Unbothered and Living my dream lifešŖšŖšŖ WINNER MENTALITY BPSY'28 pronouns:A GENIUS!
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Life works for me in unexpected ways!
I am blessed in every single aspect of life!
Failure doesn't exist in my reality,there is no choice but for my dr to happen!
I declare myself as SUCCESSFUL!!!
NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME!
ANYTHING I DESIRE,DESIRES ME MORE!
I DON'T CHASE,I RECEIVE!
Wealth is my birth right!
desire: the root of all suffering
The root of all suffering and lack is desire. The more you desire, the more lack you inflict on yourself, the more lack you experience. The very nature of desire is to lack, as you shall not desire something you already own.
When you drop the desire, you allow yourself to be fulfilled and complete as you are, you connect to your truest essence and realize you are awareness and already have everything you thought you desired. You never lacked anything and if you ever saw lack, you saw an illusion that separated you from who you truly are.
You're the beginning and the end, yet you're also an infinite, complete being. You don't have to do anything, you don't have to be a doer, you don't have to act towards love or abundance as you are already nothing but love and abundance. You cannot lack what you already are, you cannot lack your essence. If you're everything, how can you not have everything already?
How I feel after scripting I'm good at an unrealistic amount of things
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hellour again! iām free these days, so iād thought iād make another long post; this time about the self-fulfilling prophecy and how Florence Scovel Shinn writes about a similar concept in her book The Game of Life and How to Play it. specifically, in the third chapter.
i really like Scovel Shinnās works, especially because she was one of the pioneers of the New Thought school at the time, even before Neville. itās clear that she was a very wise metaphysical author, and more people should give her some credit!
i love my major, and i love manifestation. so any chance i have to correlate both is one i will take!
remember the academic book i got this information from is Social Psychology 11th Edition authored by Kassin, Fein and, H.R. Markus. iāll try to condense the information to make it less convoluted and understandable.
according to sociologist Robert Merton, the self-fulfilling prophecy is a process by which oneās expectation about someone will eventually lead to that person behaving in ways that confirm those expectations. in other words, the perceiver's (person who takes note of another) expectation can actually lead to its own fulfillment, a self fulfilling prophecy.
this hypothesis actually lay dormant until Robert Rosenthal and Lenore Jacobson, published the results of their research in a book titled Pygmalion in the Classroom.
what did this study consist of? well, these researchers noticed that teachers had higher expectations for students who performed better in the classroom and they wondered whether these expectations influenced student performance rather than the other way around.
to address the question, they told teachers in a San Francisco elementary school that certain pupils were on the verge of an intellectual growth spurt. the results of an IQ test were cited, but in fact, the pupils had been randomly selected. eight months later, when real tests were administered, the "late bloomers" exhibited an increase in their IQ scores compared with children assigned to a control group. they were also evaluated more favorably by their classroom teachers (Kassin 144).
we can transform our expectations of others into reality using a three-step process:
- first, a perceiver forms an impression of a target person, which may be based on interactions with the target or on other information.
- second, the perceiver behaves in a manner that is consistent with that first impression.
- third, the target person unwittingly adjusts his or her behavior to the perceiver's actions. The net result is behavioral confirmation of the first impression.
in simpler terms, what we think is what we project onto others. that process is called the confirmation bias. this is nothing more than the perceiver asking the target person questions that confirm their beliefs. for example, if we assume that a person is in a varsity team because of the jacket theyāre wearing, we will ask them things that either confirm or deny that assumption. small things like these that we do unconsciously:
āare you on the basketball team?ā
ādo you go to blank university?ā
we can also apply this to ourselves:
(shown on a pic because i donāt wanna copy paste the info :D)
using psychology to tie into the law and my previous long post about the self-concept, we can see why words and the way we perceive ourselves is important when we reprogram our minds into thinking in a more positive light.
chapter III, The Power of the Word
āBy thy words shalt be justified, and by thy words shalt be condemned.ā
in her first book The Game of Life and How to Play It, she mentions a saying that reads: āman only dares use his words for three purposes: to heal, bless or prosper.ā she also mentions that what man says of others will be said of him, and what he wishes for another, he is wishing for himself (Scovel 24).
