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Please pray for my city. There’s been a terrorist attack in central London.
I’m safe and so are my loved ones but others haven’t been so lucky. Please spare a thought for them.
It’s spring fever. That is what the name of it is. And when you’ve got it, you want—oh, you don’t quite know what it is you do want, but it just fairly makes your heart ache, you want it so!
Mark Twain (via currentsinbiology)
Please reblog. There is a text version of the suicide hotline. Help is out there. Stay strong. I’ve been there. Asking for help is NOT a sign of weakness. Stolen from ImgUr.
The man behind the powers.
Source:
https://www.comixology.com/Superman-Grounded-Vol-1/digital-comic/337786
I want to start a thing.
I love my ML fandom. I do, more than any other fandom I have been a part of.
But in the last 3 months I have seen a distressing amount of posts come across my dash of people feeling that Non- Lovesquare things get overlook or worse actively criticized and even harassed. This is a problem. Not because people shouldn’t like what they like ::aggressively cuddles my Marichat square::: but because there are SO MANY THINGS that are great about this show that aren’t JUST the love square.
SO I am proposing a thing. A-typical April. a slew of prompts and challenges that have nothing to do with the lovesquare. Lets celebrate the friendships, the kwamis, the families, other ships- canon or noncanon!, heck the villains! I will personally put aside time to have a day of Gorilla appreciation! That man needs more love!
As we get closer and closer to the premiere of season 2 let’s take some time to appreciate everything else wonderful in the ML fandom!
Anyone else up for it?
Reminder: Girls/women can be abusive too. If you have been abused by a girl/woman it’s okay, you aren’t weak because of it. If you are in an abusive relationship, leave. If you feel like you can’t, ask for help or talk to someone.
Because of the reboot Gatomon will be able to grow up again without those years of loneliness and those memories of that bastard Myotismon.
But then you realize she won’t remember Wizardmon or the friendship they shared either.
Of fucking course
What sick bastard doesn’t
1st sentence: That is it! We're done!
“That is it! We’re done!”Chat stormed away, feeling anger coursing through his veins. He’d had enough- no one in his life was willing to tell him the truth, and finding out that she was no different…“Chat, wait–” she called out after him, tears in her eyes.“No! You promised!” he shook off her hand, stepping out of her reach. “You promised, and you lied!”“I didn’t–”“You said nobody would die,” he argued, fist clenching as he paced in front of her. “But he just got crushed and–”Marinette walked up and pinched his nose, effectively silencing him as she continued to chuckle. “Would you just come sit down and finish the movie you silly cat? I promise you, Wall-E has a happy ending!”Keeping her grip on his nose, she pulled him back into her room to watch the rest of the film, marveling at how emotional her precious kitty could be.
Gonna adit… this was almost pure angst…. but then I remembered this thing called a twist ending and… wait… did I trick you? Bwehehehe XDEnjoy!
Reblog and put in the tags:
- what you call the things in the first two pictures - how you pronounce the thing in the third picture (caramel)
Moana + characters being aware that they are in a Disney movie
seriously, fuck the false dichotomy between Science and The Arts. as if capital-S Science isn’t an art that requires creativity, perseverance, patience, and skilled observation. as if The Arts don’t require rigor, discipline, practice, and attention to detail. as if both aren’t cultural structures that stand on foundations of sexist, racist, capitalist hierarchy. as if they both can’t be used for purposes of enrichment and revolution. i am so fucking over this idea of presenting science and art as opposites, when they have so much more in common than people think.
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Hopefully everyone has gotten a chance to get a copy of Deadpool (2015-) #20 by now.
Obviously, trigger warnings for suicide
So, Deadpool #20 is a standalone issue that specifically targets the issue of suicide and we’re going to jump right to the ending to start off with: the writer’s, Gerry Duggan, message
I don’t actually think it’s outlandish to try to do a helpful story about suicide prevention with Deadpool as the protagonist. Like Duggan said, it wouldn’t be the easiest story to write, but it makes sense in an odd way. Deadpool is probably the most suicidal character ever if only because he is immortal and yet is constantly trying to kill himself and lets people murder him when it’s easier than fighting.
It’s also coincidentally the right time for this type of story with this type of character.
If this story came out in the 90s when Deadpool first debuted I don’t think it would be well received. The bro fans would complain about it being an afterschool special and people in general with think it’s in bad taste for character like Deadpool to be in a PSA like this, that’s Superman’s job (which we’ll get to in a second)
That was a Generation X audience; very disenfranchised, cynical and very angry about it.
This is a millennial audience, very disenfranchised, cynical and resigned to it all.
It’s an unarguable fact that the Baby Boomers are the worst generation ever and so when Generation X came along and got the shit end of their decadence and eventual complacency about civil rights they were understandably angry. Even grunge was pretty angry; you would sing with melancholy “I’m a loser baby, so why don’t you kill me” but this was underlined by rebellion. It was the clapback to the failed “give peace a chance”
Fuck you and your bigoted warmongering capitalism. I’m out, I’m done so why don’t you kill me?
