DESCENDANTS RANT
ok ok ok so like you know ella and bridget are now definitely like wtf why do i remember people that looked exactly like my kids a few years ago like the butterfly affect is definitely gonna impact shit now dear lord
also i hope red gets like therapy or smth caus miss girl has been raised in an abusive environment and then now has a nice mom and its like oof the whiplash and crazy emotions with that will be hard to navigate
all this to say im excited for the next movie already damn it
not excited for if we split anymore descendants introjects tho thats for sure
omfg literally stfu nobody cares about what you say
friendly reminder RAMCOA is real and exists. there are plenty of systems out there who have suffered this abuse and live their lives with the consequences.
i just think people need to remember them sometimes because they deserve to be acknowledged and feel seen too.
yall ever eat a whole can of beans for dinner?
caus like me rn fr
some days my stomach simply does not stomach
so here i am hungry but unable to even swallow solids without getting sick
so what do i do? make smoothie soup and a cup of lemon tea caus i know i need sustenance and id rather stick to just liquids than keep getting sick tonight
To be systempunk is to be critical of misinformation even in our own community, so I'll post my own two cents: hot take that should be "hot" as lukewarm water, but sysmeds don't exist.
"Sysmeds" are just people with DID/OSDD. In order to develop DID/OSDD you need to have experienced repetitive childhood trauma while on a certain age rage, be predisposed to dissociation as a coping mechanism and on top of all of that to be disconnected (this term can mean emotionally and/or physically) from your primary caregivers. If you haven't met any of the many levels of those criterias and you still claim to be a system, then you are not. This is a traumagenic disorder that has many comorbidities with other disorders, such as C-PTSD.
I do not care one bit if this post will send so called mixed origins "systems" down a spiral, do us a favour and stop with the blatant bastardization of terms related to actual medical misinformation such as transmedicalism. - 🏹🌿
ramcoa is very different than the satanic panic and all the examples that were listed are examples of ramcoa experiences. ritual abuse, mind control, and organized abuse exist and accepting that youre a victim of parts of it and have specific aspects and triggers because of it is valid.
literally stfu and educate yourself before blabbering all over the internet
how are you an adult and still think RAMCOA is a conspiracy theory? how sheltered are you? have you really next heard of sex trafficking, Mormons, jehova's witnesses, child csem groups... like genuinely. how sheltered can you be
i don't know how to tell you this, but none of these are examples of RAMCOA. as a theory, RAMCOA piggybacks off SRA (satanic ritual abuse) and the satanic panic of the 1980s, as well as things like project monarch with their at best pseudoscientific view of dissociative disorders. everything you mentioned is real (i have actually experienced one of these, so thanks for calling me sheltered BTW), i am specifically referring to RAMCOA as a concept.
if you are old enough to have either lived through the satanic panic, or experience its after effects firsthand, you should be able to tell that RAMCOA as a theory is no different than the satanic panic, Qanon, or any other conspiracy theory.
friendly reminder RAMCOA is real and exists. there are plenty of systems out there who have suffered this abuse and live their lives with the consequences.
i just think people need to remember them sometimes because they deserve to be acknowledged and feel seen too.
cringe system culture is having multiple introjects from fanfictions (almost more so than just base source introjects)
Justice for fanfiction introjects, they deserve a lot of love ‼‼
Love to hear about systems who have some "cringe source" introjects, it show that everyone is different and unique and it makes them equal valid!
Love you alters with cringe sources >u<
would anyone be interested in like a system news youtuber type of thing? that updates everyone on syscourse, drama, and medical updates from a nonbiased view? along with just talking about being a system and how it impacts things?
endos are all about not invading other community's spaces until it comes to traumatized systems that just want a place to post about themselves without endos
truly pissed off by endos trying to take over system punk
would any systems be interested in system penpal exchanges? we really want a penpal again and have just thought of how fun it could be to have a place for systems to find other systems to send letters and little trinkets to
THIS THIS THIS
It should be illegal to have a bus stop without a bench I am 1000% serious rn
systems being able to shapeshift wld be SO FUCKING COOL
ok ok so this might sound a bit gross so like if you arent prepared please keep scrolling
to my fellow gastroparesis havers, how do you manage the taste in your mouth? like the disgusting taste of rancid food thats sitting in your stomach? because thats all ive been tasting for days (and its definitely my fault cause i ate a whole bunch of ice cream and junk food) but i cant get it to go away at all and the last time this happened to this extent i ended up throwing it all up
so please give me tips if you have them
tomorrow we wont be homeless anymore
tomorrow we'll get to put our recovery before our survival
tomorrow we'll get to finally be ourselves after months of not being able to
The future should not be plural.
The future should accommodate for those with dissociative disorders.
The future should have further more thorough research in dissociative disorders.
The future should be more accepting of dissociative disorders.
BUT
The future should not be plural.
That means children are getting repeatedly traumatised at an impressionable age.
That means children don't have healthy coping mechanisms.
That means children AREN'T SAFE.
