Alright Cuz Im So Tired Of Alloro Bs, Especially With Valen/tine/s Day Coming Up:

alright cuz im so tired of alloro bs, especially with valen/tine/s day coming up:

If you dont experience romantic love: you matter

If you dont experience platonic love: you matter

If you dont experience familial love: you matter

No matter what kind you dont experience, you deserve peace. You deserve kindness. You deserve joy.

You deserve to not have every alloro in a 20 mile radius "um actually"ing you every time you express distaste for something romantic.

Being loveless isnt a bad thing, and i hope you find peace in yourself 💚

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mentalsstuff

2 weeks ago

‘The world is huge and we can’t take all of it on. Enjoy what’s around you, the people around you, because life is about diving into what we have, when we have it.’

I’ve been in a very bad place mentally, because of the high standards I set for myself. In everything I do I find something negative to punish myself for, which has made me not want to risk doing anything at all. I’ve been trying to finally tell someone about this, instead of hiding it on my own, but that’s been very difficult.

I came across this public cameo on pinterest and I think everyone deserves to see it. I’m sorry for the very personal post. And I’m especially sorry if you’ve been feeling this way too or have in the past. Even if it’s just a bad day, I truly hope it does get better. And I’m sure Tom would agree. (even if your name isn’t Kyle)

So, let’s all lower the stakes and get us some freaking sunshine! I know I definitely need that so maybe you do too

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mental health personal post shoot from the hip sfth Tom cameo

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mentalsstuff

1 year ago

Black and white comic with simple digital drawings.
Text: I don't think I worry so much anymore about romance
Panel 1: Smiling person with dot eyes and a cowboy hat holding an aromantic flag. It has green, white, grey, and black stripes and hangs to the ground.

Page background fades from white to black.
Text: I just know I want someone to read to me
Panel 2: The person with the cowboy hat sitting on the right side of a campfire. They smile and look into the fire. On the opposite side is a featureless person smiling and reading from a book. They also sit on a camping chair.
Panel 3: A partial bunk bed can be seen, the featureless person lying down on the top bunk and looking at their phone while smiling. The person now without their cowboy hat sits cross-legged on the bottom bunk with a reading light on and looks at their phone. The cowboy hat is balanced on the post of the bunk bed.
Text: We'll talk for hours, sometimes
or stay perfectly silent

Text: Maybe you'll ave hair for me to help comb
Panel 4: Three people sitting in a row. The person with the cowboy hat sitting on a stool and smiling and brusing the hair of the person in front of them. The person in the middle smiling with their mouth open and sitting on the ground. They have long dangling hair. They have their hands on the shoulders of the person in front of them whho sits with folded legs and smiles with teeth.
Text: We can go on adventures
Panel 5: View of the inside of a car through the front window. The person with the cowboy hat has a folded map spread in front of them as they hold on to the handle on the ceiling. They sit in shotgun next to the driver, who has an open mouth and both hands on the steering wheel. Two people can be seen in the back, one with a ponytail and smiling wide and the other with wide shoulders and grimacing.

Text: Use the shower and bath simultaneously to save time
Panel 6: An upright shower next to a bath. A hand sticks out of the top of the shower and tosses a chunk of soap over so that it splashes in the bath. The person now without their cowboy hat laughs and recoils from the splash.
Text: And I'll crashh my head into your shoulder
Panel 7: Person with the cowboy hat smiling with closed eyes and falls backwards against the silhouette of a larger person. There are small radiating lines to indicate impact.
Text: and tell you I love you
Panel 8: Close-up of the person with the cowboy hat smiling with an open mouth and looking up.
Background fades from black to white.

Text: And hopefully they will accept thhe space in my heart is wide enough for "always you"
Panel 9: Zoom out and the person with the cowboy hat is sitting cross-legged and leaned against a larger person. They both smile and the person with the cowboy hat closes their eyes. The person they are leaning on holds a DS in their hands as if they're playing with it.
Panel 10: Close-up of the person smiling down.
Panel 11: Same shot but the person looks up slightly and there are small attention lines.

Text: and even wider still than "only you"
Panel 12: From the left two more people walk in carrying a bag of popcorn and a drinks tray with take away cups for 4 people. There is a person with a ponytail and the other smiles and talks to the person on their DS.
Watermark on the bottom center of the page: @yeehawpim

having a ponder about being aromantic and the kinds of friendships or qprs I might want to have

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mentalsstuff

3 weeks ago

cuties

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sfth shoot from the hip sfth luke sfth Tom .insta sfth sam sfth aj ed fringe!! i wish i could come but sadly i live faaaar away im gonna be in london on the 11th of august so the timing is horrible

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mentalsstuff

3 years ago

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mentalsstuff

3 years ago

For anyone who is struggling with their mental health and/or self care, I found a great app that can help! Finch has helped me a lot these past weeks with taking the time to calm down, understand what I'm feeling and how I can deal with it. Also the app is shaped like you're taking care of a pet, but in reality it's about yourself and I find that really motivating.

If you want a place to write down your feelings and get to know what they mean, Finch is a great place to start :)

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depression tips self care positivemindset not an ad

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mentalsstuff

3 months ago

AJ opening a book and looking up with a very shocked expression because of what he sees (it's a book in Chinese that he's meant to read for the game)

When you open the book and all you see is smut

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shoot from the hip sfth aj AJ's reaction in this game was hilarious recent book game 'That SLUG is a MAN' also look at this man he's perfect

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mentalsstuff

3 years ago

Having an eating disorder is far too goddamn fucking annoying. I'm either torn between starving myself until it hurts or eating because I know I'll just fail at starving.

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mentalsstuff

3 months ago