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I’m a trans-male and, like @masqueradehfx, queer as a $3 bill but I’m looking twice and then a third time cause your be(you)tiful and you need to know that.
no makeup but the light this morning was nice
Ok, gonna try it cause I want to get this job and it keeps falling through so here goes nothin
Update, No go
you have been visited by the seven magic dragon balls your biggest wish will be granted but only if you reblog
Don’t know if anyone will see but here is a boost from me.
Okay. Okay.
Whenever we reblog those lists of hotlines for people to call in an emotional crisis, part of me always thinks, “you know what? Talking on the phone fucking blows.”
And I’ve spoken to people mid-crisis who ABSOLUTELY REFUSE to call a number, because you know what? Talking on the phone fucking blows. IM is alright, typing things out to a faceless screen, it’s so much easier than using your voice most of the time. If only there was some sort of chat-based hotline-
There is? It’s here?!
HUZZAH!
IMAlive is an IM-based support center, run entirely by well-trained volunteers who seriously do give a shit. It’s free, it’s confidential, and it WORKS.
If you’re hurting right now, PLEASE CLICK THE LINK.
If you’re feeling alright, but give half a damn about the people around you, SIGNAL BOOST THE FUCK OUT OF THIS.
I want everyone to know this exists. This is an option. You don’t have to be afraid.
Come and talk.
This is a thing that needs to show up on people’s dashboards so often that they start to see it in their dreams. I have a lot of “mental” illnesses (mental is in quotes because at first I was told it wasn’t real) and what @jordansjourneyto130 said is so true, I wasn’t diagnosed until after I tried to kill myself and, thankfully and luckily, failed. I was in middle school. No one would notice when I was hiding it and I didn’t even know that there was something REAL wrong inside my head. Don’t tell me that I just need to “Think Positive!” or to “Cheer Up, It’s All In Your Head And You Can Control It!” No I can’t just cheer up or control it, I AM SICK!
Don’t push this aside, it is real and needs to exist in the forefront of peoples minds. Thank you #brainbent for rebloging this, I don’t think I would have seen it otherwise.
Rebloging because this is awesome, nothing else need be said.
Coping Skills Toolbox
This will always be true
:)
I’m in, I call Equius because I has a bow
oh my god i’m finally done
i drew this when i was bored from time to time and it was originally supposed to be steampunk designs for the trolls but i went kinda crazy and now these are steampunky-victorianesque-punk-whatever designs
unfortunately most of them turned out meh though haha
This, just this is everything I want to have in anyone who calls themselves my dom!
Been reading ur blog. U need to stop calling urself a dom. All this lovey crap makes real doms sick. A sub is not for respecting and loving. A sub is for using and thats what they like. Its fine that u love ur girl, just dont call urself a dom. Real doms show dominance, use there sub and leave her laying like the cunt slut she is. Bein all sweet, and all that does is give her power over u, which makes u not a dom.
Hi there, Anon. I almost didn’t even dignify this with a response, but I think you’ve actually given me a good opportunity to say something that new doms need to know, so kudos to you.
First and foremost, let’s establish something right here and now: You don’t get to tell me what I am, and you are damn sure not the leading authority on what does and does not constitute a dominant. For the record, I didn’t wake up one day and decide to be a dom. I never even thought of myself that way until I met belovedsangi 10 years ago. I always had the characteristics of a dom, sure, but I didn’t ever put that title on myself. That title was given to me by my submissive. SHE is the one who wanted to call me Master, and Sir, and sometimes Daddy. I never told her to do these things. But of course, you probably think I am making my point for you and that if I were a REAL domly dom, I would’ve demanded those things.
And that’s where you have a fundamental issue understanding the meaning of the title. So let me help you with that.
A dom does not demand respect. He conducts himself in such a way as to be worthy of respect.
A dom does not bark commands. His presence is such that he can seduce and command with nothing more than a glance.
A dom does not raise his voice. He is the kind of man who gets what he wants without needing to.
A dom is not a braggart. He is possessed of a calm, quiet confidence that is evident in his demeanor, the way he walks, the tone of his voice, and all other aspects of him.
A dom understands balance. He knows that while a firm hand and discipline are critical in this type of relationship, knowing when to be gentle and understanding is every bit as important.
A dom is a gentleman first and foremost. That doesn’t necessarily mean that he is a fancy man who values the finer things in life, but he does understand manners and protocol. He opens the car door for her. He orders for her if she is having trouble deciding. He treats strangers with courtesy and respect.
A dom is a protector. He makes sure that his submissive feels safe and protected at all times. This means so much more than just telling her you will protect her. A dom shows her. He keeps a hand on her shoulder or on her waist in crowds so she doesn’t get nervous. He sleeps on the side of the bed closest to the door so that he is always between his submissive and an intruder. He walks on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street so that an errant vehicle will hit him before his submissive. If anything or anyone should threaten his submissive, he must be prepared to fight for her with the ferocity of an alpha wolf.
