When does a war end? When can i say your name and have it mean only your name and not what you left behind?
-ocean vuong, on earth we are briefly gorgeous
‘Abd-Allāh ibn ‘Umar, [may Allāh be pleased with both of them], said:
Al-Adab al-Mufrad, 628
Sufyān ath-Thawri, [may Allāh have mercy on him], said:
“Do not accompany someone who counts his favors to you.”
Shu’ab ul-Ēmān, 6701 | Al-Imām al-Bayhaqee [may Allāh have mercy on him]
muslims and arabs being painted as t*rr*r*sts so that the western world can have free rein to k*ll, imprison, and do unspeakable horrors to those demographics is literally so crazy and depraved and i can’t believe people can’t see through the thin veil of white supremacy that is built into the fabric and framework of so much of the western world. but in the long run this has done nothing more than solidify that Allah alone is sufficient for me and there will no be true justice in this life.
They used to comfort each other upon facing calamities by saying : ”It is but a few days and Jannah is the promise …”
1. Set clear goals. What do you want to accomplish and why does it matter to you? Break the goals into small, actionable steps (feels doable).
2. Create a daily schedule that prioritizes most important items on the list. Keep it consistent to form habits over time.
3. Start small. Focus on one discipline building habit at a time to avoid getting overwhelmed. Gradually increase your commitments little by little.
4. Get rid of distractions that hinder your focus (e.g., social media during work).
5. Use accountability partners if possible. And/or track your habits. Use an app or check off from your list (this feels so good!)
6. Have self control! Resist small urges to build willpower (e.g., delay instant gratification). Commit to showing up even when you don’t feel like it. Especially when you don’t feel like it.
7. Stay consistent. Discipline is built by sticking to your commitments daily, not just when it’s convenient. Progress, not perfection is what matters.
8. Embrace the discomfort. Challenges are growth opportunities. Train yourself to act despite discomfort or boredom.
9. Celebrate every win & reward yourself for milestones to stay motivated.
10. Reflect on failures without judgment and adjust your plan. You will have to adjust your plans quite a few times. Don’t get set in your ways.
11. Spend time with disciplined and goal oriented people. You become who you surround yourself with. Their habits will inspire and influence you positively.
12. Keep your WHY in mind.
Over zillions of stars in the galaxies far far away, I will always... always end up choosing you my moon.
-Sldnctr