the problem i run into men, without fail, is trying to talk to them like i talk to women and realizing that even the most conscious and progressive and evolved man just cannot reach me at the depth that women can. i want and expect that depth and complexity every time, but i need to let it go. i still enjoy talking to a handful of men, it’s not like it’s all horrible and boring—there’s fun and charm there. it’s just different.
it's 2024 and we still haven't found a way to make coke (the drink not the drug) healthy :(
winter fruit, december 2022.
shot on iphone 6s
Jami Nakamura Lin, The Night Parade
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The "kids are on their damn phones all the time" conversation has changed in an extremely significant way and I'm not sure people realize it. When kids had flip phones, and even in the early days of smartphones, kids were using their phones to text each other. It was part of an active social life. Now they're using their phones more and more to consume content from influencers or other accounts. It's more passive and it's increasingly what people are doing instead of socializing with each other. This applies to adults too, I just keep thinking about high school students.
stop trying to be palatable, stop trying to be palatable, stop
The Drowned, by Josef Manés (1867).
watery room 2, with my sleeping puppy