The future should not be plural, but it should be respectful and accepting to those who are.
recently found out we have an alice in wonderland failed programming script
how did we figure this out you may ask
oh you know when i came back to front to find a note of scribbled arguing from one alter to herself going back and forth between thinking shes crazy to thinking she doesnt have any disorders
i definitely dont mean a dissociative disorder specialist. i just mean a normal therapist. because even tho you might not have headmates as the result of trauma its still a neurodivergency and getting help with figuring the best way of working with your neurodivergency and figuring out and getting the accomodations you need in day to day life should be a priority for anyone.
gonna be so real
i think the only issue i really have with endogenic systems is that most are not willing to see a therapist or get professional help and theyre not willing to face the idea that they may actually have trauma or another mental health issue causing their system symptoms
i have the same issue with self diagnosed traumagenic systems that discount anything their therapists say if they bring up any other disorder first before DID/OSDD
like yall
for your health and wellbeing please be open to other options andnplease seek professional help to help navigate this stuff
like you wouldnt be like yea i have ehler danlos syndrome and not seek professional help because youre scared it could be an autoimmune disorder instead
i actually completely agree with what you said. the original post i made was specifically about nondisordered plurals. my autism makes me struggle with the concept of it a lot and people consistently throwing around ableist when theyre actively trying to say its not disordered makes my struggle even worse
how is not believing in endos ableist? if you're not disordered how can you be disabled (in this specific way, def not saying you cant be at all)?
like how do you get away with calling the people that are actively disabled by this condition ableist????
Please stop posting in the plural/plurality tags. They were made with endogenic systems in mind, and are pro-endo. We have our space and you have yours.
The only posts I tag with the plurality tags are ones that I want to discuss with endogenic systems. Like I'm not posting my anti-endo posts in that tag because im aware that its a pro-endo tag, im posting my endo neutral posts there because i want responses and want to learn more.
gonna be so real
i think the only issue i really have with endogenic systems is that most are not willing to see a therapist or get professional help and theyre not willing to face the idea that they may actually have trauma or another mental health issue causing their system symptoms
i have the same issue with self diagnosed traumagenic systems that discount anything their therapists say if they bring up any other disorder first before DID/OSDD
like yall
for your health and wellbeing please be open to other options andnplease seek professional help to help navigate this stuff
like you wouldnt be like yea i have ehler danlos syndrome and not seek professional help because youre scared it could be an autoimmune disorder instead
I'm hoping no one here still sees Legion (legion.sys on TikTok) as a legitimate source of information, but just in case you do, you should probably know that they have recently:
Gone 100% down the radfem/TERF pipeline
Made fun of the male suicide rate and complained about Men's Mental Health Month (their excuse is that they don't want it to be during Pride Month, but considering they openly call themselves a "proud misandrist", I don't think it matters to them whether or not Men's Mental Health Month is in June)
Derailed conversations about the genocide in Gaza in order to rant and make bizarre accusations about Israel running a "multinational trafficking ring" in the United States and United Kingdom, decentering actual victims of genocide in order to talk about RAMCOA instead and imply that there are people in the US and UK who are "directly affected" by the genocide instead of, you know, the actual Palestinians being murdered; said that the genocide itself is RAMCOA
Said that surrogacy and adoption are both forms of human trafficking, referred to adoptive parents as "PIEs" or "parent-identified exploiters"
Posted islamophobic and anti-religious content; saying that "islam supports pedophilia" and that "all abrahamic religions" are misogynistic and that you cannot be feminist and religious simultaneously, and
Spread egregious misinformation about ME/CFS, its symptoms and its diagnostic criteria that is easily disproved with basic Google searches; specifically coming up with non-existent "levels" of ME/CFS and stating that ME/CFS results in the growth of white matter in the brain when it's actually associated with the opposite
You should try supporting endos or at least listening to some endo perspectives if you’re interested! We have DID but from the endos we’ve interacted with, many of them genuinely do not fit the criteria for DID/OSDD, still feel and function as plural, and are just trying to live their lives in peace <3
There’s always room for more pro-endo DID systems (like us!) in the plural community!
i actually really do want to hear endogenic system's perspective. i have a post a bit ago where i asked a few questions because im genuinely curious about their experiences.
i kind of personally go by the idea that the two communities should be completely seperate especially since one is a disorder. i dont really care what endos do outside of what i see from them interacting with disordered systems, most of my anti endo posts are actually based on interactions ive seen or had with endos who come into other spaces and try to start arguments and whatnot.
gonna be so for real aspen frost makes me want to support endos
like why are they out here calling people slurs and being ableist while trying to spread information, some of which is def misinformation
its gross and i dont enjoy them existing in the same sphere of beliefs as me
ME WHEN I OPEN AO3 TO TRY AND FIND A GOOD PETER PARKER SYSTEM FIC AND FIND OURS AND DECIDE TO READ IT BECAUSE I HAVE NO RECOLLECTION OF WHAT WAS WROTE
Saying you have a "transfemme" alter in a dfab body is super fucking transphobic, I thought you'd know better. You can take your fake system and go play with the other fakes okay?
why is transphobic? give me like actual solid reasoning
im not saying you can be mtf in an afab body or ftm in an amab body while fronting
but there are identities under the trans umbrella that you can be that falls under masc and fem and honestly not respecting those identities feels more transphobic
yo ok syscourse moment
you can be transfem in a female body and transmasc in a male body
fuck anybody that says different
my favorite part of posting on here is that i get to have the anonymity of it
like on tiktok where i have 2500 followers i dont get to vent and post just little thoughts because i feel constantly seen
but here where i have like 40 smth followers and barely any of my posts get seen i have this feeling of being anonymous and just have the ability to express myself differently