So When My Niece Wore Dog Ears To School It Was "cute" And "quirky" But When I Wear Them To Work

Hi!!!! I go by Rainn

I'm rainncoater, short for rainncoat eater (i actually hate the rain, i hate raincoats and i do not own one. santa claus isn't real. believe nothing on the internet 💔)

SOCIALS

@rainncoater-art is my art-only sideblog

instagram

i don't formally post anywhere else.

BLOG TAGS

#rainn art - my art

#rainn's shenanigans - miscellaneous chaos

#rainn rambles - i yap here

#rainn answers - responding to tags or asks

#cool art - :)

as of right now this blog is a purely an art + tumblr shenanigans blog.

BEFORE U INTERACT:

do NOT use my art without my explicit permission ty <3

I curse a lot (no slurs except 'queer')

I make stupid sex jokes and mention genitalia occasionally

I post vent art occasionally that may have triggering implications (all tagged TW)

given this info interact however ur comfortable with, no pressure <3

ME!

*i am bi

MY FRIENDS:

obligatory if ur not on here doesnt mean ur not cool. i stalk yalls blogs religiously this is honestly just for quick navigation LMFAO

@confusions-shed-of-ideas - phenomenal writer. anime gambler :( thanks for putting up w my ass for 12 years <3 collecting ur bagels...

@onehundredgar - local disgruntled 1000 y/o woke vampire. bones falling apart. FUCKING TURNS MY FEED INTO ONLY FISH! crazy yum art when she does post them.

@astravox - SKY OC LORE CARRY, fellow porple enjoyer & bisexual disaster <333 ALSO amazing artist

@nykenima - favorite and ONLY holder of the honorary lesbian title. on tumblr 24/7. ANOTHER super skilled artist.

MY INTERESTS:

my hobbies:

art: duh. it's funny bc i'm ok at 2D mediums but i have no patience for any other art form (but they are very cool and i have a lot of respect for them)

rollerblading/ice skating: i dont rly mention it here ever, but its a casual pasttime of mine that i LOVE kidnapping ppl to do w me 🙏

gym: dollar store therapy (it works*)

music: my fav genres are alt metal, rock and shoegaze, but i actually like a lot. i had a massive jpop/jrock/vocaloid phase and i currently like a lot of electronic stuff too. i also like it a lot when ppl mix rap with metal and/or edm :D

*joke. talk to ppl. take ur meds.

topics i enjoy:

any queer topics

subsequently, gender (both cis and trans! just general gender things and how it runs in society. it's very interesting!)

adhd & general neurodivergence (as an adhd-haver)

general psychology sociology things :)

honestly critically analysing any media tbh hmu it's time to be WOKE!!!!!!!!

gym... weightlifting is so fire. i skip cardio, sorry (FOR NOW... i'm extremely busy)

works that make me happy:

(i don't say fandom because i don't really engage in fandom activities lmao)

sky: children of the light: 2020-2022 player, but i still LOVE encountering sky art in the wild. singlehandedly the NICEST community HANDS DOWN. rec for the phenomenal atmosphere and vibes.

ghibli: i grew up with ghibli. i have watched almost every single ghibli work in existence. i am a ghibli PRO. my neighbour totoro and when marnie was there are my favs.

chainsaw man: batshit insane. 10/10 experience.

pokemon: also my childhood. dear to my heart

jewelpet: SO nostalgic. also niche af NO ONE EVER TALKS ABT THIS! i wish there was still jewelpet merch around. i used to have so many of their toys as a kid but i lost them all :( currently hunting for labra's jewel charm egg (see below)

honorable mentions:

my little pony made me an insufferable 8 y/o

warrior cats made me a furry*

animal jam turned me trans*

*joke. im not a furry (but they are cool :))

assortment of cool internet finds:

loved; short game. very symbolic VERY ANALYSABLE which is my fav thing ever.

i will add more as i think of/encounter em..

credits

working makes me feel bad so i can't work, but enjoying myself also makes me feel bad so i can't enjoy myself. and now i'm stuck here for 8 hours having done Nothing.

i may be a trans dude but ill be a pining lesbian in a situationship or an angsty teenage boy who just went through a breakup or a distraught middle aged man going through a midlife crisis for a few minutes depending on the song just say the word I'LL DO IT

Beyblade heavyweight division

fighting a god with the odd bird lady I picked up along the way, wish me luck 💪

i regret to inform you that as of today i will no longer be a part of the ingroup and i am joining the outgroup

I love you torturer eel

i Love uou Too Rainncoater

reblog to confusion reminded me, another thing even i often have to remind myself is that honestly this applies to platonic relationships, really ANY relationship.

a healthy relationship w urself is the foundation to having a good relationship with anyone else, bc you're just happier! you can stand up for yourself! and you just become a much nicer person to be around when ur not filled w self loathing 24/7.

yeah sorry chat u do gotta love urself too. no other way around it rip

GO FUCKING LOVE YOURSELF TODAY 🔪🔪🔪🔪

do you want a relationship or do you just want to be happy(ier)?

hear me out.

sometimes when i hear ppl around me complain about how much they want a bf/gf/partner in general i often want to ask, "why exactly?"

because a lot of the time, at the core, people want a s/o to address some other thing in their life they want fulfilled. like it's more of just wanting companionship, someone to connect to, wishing to feel less lonely etc

i feel like this is worth thinking about bc often people will get into a relationship thinking it will solve this core issue they have, and when it doesn't it catches them off guard. like ur s/o is there to improve your overall quality of life, not solve your life problems for u--that's smth u need to work on urself. yes it will suck. but it will be worth it bc ull be a more well-rounded person!

i used to kinda wish i had a relationship myself, but as i met more ppl and made more friends that feeling went away and i realised i was really content with just my platonic relationships. bc at the root i really just wanted people i could truly connect to, people i could chat up whenever. and i got that when i built a good network of friends.

you don't need a romantic relationship to be happy. it's better to try to address these needs first instead of throwing it all upon the hypothetical partner to solve.

i think about this whenever i have that "i want a relationship" feeling again.

Me trying to have a good day vs the evil and intimidating upcoming exams