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My Cuckold! 

With his semen forcibly retained and his orgasms heavily rationed, my husband lusts after me like a horny teenager, even at his age. People tend to want what they can’t have and he can’t have me 99.9999 percent of the time (PIV sex). I tend to have a reactionary libido, so seeing him crazy with lust makes me quite horny as well. Although we rarely have PIV sex, we have a lot of intimate, sexy times together with him providing me with as many orgasms and partners as I desire.

Cuckold Relationships

Cuckold dating mainly involves the female’s assertion of her sexual relations with other male partners outside the relationship. On the other hand, the male partner knows and/or watches his partner having other sexual adventures outside their partnership or relationship. 

Cuckold relationships are based on loyalty, trust and intimacy. However, the man still remains faithful to his female partner and therefore he is in a subordinate position. Although cuckold dating can be difficult, it has various potential benefits for the couple.

Benefits of Cuckold Dating

1. Fulfillment of fantasies and satisfaction

One or both partners in the partnership fulfill their lifelong fantasies since the couple shares in many different activities. Moreover, the female partner enjoys the freedom to engage in sexual adventures with other male partners outside the relationship. On the other hand, the man enjoys by knowing and/or watching his partner being intimate with another man outside their relationship. Men are satisfied when their female partners are enjoying. Therefore, even a woman in a committed relationship can go out on a date and the man loves it.

2. Builds trust

The man is fully aware of his partner’s sexual adventures and this helps to get rid of jealousy. This helps to increase trust and effective communication among partners. Additionally, both partners enjoy increased faithfulness due to the reduced thought of infidelity.

3. Builds confidence

The man feels that his wife is quite attractive since other men are ready to be intimate with her. Women gain the freedom and confidence to express their thoughts and feelings freely and openly.

4. Improved intimacy

As the cuckold couple gains intimate knowledge, their intimacy grows stronger too. This is because the couple enjoys new excitement in a variety of ways making it quite easy to attain physical satisfaction.

5. Increased interest and attention

The man wants to please his female partner more in many ways. Therefore, during cuckold dating his interest in his partner’s looks and clothing increases and as a result his partner’s wardrobe improves. Most importantly, the man becomes more caring and romantic.

6. Closer friendships

The couple enjoys intimate relationships with other people outside the relationship which helps to create stronger bonds with such friends.

Despite having many benefits, it is very important for the couple to fully understand what cuckold dating involves and come to an agreement before attempting any encounters. Most importantly, it is vital for the couple to understand how they can make the most out of the cuckold relationship.

How to Make Cuckold Relationships Work

1. Practice cuckold dating in the right way

Since the male partner gets sexually aroused by knowing and/or watching his partner getting intimate with other men, there should be a level of intimacy and trust in the cuckold relationship. Trust issues should be addressed first in order to decide if the cuckold relationship is best at the moment. This can be determined by; the state of your sex life, how long the relationship has lasted and the level of trust. This is very important especially for married people who want to have cuckold relationships.

2. Be loyal and set down the rules

Each partner needs to clearly understand that the practice is sexual. Therefore, other feelings and emotions should be on one side in order to reassure the man that his female partner will not develop any emotional relationships with third parties. In order to be on the safe side, this fear should be addressed before any encounter occurs. Cuckoldry should be a healthy and normal sexual fetish and not a practice that can damage the lives of those involved. In order to differentiate between the emotional aspect and sexual acts of the practice and secure the relationship, the couple should have a certain level of confidence and self esteem. Therefore, the couple should have a frank discussion about their concerns, what they want out of cuckoldry, and what it will entail. This helps to determine whether the practice will have any effects on the relationship and its future.

3. Keep it fun

There should be no feelings of guilt and betrayal during or after the act. This can only be achieved if the couple views their relationship as a sexually varied relationship that is open to experimentation and fun rather than a shameful or sinful one. Cuckold dating has many components besides sex. Components such as loyalty, devotion and trust should take precedence over sexual acts.