Generation X is the exhausted end of this anger and is clearly exhibited by meme culture. Fuck you, everything’s a joke, how the hell are we can it dig ourselves out of this pit? Might as well kill myself ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Anger and aggression has become the joke. Celebrities are reading “mean comments” on Jimmy Kimmel that say things like “fight me, you piece of shit” and don’t understand that that means “I’m a really big fan of yours and am probably sexually attracted to you”
So why is a character created out of this angry high adrenaline culture the best one to speak to an exasperated culture that mocks angry high adrenaline?
Because he isn’t condescending.
You want to kill yourself? So does everybody else but there’s a lot of stuff on Netflix we still need to get to so let’s try to make the best of it.
Deadpool isn’t a happy person telling sad people to cheer up.
Arguably the most popular/cited superhero comic about suicide prevention was made for Generation X audience in 2006’s All-Star Superman #10
It was effective for a lot of people and pleasantly regarded by the general public but some people didn’t like it.
I’m obviously arguing that if this were to come out now the majority of people wouldn’t like it.
This girl is a complete stereotype. She could easily be the poster girl for the “rebellious” trope.
You can totally tell she’s depressed because look how dark her clothes are.
And then Superman comes along knowing fuck all about her giving her a shallow complement based on absolutely nothing and then hugs her.
He tells her it’s not that bad.
It is bad.
Things are really bad.
I think Deadpool #20 is better even if it only conveys camaraderie in the badness.
The cover alone conveys that
Deadpool sees a girl, conventionally attractive but within ordinary aesthetic, about to jump to her death
He jokes about it in a very deadpan and abysmal millennial way. Much like Superman, Deadpool knows nothing about this girl but he doesn’t condescend to her
He’s not the right guy for the job
He doesn’t know her or have any stake in her well-being
He doesn’t belittle her decision but implores her to give it a little time
What does Deadpool know best? Showtunes and beating people up so he does what he knows best and the distraction gives her the ability to feel and just do something, anything
Then what? He still doesn’t know what the right thing to do or say is. There is no right thing to do or say. He gives for the resources to talk to people that have at least been trying to figure out the best way to help in this situation longer than he has
He doesn’t force her to use these resources and he offers to go with her as an equal
As a few people pointed out, going into inpatient care is not fun, nor is any other option. The problems are numerous and frightening but we have to make do until we can build better systems, but that’s not really the point of the comic. It’s how to handle these things in the current system and when you have no idea what to do. Whether it was because the Deadpool team got consultants on the issue of whether they lucked into it I believe they nailed it.
It’s not an comic that will prevent someone from committing suicide, in my opinion, but it’s an comic that will help people know how to better react to their loved ones who are suicidal.
We’ve discussed suicide extensively on this blog from many angles and the consensus has always been that what helps is when people don’t condescend to you, don’t just tell you to feel better, don’t invalidate your right to do what you want with your body. What helps is being there, as an equal, to consider the decision further.
You may want to kill yourself and you have the right to do that but remember that you don’t have to do it right now. You will still have the option tomorrow or the day after. It is a huge and final decision and you need to consider it as clearheaded as possible. Do something fun or mundane and just distracting to get you through the next few minutes or hours and then explore all your options.
A suicide hotline might not work for you, nor will a hospital but they are options that are not permanent. You can try them. If suicide is really the right decision for you it will still be an option after you explore these avenues.
Remember, you can always make the decision tomorrow. Give today a chance.
Kim: Max is on a family trip so while he’s gone I’m gonna cut the sleeves off of all my shirts.
Alix: Why???
Kim: He’s pretty much 85% of my impulse control.
group chat has to remind mari to eat/sleep/stretch if she’s been designing for too long
alya: hi mari this is your hourly reminder to fucking get up and stretch oh my god you’re probably crouched over that chair like a shut in go for a walk gdi
adrien: ok so…..i texted you four hours later…..like you told me…..i hope you’re eating. lunch is important.
nino: get some h2o up in that bitch or i swear to god dude
alya has to call a fucking intervention every time she loses more than ten ladyblog followers overnight
one day, just to fuck with her, the three of them all unfollow her the same day and she bursts into class screaming
“we’re not mutuals anymore ????? who the fuck why the fuck ???”
when someone’s sick or having a bad day, adrien stops by their house and drops off little care packages bc he’s literally perfect
photocopied notes from class, homework, water bottles, snacks, medicine, candy, a get well card, you name it
alya takes pictures of all of them and keeps an album
mari keeps the cards in a scrapbook for her shitty days
nino cries almost every time he gets one
the three of them pitch in to do one for adrien when he’s sick but he somehow manages to outdo all three of them consistently
nino starts an instagram account that’s literally just videos of mari and chloe fighting. alya and adrien both help moderate it
mari has no idea it exists so like sometimes the three of them will be cackling over nino’s phone and try to cover up what they were doing when she walks by
she thinks she missed out on a meme or something
everyone in school follows it
they rabbit a new anime every week bc adrien just keeps finding new ones and he always says “no trust me they’re so good” and they can’t say no to that face, he’s so excited, literally how adrien
kid has a good taste in anime, so six hour binges on saturday night are at least entertaining
yuri on ice left mari and nino crying and adrien recorded it for posterity
adrien and mari make gym days a thing on sundays bc for some reason they’re fitness freaks and when did that happen they’re also so ripped like how ? ?
