Our Ex: You Just Need To Learn How To Take Responsibility For Doing Stuff.

i actually completely agree with what you said. the original post i made was specifically about nondisordered plurals. my autism makes me struggle with the concept of it a lot and people consistently throwing around ableist when theyre actively trying to say its not disordered makes my struggle even worse

how is not believing in endos ableist? if you're not disordered how can you be disabled (in this specific way, def not saying you cant be at all)?

like how do you get away with calling the people that are actively disabled by this condition ableist????

Thank you for sharing your perspective. It really is appreciated.

why tf do endos treat being a system like its an identity that you can pick and choose to label? why do they constantly push the transphobic rhetoric of using "traumascum" to refer to traumatized individuals that just dont want people to treat their symptoms like its fun?

being plural/being a system is nothing like being lgbtq+ and i really think we need to stop treating it as such

yes we are a community, but this community is one formed on the basis of being traumatized as kids, its not based on something we choose to refer to ourselves as

we need to be there to support each other but not blindly. we need to help spread information to others with the symptoms so they can receive help.

you wouldnt treat people with personality disorders the way you treat systems so why is it acceptable to treat systems this way?

NPD crash + BPD splitting culture is Turbulent by Waterparks

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so thanks to some mental health stuff™️ i didnt get to finish my 31 batfam fics i was writing for october so like definitely going to get on that

but on that note (caus all i ever write is angst) why tf is there not more cass and duke centric angst fics

like guys theres such untapped potential here please

Night One of being on lamotrigine for my bipolar

tried latuda back in november/december and had some bad physical reactions so heres to hoping this time goes better

will say i was hoping to get the drowsy side effect tonight like i normally get from new psych meds but thats not happening at all which kinda sucks ass, was hoping to be able to sleep lol

sometimes your relationship is actually just a situationship/fwbs situation with your ex, his new fwb and you

catch me making them dinner tonight while we watch movies and cuddle

lost focus and had a consensual workplace relationship

JUST WATCHED THE NEW EPISODE OF DAREDEVIL BORNA AGAIN

AT THE THAT IS NOT MY SHAYLA HE WOULD NEVER

CANT WAIT FOR HIM TO COME BEAT ALL THE COPS ASSES

sidenote i am also most definitely waiting for matt to crash tf out, its gonna happen, man is going to lose his marbles

would any systems be interested in system penpal exchanges? we really want a penpal again and have just thought of how fun it could be to have a place for systems to find other systems to send letters and little trinkets to

Lets talk about how easy it is to abuse a narcissist.

Someone who's sense of worth is so fragile and dependant on the external is incredibly easy to manipulate and have power over. Someone who experiences being wrong as a threat to their entire being is less willing to admit they are being abused and leave. DARVOing is so much easier when society has decided your victim is the monster and inherently abusive themselves. The reactions of a narcissist to being abused can be of the kind that makes it easy to be labelled as "mutually abusive" (which is a myth, by the way, it is self defense)

There is no reason to think "mentally ill people are more likely to be abused than abuse others)" does not also apply to narcissists.