4. Be safe

Cuckold couples need to choose the third party once they have decided to practice cuckoldry. Since it’s the woman who normally has sexual relations with the third party, she must be completely comfortable with the new partner. The third party should be a like-minded person who can be trusted. This makes it easier for the three members to discuss in detail what they want out of the practice.

5. Communication

Communication is vital in cuckold dating since issues will have to be addressed in a timely and sensible manner in order to avoid complications.

The benefits of cuckold dating are greater than what most people imagine. The benefits listed above should give couples an idea of how cuckolding can be of great value especially to their relationship. Several swinger couples are also into cuckolding. Several join sites to meet other like minded individuals. The only advice here is that when you create a profile for free, simply let other member know that you are looking for a cuckold relationship.

Workout Wednesdays

Hey there girly boys!  This post marks the beginning of what I hope to be an additional weekly series to help us realize our inner girliness with some external flare.  We shall see how the two series go: Monday Musings and Workout Wednesdays.

Many of you girlies, sissies, crossdressers, and beautiful ladies (you know who you are), have asked me repeatedly about exercises, workouts, and such that can help you attain a more feminine figure.  I hope that WW’s can help answer those requests to an extent.

Now dear friends, understand, I’m not a physical trainer.  I’m an exercise hobbyist.  My suggestions are not from a professional viewpoint.  So, just accept them as suggestions from a fellow girly boy who loves to be girly-fit.

Before we begin with the exercise of the day, I would like to say something that you may not like: No exercise or workout is going to give you a womanly physique.  Sorry.  I fantasize a LOT though my posts, but I need to be honest in these WW’s blogs.  If you fail, I don’t want it to be because I offered unreal expectations.  Think about it like this.  If a man attended a ladies’ only exercise studio and followed all of their advice, with workouts and diet (even dressing and acting feminine), he would improve his physique and health; but he’d be a healthier man in girly yoga pants, not a healthy woman.  It’s just not in the male chemistry, no matter how much we might wish it.

Now, with that said, outside of supplementation intended to that end, you can improve your health in such a way so as to aid in a girlier appearance.

Hip Raises

Hip raises, though simple and overlooked, is a good step in the direction of girly fitness–and its not because it looks girly; they are special like you. 

I have found that active flexibility under tension positively aids the body to accept many of the exercises I will be sharing on these WW’s posts.  Hip raises are basic, foundational, and preparatory.

So here’s what you do, girly boy.  Get your sissy-ish mind in the right place.  Put on something girly, like some cute capri leggings, bra, and tank.  Don’t even think about working out in anything less than feminine clothes.  Yep, all the way to cute sneakers, panties, and bra.

Lie back on the floor with your legs bent and feet firmly planted on the ground, a little less than shoulder width apart (you know the position lol).  Your shoulders should be squared and your upper back solidly fixed to the floor.  Place your manicured hands across your waist just below your pierced naval.   Now, squeeze your glutes and abs as you press your hips upward (note the picture in this article).  Inhale as you do this.  It might be helpful to imagine that you are tightening a string tied between your naval and rosebud.  If you do this right, you should also be able to feel your inner thighs squeezing in on your little tucked guy (you should always be tucked, right?).  Keep your cheeks squeezed at the highest position, hold, and then exhale slowly as you return your butt to the floor.  That’s one rep.

This is not a race!  This is slow and meticulous with steady breathing and tension.  Make every rep count and do NOT over-extend yourself.  This is an easy and novice exercise, but there is still the potential of hurting your pretty self.

I’d recommend beginning with three sets of low reps and working up to a single set of 50 reps a few times a week.  Once you accomplish 50, you can progress to elevated feet or begin the process of working on your bridging.

This is an exercise that you can do as part of your girly workout or as a part of stretching or as a part of a warmup.  It’s something you can do at night while watching TV.  That’s up to you.  This should help train you to “clinch the cheeks” (your S.O. will thank me) and help you to open the hips, stretch the abductors, and build some strength in the lower back.

Basically, it’s just a good little exercise that has its place in your gym bunny sessions.  It may not seem like much, but it pays off in the end.

Have fun, bunnies!  Love ya much!

Candie Hart