A dom earns her submission. It is not a thing to be demanded, expected, or assumed. And he continues to earn it, each and every day.
A dom values her submission. Fully submitting your will and trusting your body and well-being to someone takes a kind of strength most can’t imagine, and a dom never loses sight of that.
A dom understands that being a dominant is 10% privilege and 90% responsibility. He is literally taking her life into his hands. He is accepting the most sacred and important thing she has to give. He is taking her burdens and bearing them as his own, always, every day.
A dom is consistent. He understands that he can’t just be her protector, lover, confidant, master, etc. when he feels like it. There will be days when a dom is tired. There will be days when he is stressed. There will be days when he is broken. On those days, it is more important than ever for a dom to show his submissive that he is still everything she needs him to be.
So what does it mean, then, to be a dom? I get the feeling that you, anon, would say that it’s all about making her kneel, having your way with her, shouting orders and using her. Helpful hint: Any jackass can buy himself a whip and bark commands. That’s not a dom. Don’t get me wrong, I do absolutely have my way with belovedsangi. I love it when she kneels. I love the kinky, rough, mind-blowing sex we have. I love to dominate her in the bedroom. But for every moment of that, there are a hundred moments of holding her, of talking to her, laughing with her, gaming with her. There are a hundred moments of making her feel safe when she is afraid, giving her confidence when she is unsure, comforting her when she feels troubled. Those are all things that a dominant does too.
I love my submissive more than I love oxygen. I love my submissive with a fire that can never be extinguished. I value her and respect her in every way. I treat her like a queen and fuck her like a slave. These things don’t make me weak. They don’t make me less of a dominant. These things make me stronger than you can possibly imagine. There is nothing quite so formidable as a dominant who has found the perfect submissive to fuel his fire. Never will you see anyone love so strongly or fight so fiercely.
Bottom line, Anon, is this: you sound like a boy playing at being a man. You decided one day that you were sick of women having willpower and a voice of their own, so you decided to call yourself a dominant and seek out some weak-willed submissive who wouldn’t talk back to you or stick up for herself. You are not a dom. You are a jackass with a whip. Classic case of toodomforyou.
Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.
Of fucking course
What sick bastard doesn’t
wheres all the support for the emotional abuse victims
So kids, remember I said a while ago I would do a small Giveaway? This is just a very smol giveaway to begin with :P Since I am unable to draw due to my broken Tablet I’ll try to make you happy with this.
Super quick:
✧˖°Prizes°˖✧
1x DRAMAtical Murder Data xx Transitory (60x85 cm \ 24x34 inch) Silk Print Poster
1x A4 Poster Aoba/Noiz by the lovely EroPinku
✧˖°Rules°˖✧
You must be following me
If the winner is one of the 731 Followers who have been following me before this giveaway, I’ll send you something extra
You can like and reblog as many times as you like (just please be considerate of you followers ^^)
I’ll ship anywhere in the world
Winner will be drawn by a random number generator
No giveaway blogs
✧˖°Other things°˖✧
*Winner must be confortable with giving me their shipping adress *Ask box must be open *Winner needs to get back to me within 48 hours or I’ll choose another winner
THIS GIVEAWAY ENDS 29 FEBRUARY 2016
seeing videos/art depicting the Closeted Trans Boy using ace bandages to bind makes me so angry. have the character wear two sports bras on top of each other or two tank tops or just baggy clothes?? stop promoting the idea that it’s ok to bind with bandages if you don’t have a binder. a lot of people don’t know how harmful it is.
this got a lot of notes so i figured it would be a good idea to add some links describing what safe binding is and resources for alternative binding methods
binding safety tips for all methods of binding
binding safety and different binding methods from hudson’s guide
more information on binding w/ ace bandages
MORF binder exchange—globally distributes free binders to trans people, all you have to pay is shipping
“inabind” binder donation program
a list of more binder donation programs
chest binder review blog
reviews of binders from several popular companies
homemade binder tutorial
another homemade binder tutorial
and one more
three hundred people have already reblogged this post and it would mean the world to me if you all reblogged it again with this new information. a lot of trans people dont have access to binders or know the dangers about binding, especially young trans people and those who have just started to identify as trans—this knowledge could help them immensely and save them (and their bodies) from unnecessary harm
happy binding
Thank you!!
Tutorial: Chest Binder
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This. Just, just this is perfect.
Considering that Aoba and Sei adapted to their surroundings, wouldn't that just mean that Sei would end up looking like a long haired human Ren? Or an exact twin of Aoba with blue hair and hazel eyes if he was raised outside of Oval Tower?
Hard to say! It could have to do with their psychology as well as their surroundings — it’s not like Aoba ever started to “blend in” with the locals, and he didn’t pick up the pink or red hair of his family either. Plus with Ren, his human form is obviously based off Sei’s current one. I’d suspect Sei would look vastly different in some way though, and I wouldn’t be surprised if he looked either very much like Aoba (with smoother hair and features) or an inverse Aoba in some way, given their “true” forms have inverted patterns. A negative for blue is orange though so maybe not lmao.