mari and adrien go through the whole shebang: cardio weights, machines, stretching, you have it
alya just stays on the elliptical the whole time watching reality tv on the televisions above her
nino stays on his phone the whole time walking on the treadmill instead of actually running
adrien: they’re working up to it.
mari: we’re going for a run next week. no technology allowed.
I’m honestly in tears. I am incredibly upset, I am shaking, I am furious. I need this post to reach as many people as possible, because I want everyone to be aware about this and we need to work together to help bring this young girl home safely. I have a lot of followers so I’m hoping this will spread quickly so more people are aware of this.
This is Kennedi High. You may have seen her circling through your dashboard. She’s 16 years old and she has gone missing, and so far everyone has pieced together through her snapchat story that something is really, really wrong. She’s acting funny, and recently her snapchat story has been updated: “I’m with this other man and he telling me I’m never going back home to see my family.” A lot of people think this may be a case of sex trafficking, and it most likely is, and I’m honestly terrified for her.
She’s originally from Baltimore, MD, though it’s said that she may currently be in the Mountain View California region. Please spread this if you can, reblog any other posts you find about her and get this story out. I’m absolutely sickened and shaken and I just want her to be safe. This is so important to me.
Not to mention, there’s been reports of over 64,000 black girls missing across the United States, and it’s most likely due to sex trafficking. 64,000 black girls. That’s just crazy. This is terrifying and needs more media coverage, this needs to be spread everywhere. We need to protect black girls. They need our help.
If you guys have any more information to add to this post or correct, please please feel free. I’ll try to add any other updates I find on the situation. In the meantime, if you can, please this reblog or any other posts relating to Kennedi and spread the word. Tell everyone about it. This needs everyone’s attention.
“Bitch please, you bond more readily than fluorine” “I think you’ll find I sexually identify as the periodic table” “Did you just assume my oxidation state?!” “Honey if you were any more unreactive you’d be a noble gas” “Wow, fluorine really is a slut” “So dative covalent bonding is basically atomic double penetration right?” “Yo, imagine a bath bomb made of pure caesium” “What’s a commercial use of sodium chloride?” “It’s literally salt, you can- you know what, never mind, you’re white” “I think you’ll find my enthalpy change is infinite” “Guys what’s the Avocado constant again?” “You know that acid is highly corrosive, you probably shouldn’t sit there with it pretty much in your lap” “You know, our friendship is stronger than a hydrogen-fluorine covalent bond” “I would literally pay you to set me on fire and calculate my enthalpy of combustion” “Forget Hess cycles, you’re a fucking mess cycle”
I use to try avoid post like these but, karma has a funny way of working. I know that I don’t post a lot and am not really that popular but my family needs help. My dad, Carlos, fell down a flight of stairs and hurt his arm and shoulder and is now unable to go to work. He is has a very strong sense of pride, so he didn’t even tell me. (machismo, but anyway) I just noticed that my family back home was struggling more than we usually do. I’m in college, so I don’t regularly get to see them. My sister told me what happened, and how there isn’t enough money to make bills.
He’s a good man and I am soooo soooooo lucky to have this man as a father. He was the best father to me when I came out, and actively worked to make schools more accepting of the LGBT+ community ever since. He has ALWAYS been serious about keeping our roots (Afro-Cuban), and our religion. If anyone was down the would always make time to make people smile.
He actively tries to make peoples days brighter, whether it’s at work or in the grocery store. I know that he’s in a bad place right now, and just won’t mention it. He went to the doctor yesterday and was told that he needs to have the surgery as soon as possible to prevent any permanent damage to his shoulder and arm, he estimated that he would need the surgery by May 5th before the injury does damage to his nervous system. My mother and my sister are constantly at their alter praying for change in this situation.
So, all my siblings and I are starting a GoFundMe campaign for him so we can pay for the surgery. I completely understand if you can give any donation (I’m a college student, I know), I would just ask to please please please share, or pray to whichever god(dess) you worship, or even do a small spell for us to reach the goal. I just want my dad to be back the goofy, kind man that he is.I can’t thank you guys enough for even reading this.
LINK: https://www.gofundme.com/carlos-needs-your-help-for-surgery
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE SHARE
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PRAY FOR US
LINK: https://www.gofundme.com/carlos-needs-your-help-for-surgery
Orphaned baby bats are often swaddled tightly like teeny burritos to mimic being cuddled by mom and help ease separation anxiety.
They also seem to find pacifiers soothing.
I guess I wasn’t “colourful” enough. - multiple exposures shot on medium format film instagram