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trans men existing around trans women are not a threat to those trans women. trans men occupying space made for trans men and/or accepting of trans men are not taking space away from trans women. the concept of transmanhood is not a threat to trans women. coining a term for the specific type of transphobia trans men face is not diminishing transmisogyny. trans men expressing how manhood makes them feel euphoric is not being done to make trans women feel dysphoric.

we good? okay. stop with the rad fem shit. it's actually good & healthy & normal for trans men and women to share the same spaces &trade experiences & engage in discussion about their differences. we don't have to separate everything in life by gender. the outside world is not school. you literally don't have to separate people by gender for the rest of your life. let's move on.

now, everybody say "thank you Tumblr forcemasc tag!" For turning "I am going to die young, unhappy and untransitioned." Into "I will transition and properly be a man even if it kills me" faster than any antidepressants.

change is nature. come back to your roots

suffering is only noble and good if you're doing it for wired wrong pervert reasons actually

reblog if you're excited for the holidays, or if you want hot t4t sex right now

yall I love kinky trans sex but I alsoooo love soft trans sex. loving trans sex. vulnerable trans sex. trans sex with giggles and kisses and massaging and hands gently wandering all over. trans sex that last for hours and has conversation or comfortable silence in between. trans sex with scar kissing or body worship or affirmations throughout. trans sex where you don't have to wonder if they see your body as yours. to be fully seen and cherished and taken as you are. we deserve that

We need more recognition in this world about fucking pussy with t-dick 🥵.

Spreading yourself open after they pumped, their angry cock desperate for a warm hole to fuck.

Feeling their cock sinking into your entrance. Your hole throbbing in response, massaging and coaxing it in deeper.

Their thick puffy cock rubbing against your most sensitive parts. Hearing them groan as your heat envelopes them. They tell you how amazing your hole feels, how the wet clenching heat makes them stiffen up and grow even more. How they're so hard their sensitive cockhead is exposed, rutting and catching against your entrance. How badly them want to claim your hole and paint your insides with their cum.

Grabbing their ass while you feel an orgasmic tingle building up inside you. Feeling their cock rubbing against you, and their mound grinding against your neglected throbbing t-dick. Moaning uncontrollably as you feel your hole clenching and cumming all over their cock.

Your velvety hole massaging their cock and covering them even more in your slick. They can't take it anymore; you feel them rut into you and throb against your entrance, their own slick mixing with yours and trickling down your ass.

Feeling them collapse onto you because they just poured everything out of their dick and into you. Giving them back scratches n kisses while feeling the fresh combined cum settle between your legs.

Just some thoughts

"trans men have no culture" "trans men really are the men of the trans community" "trans men don't experience unique oppression" "trans men cling to being afab" hi have you considered that maybe you have some sort of bias which is why you don't talk to us or know anything about us

Did you know that you can believe systemic misandry on its own isn't real while also believing marginalized men are in fact oppressed in a unique way due to their manhood intersecting with their marginalized status... woa.. waow.. wow... and.. maybe they should have words for that..

Not to mention. Not allowing marginalized men to have words for specific kinds of bigotry they face further perpetuates the patriarchal idea that male experiences are 'the default'.

Y'know, when cis people pull the 'All trans men have to do to pass is throw on a hoodie and cut their hair.' It's like... Right. That's dumb, but you're cis, and you will never understand the lived trans experience.

It bothers me more when trans women say it. Because it's like? You know things aren't that easy, you are trans.

Trans women get shoulder dysphoria from feeling like they're too wide, hip dysphoria from feeling like they're too slim, chest dysphoria from feeling like it's too flat, voice dysphoria from feeling like it's too low, height dysphoria from feeling too tall. And no one will suggest to them that these feelings (and subsequent perceptions and hate from cis people) will be solved by growing out their hair and throwing on a dress.

What makes them think trans men don't experience the exact same things but in reverse? Shoulders that feel too narrow, hips that feel too wide, chest that feels too big, voice that feels too high, height that feels too short.

If you experience dysphoria, know dysphoria, and know how awful it can get. And you also know that cis people will use these things against you in order to misgender you. Then I do not understand why you would pretend another party in the same category would not have these issues whatsoever.

And I feel the need to clarify, because this always happens when someone makes a post about trans men's struggles. This is not a dig at trans women, this is not transmisogyny. This is about a very specific group of trans people who downplay the issues of trans men. If you are not part of that group, good! Then this is not a dig at you.

