The Prophet ﷺ said; “Help yourself to achieve your plans by being discreet, for everyone who is blessed with something is envied” (as-Silsilah 3/436)
— Celebrating Childhood, Adonis (translated by Khaled Mattawa)
[text ID: My wishes are flowers / staining my days.]
Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said:
“The young person who repents often is the beloved of Allah”
[Al-Daa wad-Dawaa]
― Louise Glück, October
Your Lord has made mercy incumbent on Himself.
Surah Al-An'am Ayat 54
Niels Oberson
1. Set clear goals. What do you want to accomplish and why does it matter to you? Break the goals into small, actionable steps (feels doable).
2. Create a daily schedule that prioritizes most important items on the list. Keep it consistent to form habits over time.
3. Start small. Focus on one discipline building habit at a time to avoid getting overwhelmed. Gradually increase your commitments little by little.
4. Get rid of distractions that hinder your focus (e.g., social media during work).
5. Use accountability partners if possible. And/or track your habits. Use an app or check off from your list (this feels so good!)
6. Have self control! Resist small urges to build willpower (e.g., delay instant gratification). Commit to showing up even when you don’t feel like it. Especially when you don’t feel like it.
7. Stay consistent. Discipline is built by sticking to your commitments daily, not just when it’s convenient. Progress, not perfection is what matters.
8. Embrace the discomfort. Challenges are growth opportunities. Train yourself to act despite discomfort or boredom.
9. Celebrate every win & reward yourself for milestones to stay motivated.
10. Reflect on failures without judgment and adjust your plan. You will have to adjust your plans quite a few times. Don’t get set in your ways.
11. Spend time with disciplined and goal oriented people. You become who you surround yourself with. Their habits will inspire and influence you positively.
12. Keep your WHY in mind.
Sometimes u just need to stay quiet, not because u don't have anything to say, but because u just don't want ur words to get wasted..
Mymind
الحياة سَتمضي قبل أن نَستوعب مَا يَمُر بِنا
Life will pass before we realize what is happening to us.
- Naguib Mahfouz
Muadh Ibn Jabal رضي الله عنه said:
“The Son of Ādam does nothing to rescue himself from the punishment of Allah better than the remembrance of Allah.”
[Al-Muwatta, 490]