are, so please respect us! Not every ace or aro person wants hugs and kisses. Some do! Some don’t!
FINALLY
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
ONE MORE DAY TIL MAY 19TH, AGENDER PRIDE DAY!!!!
ONE MORE DAY TIL MAY 19TH, AGENDER PRIDE DAY!!!!
ONE MORE DAY TIL MAY 19TH, AGENDER PRIDE DAY!!!!
ONE MORE DAY TIL MAY 19TH, AGENDER PRIDE DAY!!!!
ONE MORE DAY TIL MAY 19TH, AGENDER PRIDE DAY!!!!
ONE MORE DAY TIL MAY 19TH, AGENDER PRIDE DAY!!!!
Cant wait for pride month when we’ll again have random troll/sockpuppet ace blogs popping up and making obvious outrage worthy posts about being disgusted with gay people showing pda at prides and aphobes will purposely act like all those blogs are legit and use those posts to harass and mock ace people and create fake outrage about how ace people dont belong at prides bc they hate pda and will ignore or block anyone who calls them out on their bullshit lmfao
Supportive Suns
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
May 19th is Agender Pride Day.
Aros/aces/aroaces realising romantic/sexual attraction is real
no one:
me: here’s a flow chart of 41 lgbtq+ book recommendations, have fun!
disclaimer: this is a very non-comprehensive list since I’m only including books that I’ve read
The user @fuckallnbs/@fucknbs-2, previously @fucknbs (see my #fucknbs tag), does all of the following to nonbinary people/supporters:
- Harasses relentlessly - Bullies - Insults - Calls slurs - Suicide-baits
In addition, he:
- Does these things to people who are minding their own business, not people who are in discourse tags - Will not stop doing it - Cannot be reasoned with or changed - Comes back with a new URL whenever banned and harasses the same people from before - Tells (nonbinary) people to kill themselves
Thank you this had been on my mind a lot
Am I the only one who does that thing where it looks like you're holding a wineglass? Is that just me?
Nah I do it too
Triple-A battery squad! We give power to the world
I'm sorry that's happening to you, and I hope everything gets less complicated. I personally don't know what you're going through, but I hope it all works out in the end, because everyone deserves to be happy
i friggin hate feelings. i have a crush on my best friend (gorl) who's dating my ex bf who i'm still good friends with ugh i hate it
Ooooof, that’s actually the worst. You can’t really control feels and so you’re basically stuck with them until someone else happens. I’m glad you’re all good friends though :’)