So, you’ve wanted to be a “Bull” and now you’ve found that perfect couple. She’s a Hotwife looking for a regular lover. He’s a cuckold (or wants to be) and he’s willing to step aside and let you and his wife become lovers.
Now what?
This is where the men get separated from the boys, pal. I have real experience with this. I’ve seen the best and the worst, of both people and experiences. I’ve also talked to others and shared many stories of real life experiences.
First of all, most single guys are totally clueless when it comes to being a real “Bull” in a cuckold-Hotwife relationship. They think being a Bull is just fucking someone’s wife. Nothing could be farther from the truth, and this is why most fail miserably.
What most guys don’t understand is that it’s a THREE-WAY RELATIONSHIP. In fact it is more complex than a normal relationship because it involves THREE people, not two.
But wait, you say. I only want to fuck someone’s wife. I don’t need a relationship with her husband. WRONG! You fail. Go back to AFF and start looking for single chicks, because you don’t get it.
Being a Bull means you’re coming into an existing marital relationship. Before you even show up at the door understand that the couple has already discussed what they want long before reaching out for someone like you. Your first job is to find out exactly what they want, and then FIT INTO that.
Then you must follow a certain protocol to create a new three-way relationship. One word of advice: no matter what you expect the relationship to become later, during the first meeting or two you should be a complete gentleman. Until you get some signal from the couple you should NOT initiate anything sexual or act as anything other than a complete gentleman. Even if things should progress into the bedroom during the second (or even first) meeting, you should progress slowly and not overwhelm them.
Every good girl who wants to try being a slut should have at least one sexual relationship with a man substantially older than her. This list is funny but it’s 100% accurate, and it could be much longer. Older men know how to communicate. They know how to listen and create a sexual experience that is what the little slut wants and needs. They understand mental foreplay.
Workout Wednesdays
Hey there girly boys! This post marks the beginning of what I hope to be an additional weekly series to help us realize our inner girliness with some external flare. We shall see how the two series go: Monday Musings and Workout Wednesdays.
Many of you girlies, sissies, crossdressers, and beautiful ladies (you know who you are), have asked me repeatedly about exercises, workouts, and such that can help you attain a more feminine figure. I hope that WW’s can help answer those requests to an extent.
Now dear friends, understand, I’m not a physical trainer. I’m an exercise hobbyist. My suggestions are not from a professional viewpoint. So, just accept them as suggestions from a fellow girly boy who loves to be girly-fit.
Before we begin with the exercise of the day, I would like to say something that you may not like: No exercise or workout is going to give you a womanly physique. Sorry. I fantasize a LOT though my posts, but I need to be honest in these WW’s blogs. If you fail, I don’t want it to be because I offered unreal expectations. Think about it like this. If a man attended a ladies’ only exercise studio and followed all of their advice, with workouts and diet (even dressing and acting feminine), he would improve his physique and health; but he’d be a healthier man in girly yoga pants, not a healthy woman. It’s just not in the male chemistry, no matter how much we might wish it.
Now, with that said, outside of supplementation intended to that end, you can improve your health in such a way so as to aid in a girlier appearance.
Hip Raises
Hip raises, though simple and overlooked, is a good step in the direction of girly fitness–and its not because it looks girly; they are special like you.
I have found that active flexibility under tension positively aids the body to accept many of the exercises I will be sharing on these WW’s posts. Hip raises are basic, foundational, and preparatory.
So here’s what you do, girly boy. Get your sissy-ish mind in the right place. Put on something girly, like some cute capri leggings, bra, and tank. Don’t even think about working out in anything less than feminine clothes. Yep, all the way to cute sneakers, panties, and bra.
Lie back on the floor with your legs bent and feet firmly planted on the ground, a little less than shoulder width apart (you know the position lol). Your shoulders should be squared and your upper back solidly fixed to the floor. Place your manicured hands across your waist just below your pierced naval. Now, squeeze your glutes and abs as you press your hips upward (note the picture in this article). Inhale as you do this. It might be helpful to imagine that you are tightening a string tied between your naval and rosebud. If you do this right, you should also be able to feel your inner thighs squeezing in on your little tucked guy (you should always be tucked, right?). Keep your cheeks squeezed at the highest position, hold, and then exhale slowly as you return your butt to the floor. That’s one rep.
This is not a race! This is slow and meticulous with steady breathing and tension. Make every rep count and do NOT over-extend yourself. This is an easy and novice exercise, but there is still the potential of hurting your pretty self.
I’d recommend beginning with three sets of low reps and working up to a single set of 50 reps a few times a week. Once you accomplish 50, you can progress to elevated feet or begin the process of working on your bridging.
This is an exercise that you can do as part of your girly workout or as a part of stretching or as a part of a warmup. It’s something you can do at night while watching TV. That’s up to you. This should help train you to “clinch the cheeks” (your S.O. will thank me) and help you to open the hips, stretch the abductors, and build some strength in the lower back.
Basically, it’s just a good little exercise that has its place in your gym bunny sessions. It may not seem like much, but it pays off in the end.
Have fun, bunnies! Love ya much!
Candie Hart
The concept of being denied sexual pleasure for the privilege of pleasing You is highly arousing for Your lover. We all have secret fetish dreams, fantasies and hopes and male chastity is just one of those. Because this sexually arousing desire involves the use of a chastity belt or device it may be considered to be a fetish, or a bit kinky, but that’s no bad thing really! We all need a bit of spice and excitement in our lives sometimes.WHAT ATTRACTS HIM:
It’s a secret fetish that Your man finds highly provocative, arousing and very sexy, to the point that even just an image of a chastity device could cause the beginnings of an erection.
It links in with the sexual fantasy of surrendering himself to You in erotic submission.
It’s not just concerned with physical sensations, but the mind, body, emotional and inner most self. He will understand chastity as all encompassing desire, fetish or kink, that’s an intellectual, physical, emotional, sexual and spiritual experience.
From his sexual fantasy perspective the allure is that his loving Wife or Girlfriend holds the key to his penis. His cock becomes Yours, it’s freedom is dependent upon You releasing him. You hold the key to this release. You become his Keyholder.
Your lover believes that he’s masturbating far too much and would like Your help to control this by making him wear a chastity device to prevent him touching himself.
He longs to be “Loved, Locked and Owned” by You, and he believes that wearing a chastity device will demonstrate his commitment and faithfulness to You.
He longs to escape from every day realities and to allow his submissive desires freedom. This is a “need” for many men who long to set free their sexual submissiveness in the safety and security of their own homes and with their loving Wife or Girlfriend.
Orgasm denial is highly arousing to him.
He believes that You are superior to him and needs to demonstrate his acknowledgement of this by wearing a chastity belt or device.
A highly sexy aspect is that Your husband will aim to seek his pleasure in pleasing and pleasuring You, thinking of his keyholder’s needs above his own. Wearing a chastity device help him to sexually achieve this.
He is interested in practising Tantric Sexuality and wearing a chastity device may help save his sexual energy for his higher, emotional and intellectual self.
Although the above list is inclusive of the most common themes, Your husband or boyfriend may find chastity appealing for one, several or none of the above reasons. A fetish or kink is a very personal thing and You might want to discover from Your lover what is it about chastity that personally turns him on.
If he’s found the courage to tell You about his desires and sexual fantasies he’s probably done so because he believes it’s something very special he can share with You, and feels that, in being his keyholder, You may really enjoy and relish it just as much as he…