Op turned off reblogs but I think everyone should see it

do you actually care about trans men or do you relegate male pregnancy to the status of "gross but funny fanfiction trope" at best and "literal body horror" at worst? do you actually care about trans men or have you accepted without question the ideas that bottom growth is a borderline-torturously painful process and phalloplasty is a dangerous surgery with objectively unsatisfactory results because they confirm your implicit assumptions about the violence and horror of masculinization? do you actually care about trans men or do you think testosterone being a controlled substance is fair because you prioritize fairness in sports more highly than transmasculine lives? do you actually care about trans men or do you distance yourself from us as we transition and make half-joking comments about us being traitors because you view transmasculinity as a shift from ally to enemy? do you actually care about trans men or do you get mad at us when we read transmasculine experiences into female characters because you see it as an act of theft and believe transmasculinity is inherently less valuable than womanhood? do you actually care about trans men or is your first thought when you see a transition timeline about how pretty the "before" picture is? do you actually care about trans men or does your interest in our lives begin and end with how badly you want a boypussy to fuck?

do we exist to you as real people or only in theory? do you read the stories we tell, listen to the music we make? how many of us can you name? when we speak, do you listen? would you fight for us? do you trust us to know ourselves best? are you our friend? do you mourn us when we're gone? do you care for us while we're still here?

To any trans man who needs to hear this: When they say they “hate all men” or want to “kill all men,” you don’t have to just accept that. It’s okay to feel hurt, it’s okay to feel unsafe. It’s okay to recognize that they are either othering your manhood or demonizing you for it, and to call them out for it if you’re in a position to. If they have trauma around men, they can work on that in private instead of expressing harmful sentiments around their marginalized male friends. You deserve love and safety. I love you and I hope I can help you feel safe.

the craziest thing about being transmasc or a trans man is that people LOVE to say you’re gonna look ugly, gonna turn ugly etc. and personally for a while i bought into this nonsense. but one day i decided fuck it, decided to transition and you know what happened? i still retained the most handsome parts of the person i was before. but i looked happier. i looked more beautiful, more handsome, prettier, stylish, hot. because i finally looked like me & so much happier and confident. anyway, this is just to say - go transition dude, if you’re hesitating. you will only look even more handsome & beautiful, fuck their propaganda.

alert alert a trans man expressed enjoyment in being a man for a moment and didn’t feel sorry about it y’all gotta do something about it how dare he say “men are cool” without stating he knows oppression and patriarchy exists and he’s sorry before that

okay im gonna say it. if you're not transmasc, you don't get to have an opinion about forcemasc. personally it's not my thing, but again, if you're not transmasc it's none of your business. it's not your place to call it misogynist or say it's not a real kink or whatever the fuck. let trans men have one thing, the world doesn't revolve around you

My sister in Christ trans men are constantly infantilized and forcibly feminized and being masculine is punished by our peers because inside queer spaces it’s always ‘men yucky’ or ‘men evil’ like friendly reminder that not all masculinity is praised and not all femininity is punished

Most trans people were forced into a role they didnt want. Forcemasc is directed to transmascs and butches, not trans women. Same way around with forcefem.

not to be sincere on the horny blog but i think the reason so many queer masc afabs and transmascs like forcemasc content is because it feels like being finally listened to.

like we go through life getting told we’re just confused girls, or we’ll never be man enough, or we probably just didn’t want to be like mommy, or it’s because we’re mentally ill, or a host of other invalidations.

and then we read a post that’s about someone who wants to see us being more masculine —who sees it as a good thing. who says “just take the testosterone. this what you really want, isn’t it?”

and we say, Yes. Yes, it is what I want. Thank you for listening to me.

a day late to my 6 years on t anniversary ✨🏳️‍⚧️ a short comic about looking back

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an ode to testosterone weight gain

The subservient part of you isn't a girl. That's to say that women are weak, and we know that's not true. The subservient part of you is a dog.

buzzcut forcemasc is all fine and good but what about metalhead forcemasc. maybe you’ve had long hair all your life, maybe you haven’t, but then you meet a guy who teaches you how to grow it out. how to take care of it. he shows you how to talk loud and headbang and take up space, and when your hair is all grown out he runs his hands through it and drags you by the roots to stand tall in front of a mirror. this is who you are. doesn’t it feel good?

partially inspired by this post

ignore their incredulity. accept the truth. you have to be cut up to be made whole