āCurses, like chickens, come home to roost.ā
what does this mean? well, like we saw in the bit about the self-fulfilling prophecy, what we say about others is what we attract for ourselves. for example, if we wish ill onāsayāanother tumblr user, we are sure to receive it as well. on the other hand, if we are kind to one another and support our journeys with manifestation, we will be able to reach our own success.
edward art mentions this too. but he calls it something more simple. love.
Scovel Shinn mentions in this chapter that when the subconscious is flooded with good things, or words in this case, the superconscious (God or imagination) and man are one.
āIt is safe to say that all sickness and happiness come from the violation of the Law of Love.ā
in this story she mentions an actress with a terrible skin disease:
as we can see in this story, any problems in the outside world indicate a deeper issue in the mind.
āAs the within, so the without.ā
we know that the self fulfilling prophecy implies that the way we perceive others is the way they will reflect on the outside. this is what the good-will Scovel Shinn mentions is about.
"But I say unto you, love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which spitefully use you and persecute you."
sometimes we get jealous of others' journeys. we read a success story and wonder āwhat am i doing wrong? maybe if i do what this person did i will manifest all my desires.ā but remember weāre all different. what works for another might not work for us, and thatās okay :)
the beauty about spirituality is that we all have our own paths to follow, each with their unique experiences. trying out techniques you donāt like because you saw them in a āthis is the fastest way to manifestā video will not fulfill you. and what doesnāt fulfill you will only make you give up.
iāve seen this thrown around loablr and shiftblr, but iāll reiterate in this post. please donāt police others on their journey. the only thing that will do is set you back.
next time you see a success story around the community, be happy for them! if anything, itās a great thing to see on your dash because it's proof that the law always works in your favor. every time. so letās wish each other well, practice gratitude, and focus on ourselves!
"There is peace on earth for him who sends goodwill to man!"
ps im plugging the song i listened to while writing this post because sharing is caring. take care!
The whole thing is finished and all I do is adjust to it and "feelā myself there until it becomes natural.
āNeville Goddard
Everything you can think of is present now. You cannot conceive of something that is not already worked out in detail; but it is a shadow if you do not dwell in it.
āNeville Goddard
If you are in control of what you are imagining, not a thing in this world is impossible to you.
āNeville Goddard
Anything you can think of exists now.
āNeville Goddard
The assumption - though denied by your senses if you persist in it, it will harden into fact.
āNeville Goddard
Can you believe it? There is no other limitation, other than man's capacity to believe what he has imagined.
āNeville Goddard
āYou can believe anything if you do not accept the facts your senses dictate: for nothing is impossible to imagine. Imagining, if persisted in and believed, will create its own reality.ā
āNeville Goddard
The Creator is your own wonderful human Imagination. That is God.
āNeville Goddard
If you obsess over whether you are making the right decision, you are basically assuming that the universe will reward you for one thing and punish you for another. The universe has no fixed agenda. Once you make any decision, it works around that decision.
āDeepak Chopra
Take your attention away from your problem and the multitude of reasons why you cannot achieve your ideal. Concentrate your attention entirely upon the thing desired.
āNeville Goddard
Nothing is impossible to the mind. All it's guidance and power are available to you. When you fully realize that thought causes all, you will know there are never any limits that you yourself do not impose.
āU.S. Andersen
I can imagine what I want, and therefore it is possible for me.
āAbraham Hicks
God does not ask you to consider the means,but to define the end and dwell on it.
āNeville Goddard
Imagination is reality
your desire becomes truth when you accept it as truth
you are your only tormentor and savior, everything always depends on you and your state of being. you are the one standing in the way of fulfilling your desires because being in a state of lack suits you, but why? ask yourself why you remain faithful to something that makes you unhappy instead of becoming your salvation.
let go of the old version of yourself and the old story, give yourself confidence in your awareness of being and accept your desire.
shut out the old senses.
shut out the old external world.
shut out anything that doesnāt align with what you want.
Set a timer for 17 seconds.
All you have to do is embody it for 17 seconds without resistance.
Decide that only those 17 matter and go about your day.
Go within?? Where the fuck is within???
