I do feel like this whole self improvement culture thing can go too far where people are never happy with who they are and where they are because they’re constantly trying to be better or do better and they’re always waiting for some sort of glow up or achievement or therapy realisation that will make them feel complete but that isn’t real and life is actually in the every day
There's a bunch of adhd advice out there that's like "people with adhd tend to work better under deadlines due to the anxiety so here are ways to artificially induce a stress response in order to get you to get work done" and it's like well what if I don't want to be stressed out all the time in order to function
Your trauma responses once kept you safe. Thank them, then gently let them know their job is done. It's time to grow.
how it feels knowing that life has not forgotten you, that it holds you in its hand and will not let you fall
if i see a group of men laughing i just know its not funny
Fragrance Of Lost Souls
Watercolor On Black Cotton Paper
2025, 22"x 30"
White Lilacs, Syringa vulgarus var. alba
the brain craves the diet coke, the body despises it, what else is new??
January 1972 // the coast // Oregon
i'm not going to lie. i would do this all the time
— February 1, 1922 | Franz Kafka diaries