I'm currently looking for some little friends to talk to and maybe hangout. ๐๐ She/Hers/Her, 22 y.o./U.S/ pansexual. If you have a question my DMs are always open.
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My favorite cartoon of all time ever!๐ฅฐ๐คโค๏ธ๐๐
Favorite cartoon: Strawberry Shortcake.
Is it sad that I constantly seek out love but when it stares me straight in the face, the doubts and deeply buried insecurities tell me that I am a burden that shouldn't hinder others with my existence. Am I the only one that feels this way? I go to others to seek out praise and validation only to be told I'm so ****ing sexy and that I should send nudes. That I should become what they want me to. Do things I am not comfortable with. Is this all my value has succumbed to? My friends, family, and everyone I talk to tells me no but I find myself lacking the confidence to believe myself when my own mind is against me too. Sometimes I don't know who I am anymore. I dont like the person my thoughts make me or the way others words make me feel? Is it wrong to need validation from others? Is it wrong to just want some help, and coddling, and reassurance? I dont know why I am even looking for a daddy anymore? Why should I when if he wants to meet and get to know me he would be faced with all my problems? I wouldn't wish that on him or anyone. Maybe I am better off alone. I dont know if this is goodbye, or a very long see you later. I dont know if I'll post or if I'll ever come on here again. I really dont know.
So pwetty!๐ฅฐ
Could relate to this a little too much๐ฅบ๐
The Powerpuff Girls S01E03
I think I'm a ice cream sandwich hehe๐ฅฐ๐ค๐
Date a Daddy who encourages your little space even when you feel ashamed. A Daddy who will help you feel small and make sure you know youโre never too much for him. ๐
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i wonder if someone dreams about me or not. thinks about me. hopes to see me. someone who wanna explore my mind. someone who thinks iโm different. that thereโs something about me which makes them feel in a way they canโt understand. i wonder.
ย โ is someone out there wondering about me. or is it just my mind thinking of the impossible like always.
It's all I want! For others to get their happily ever afters! I'm just waiting and hoping on mine!๐ฅบ๐ฅฐ๐
B-but I will s-still treat you like a king I p-promise!๐ฅฐ๐ค๐
๐ฐ ๐ช ๐
๐ฐ๐ฐ-I would say vanilla๐ฅฐ
๐ช- definitely cookies for sure
๐- I would say I keep more of a journal than a diary
P.S. sorry it took so long for me to respond ๐ฅบ๐ญ
๐ฐ- do you believe in soul mates?
๐- diary or journal?
โจ- which fictional character (book, show, or movie) do you relate to most?
๐- are you crushing on someone?
๐- kissing in the dark or kissing in the rain?
๐- describe your aesthetic in emojis
๐ผ- what is your favorite memory?
๐ธ- what is your favorite flower?
๐- have you ever been in love?
๐ฐ- strawberry or vanilla?
๐ฏ- describe your favorite smell
๐- if you had 3 wishes, what would they be?
๐ช- cookie dough or cookies?
โ- coffee or tea?
๐- would you rather live in a sea with mermaids or a forest with fairies?
๐- whatโs your middle name?
๐ซ- what is your sun, moon, and rising sign?
๐ง๏ธ- favorite thing to do on rainy days?
๐ญ- how tall are you?
๐- which show would you want to live in?
๐- what is your favorite holiday?
๐ฆ- what scented candle is your favorite?
๐ถ- favorite song right now?
๐- 3 ways to win your heart?
๐ฉ- current mood?
โ๏ธ- what is your favorite season?
๐- your current relationship status?
๐ท- a photo of yourself
๐ ๐ป- do you like being spoiled?
๐๏ธ- 3 habits you have?
๐ฆ- how do you perceive yourself?
๐ฆ- how do you think others perceive you?
๐- things I find attractive in girls/guys
๐- one secret about yourself
๐- how do you act when you have a crush?
๐- the reason behind your last breakup?
๐ฌ- what your last text message says?
๐ฅ- what show are you currently binging on?
โ - what is your morning routine?
๐- who do you miss?
๐ฅ- last time you cried?
๐- when is your birthday?
๐ช- scariest/creepiest experience?
๐ค- date someone younger, older, or same age as you?
๐- any question you want
~~Not mine
Interesting, why'd you make that promise of no over 30? I'm interested
It was kind of a silly conversation I had with my mom one day and we were talking about what kind of people we'd want to date in the future. Soon enough we started discussing ages and she made me swear I couldn't date anyone in there thirties bc they were closer to her in age(she's 41) and she wouldn't date anyone closer to my age (in their late twenties). I know I made a promise but if something changes in the future and I meet someone who I feel is everything I'm looking for and the only reason I'm choosing not to persue that and see what potential we have bc of the age gap then I would live with regret for not trying to see what we could be.