You need to stop searching outside of yourself for the 4D. You know what the 4D is ALSO called? The internal world. Your 4D is not going to be found in other people.
It's easy to default to others. It's easy to think they have some divine intel that separates them from you but I promise you get it more than you think you do. Start valuing your own input.
What do YOU think?
What you decide to believe is the foundation of your reality. Listen to yourself. It helps things click.
You don't have to believe everything you read. If you finish a post on LOA and you feel like shit because that's not how you want to see manifesting, great news you get to make the rules.
If you want to believe manifesting works a certain way then it does.
There is no getting it wrong because you make the rules.
Write down what YOU believe about manifesting, not what user482658 believes, what you do.
Putting something in your own words is so important. Honestly if you struggle with LOA get a journal and write down your understanding of it. Write down how you think it works. Write how you'd explain it to someone else.
Fill in your own gaps. Why? Because in LOA you decide what is and isn't true. This is YOUR 3D. You decide how this shit works.
What do YOU want the answer to be? Decide that you're right.
Decide that something is in your 4D/internal world and then ignore what is in your external world/3D because fuck that bitch it doesn't know shit you do.
Spend time with yourself without external input
Ground, go on a walk, climb a tree, reconnect with your body.
Write down your own beliefs about LOA
Make your own plan to manifest based off of those beliefs
Stop valuing others opinions more than your own
You are the master of your reality, what you decide to believe is the truth. Trust yourself.
Shut out the external world and external opinions, do what you want not what they want you to do
If you have heard a piece of advice and it makes you feel limited chuck that shit in the trash
You decide how manifestation works, you decide how you want to do it, you decide. If you don't like affirmations don't use them, if you hate visualization fuck that bitch you don't need her.
I do love the guy dearly and quote him a lot, but I have also been exploring the work of other authors on manifestation. It's important to get varying perspectives!
If you're interested in branching out, the two I enjoy most (aside from Nev) are Ernest Holmes and H. Emilie Cady, and both have free pdf versions of their books online. š
imo, i don't really like when people say "if you had your desire, how would you feel?" it's not an if. something that helped me is changing the if to since.
since you have your desire, how do you feel?
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Friends, can you share in the comments the songs that you associate with manifestation, law of assumption, magic, omnipotence over this Universe and etc.? That is, songs that, when you listen to them, remind you of your power over this realityā¦
The lyrics of the song are not even that important, what matters is that you feel like God at the moment you listen to it! ā¤ļø
I'll start first:
Ava Max - Born to the Night.
Harry Styles - As It Was.
Twice - I CAN'T STOP ME.
Dua Lipa - Don't Start Now.
Dua Lipa - That Kind Of Woman.
Dua Lipa (feat. DaBaby) - Levitating.
Gloria Gaynor - I WIll Survive.
TXT - Blue Hour (thx @drearyymoon).
MARINA - Ancient Dreams (thx @firefly-speaks-about-nothing).
Carrie underwood - Champion (thx @kramerrocks4).
Carlina - Lucky Girl (thx @rosasarerosies).
Ariana Grande - just like magic (thx @allthenamearetakengurl).
Your sp is chatting with another person ? Don't care they are obsessed with you
Your friend point out your weight and how weird (you're cute btw) your body is ? Don't care you have your desired body
Your parents are yelling at you for not having good grades ? Breath in and out and forget it you're extremely intelligent and have A+//100 everytime
Your hair are looking terrible ? No they don't you have your desired hair texture and they are flawless
You didn't woke up in the void/ you were not aware ? No you're delusional you're a literal void master and you were aware and you did in fact enter it
You never shift and you're frustrated about it everyday ? No you're not and you always shift you shift everyday
Your bullies told you you were ugly ? Don't care you're pretty and don't react it's their karma not yours bby
You don't have any clothes ? Yes you do look at your wardrobe
You're poor and money is the biggest issue of your life ? You're rich wdym
You hate your life aka old story ? Good because it's not your reality
In conclusion, DON'T CARE ABOUT THE 3D it's literally not your job to change it it's just the 3D being a absolute idiot the 4D is perfectly implying why are you not focusing on it ? If something is doing something better of course you're gonna focus on it so focus on the 4D not the 3D..