Oldest you'd date? Between what age range
Hmm this is something I actually think about alot to me age doesn't matter but I can't see myself dating anyone younger than me(I'm 21๐) and I made a promise not to date anyone older than 30 but I don't know what may be different in the future. So for an age range I would say anywhere between 20-30 at the moment.
*breaks my own heart from thinking too much*
if somebody held their arms out to me and softly told me โcโmereโ i would simply break down
This is all I ask for!๐ฅบ๐ญ
i want a soft connection. i want to be asked how my day went and if i need anything. i want forehead kisses. i want the back of my hand kissed at red lights. i want to be asked how iโm mentally feeling. i want to hold hands everywhere we go. i want romantic gestures. i want my hair played in at the most unexpected moments. i want silent eye connections that lead to smiles. i want to take random walks.
dumb things that are weirdly hot:
- someone leaning over and buckling my seatbelt
- tying my shoe for me (especially if you pat it afterwards??)
- zipping up my jacket
- making me hold ur hand before crossing the street
- handing me my water bottle to make me drink it
- slightly condescending nicknames
- moving me by my belt loops/waist
- โwhy donโt you be a good girl and *instructions*?โ
- brushing my hair out of my face
- opening my drinks for me
- lifting my chin to make me look you in the eye
Tips on Little Space
Hey little friends! I get a lot of asks and messages from you all asking for advice on slipping into littlespace! Sometimes itโs hard for us due to stress, anxiety, or over thinking! So fear not, Iโve decided to make a little list with some helpful tips ๐ I hope this helps some of you, and feel free to add any tips of your own!
๐ผ Start your littlespace adventure in a safe place where you know you wonโt be interrupted! Most people choose to go into littlespace in the privacy of their home or in their bedroom with the door locked.
๐ธ Set uninterrupted time where you can get lost in yourself without it disrupting grown up tasks! An hour or longer is preferred so that you can take time to relax into the right state of mind. Try not to set too short of a time to where you feel rushed.
๐ผ Surround yourself with soothing audio. Turn on one of your favorite movies or cartoons. You donโt have to watch it, but the background sound itself could help bring you into the mindset. If you donโt have your favorite movie or show available, then try listening to childrenโs music. Like lullabies or Disney soundtracks.
๐ธ Surround yourself with stuffies, dolls, and toys that remind you of how cute and little you are!
๐ผ Maybe try laying down on the floor on your favorite softest blankies and a paci or soother if you have any.
๐ธ Build a blankie fort with lots of blankies and pillows and fill it with tons of your toys!
๐ผ Make sure to have at least one activity while in littlespace. This could be small activities like coloring with crayons, minor popsicle stick crafts with glue, beading necklaces and bracelets, building with legos or blocks.
๐ธ Regress yourself further with speech! Even if youโre just babbling to yourself or verbally playing pretend with your stuffies and dolls, baby talking has been shown to really help Littles into their special head space.
๐ผ Dress up! Wear what makes you feel most happy and feeling little. Whether it be your fav onesie, a big over sized sweater or your fav tutu!
๐ธ Eat little-sized snacks and drinks! Use sippies/bottles, and colorful or cartoon oriented plates and plastic wear. Try eating and drinking things you enjoyed as a kid. For me, itโs things like gold fish crackers, mandarins and apple juice or chocolate milk. Iโve noticed finger foods make me feel the littlest!
๐ Thatโs all the tips I have! Just remember to be yourself, and try not to over think too much. We all have trouble getting into little space sometimes. Itโs normal, and you arenโt any less valid because of it. Keep in mind, when youโre calm and relaxed in a safe place, slipping into littlespace will come with ease. Good luck lil angels๐
โช๏ธ ๐ฐ๐๐๐ซ ๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐! (๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข๐ณ๐๐ ๐ญ๐๐๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ ๐จ ๐ญ๐จ)
โช๏ธ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ '๐๐๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ซ' ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ฌ, ๐ง๐จ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐๐๐ญ ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ !
โช๏ธ ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ญ๐ญ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ, ๐ ๐๐ญ ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐๐จ๐ญ๐ญ๐ฅ๐!
โช๏ธ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ก ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐!
โช๏ธ ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ค๐๐ญ๐ฌ, ๐ ๐๐ญ ๐ ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ค๐๐ญ, ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง๐!
โช๏ธ ๐๐๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐ฎ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ (๐๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ข๐๐ฌ), ๐ฆ๐๐ ๐ง ๐๐ก๐๐๐ฌ๐, ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฌ (๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ ๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ค๐๐ฒ ๐๐ข๐ง๐จ๐ฌ, ๐ฌ๐๐ฒ ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ง๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ข๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ, ๐ข ๐๐จ!)
โช๏ธ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ค๐ฉ๐๐๐ค ๐จ๐ซ ๐ค๐๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ ๐ค๐๐ฒ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ!
Iโm in love~ ๐ป
Little: Daddy! Dino nuggies are made out of dinos!
Daddy: little one that's not how dino nuggies are made-
Little: nu uh daddy! They made out of dinos!
Daddy: little one that's n-
Little: Nu uhs. Daddy is wrong!
Daddy: but baby. Dino nuggies aren't made out of real dinos
Little: *pouts and cries* daddy! No they are!
Daddy: aw baby.. im so sorry. Okay, fine. They're made from real dinos *wipes little's eyes*
Little: *giggles and cuddles daddy*
Daddy: so cute.. *cuddles back*
๐CUTE BOTTLESโจ
Hi y'all, Ducky here!! These tips are things that help me regress I hope they can help y'all out too!
๐๐- listen to music from your favorite littlespace movies and tv shows (I made a playlist with lots of soundtracks to listen to when I'm little)
๐ฆ๐- try not to overthink stuff, for example: if you like to watch a certain show or movie and it puts you into a little space/happiness don't worry if it isn't in the right age ranges, bcuz that overthinking makes it hard to allow yourself to get into/stay in littlespace.
๐ง๐ปโโ๏ธ๐- be how a kid would be, just give yourself permission and allow yourself to enjoy things fully, it takes some practice so be kind to yourself.
๐๐- I struggle with intrusive thoughts due to my mental illness and when those happen I just say to myself "it's ok sweetheart don't listen to those thoughts it's all ok!" You kinda have to be your own parent when bad thoughts happen.
๐๐- getting comfy in PJs (or your comfy clothes), snuggle in your blankets with stuffies.
๐งธ๐- watching kids tv shows and movies that make you happy allows you to slip easier.
๐ธ๐- remember that your big kid problems/issues aren't going anywhere, you don't have to worry about everything going on in your life that you might miss when you are in littlespace, allow yourself to know that it will be ok if you give yourself time to regress.
โ๏ธ๐- making sticker charts for self care and chores, everytime you complete a task you will get sticker! It helps you be able to to big kid tasks while in littlespace so you don't get stressed out.
These are just things that work for me and I'm just sharing in hopes they can help anyone! Remember to be kind to yourself and others. Love to you all ๐๐๐ง๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ง๐ปโโ๏ธ๐๐ฆ๐๐
When do we not need attention? (โโข ึ โขโ)
If you buy me a stuffed animal just because you think iโd like it you automatically have my heart
Roadtrip hacks for littles ๐โค๏ธ โ โ This is one of my biggest fantasies! Iโd love to strap my boy into a car seat and implement all the mommy hacks Iโve heard for a road trip likeโฆ โ โ โญ Pack surprise toys. Put them in gift bags and every few hours let them open one. โ โ โญ Bring an iPad with their favorite videos downloaded. Mount it on the back of the seat. Donโt forget a charger + car adapter.โ โ โญ Leave at a strategic time when you know your baby is going to nap. If you leave when they have a ton of energy they could get very fussy. ย โ โ โญClip things to them and their seat. Paci, bottle, stuffed animals, or whatever. I know my boy loves to throw things to get my attention. If theyโre clipped to him he canโt. โ โ โญ SNACKS. You can never have too many. My baby loves Puffs, Goldfish, and Cheerios. Put them in a spill-proof snack cup to avoid getting crumbs all over your car. โ โ โญ Prep multiple bottles or sippy cups before you leave the house. Mix their water with a little bit of juice to encourage them to drink more and stay hydrated. โ โ โญ Wear them out. If you stop for gas let them get out of their seat and walk around so they are calmer in the car. ย โ โ โญ Pack a cookie sheet with a lip around the edge. They can use it as a tray to eat, color, and play on. Theyโre also magnetic so you can glue magnets to the back of a puzzle. โ โ โญ If you want a mess-free alternative to painting, get one of those paint by water books from the dollar store, cut a sponge to fit into their snack cup, and add water. They can paint without the mess. โ โ โญ Bring a neck pillow so your little can sleep more comfortably without their head bobbing all over the place. ย โ โ โญ Have them go pants-less. Theyโll be more comfortable and it will make it easier to reach back and check their diaper. โ โ โญ Stop to nurse when they get fussy. A hack for all you mommies out there. Nothing will calm a little down more than getting them a little milk drunk. โ โ Did I miss any? Have you ever had a chance to experience a road trip as a little? Comment below and let me know! โ
โขLots of hugs and kisses๐
โขDino nuggets ๐ข
โขMilk and cookies ๐ผ๐ช
โข"Good boy/girl" ๐
โขTurn on theyโre favorite movie and and spoon them (ex: Lilo and Stitch, 101 Dalmatians, anything cute and happy!!)
โขIf they are a grumpy little boy/girl just pop a paci in their mouth and pet them ๐ผ
โขLet them fall asleep in your lap ๐ค
โขForehead kisses ๐
โขCheek squishes โบ๏ธ
โขBooty rubs ๐
โขUPPIES!!!