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Be the Best Bi Cuckold

Ultimately, the key to being a good bi cuckold comes down to your willingness to offer yourself to your wife and her bull without any concern for your desires.

It doesn’t matter if you’re bisexual or not. You are whatever she says you are. In the bedroom, you’re a submissive that offers his mouth, hands, and ass for the pleasure of her bull. It’s a safe space to explore how deep you can sink into being a good sub for her.

In reality, you’ll start slowly. You won’t get fucked the first time. You might just grab his cock and place it inside her. Then she might have you kiss his cock. Then she might have you suck him or play with his balls while she’s blowing him.

Don’t be afraid. Embrace what turns you on. Embrace being a bi cuckold if it thrills you. Embrace doing as your wife desires because it thrills her to see you submit. That’s what makes a good bisexual cuckold husband.

The psychology of ‘forced feminization’

No matter how liberal an age we live in, it’s always going to be embarrassing for a person to tell people that he or she identifies as another gender. If dealing with that isn’t enough, a large percentage of cross-dreamers also have to deal with a deep shame about their fantasies of forced feminisation. In such fantasies the male is forced by either a dominant male or female to dress as a woman and perform various submissive tasks and sex acts, and is verbally humiliated while doing so.

There is nothing that a cross-dreamer does in his forced feminisation fantasy that he would not want to do anyway. In reality it should be called ‘delegated feminisation’ because the dominatrix is giving him what he wants. Therefore, if the advent of a dominatrix allows him to act out his deepest fantasies, why is he being forced? Your answer maybe ‘yes, but that’s all they would be – fantasies – the advent of the dominatrix forces him to actually fulfil them.’ And I would answer, ‘yes… exactly.’

What we need to note is that there is no big psychological mystery here. A part of forced feminisation fantasies, and all forced fantasies, is really logistical: if it’s forced then it’s more likely to happen, which makes the fantasy more realistic, which makes it more arousing. Almost all fantasies that carry social shame and/or are difficult to execute, will inevitable throw up a forced version. It is an intrinsic property of so called ‘dirty’ fantasies.

Forced feminization is hot, but it needn’t be abusive or negative. The domina ‘captures’ the errant cross-dreamer and takes him into her own femininity. The female gender is unique and is the source. Males are tropes of females. The journey back into femininity is both physical and mystical.

-  Adapted from: The Transcend Movement - ‘The psychology of forced feminization’

Why your Husband or Boyfriend is interested in Chastity?

The concept of being denied sexual pleasure for the privilege of pleasing You is highly arousing for Your lover. We all have secret fetish dreams, fantasies and hopes and male chastity is just one of those. Because this sexually arousing desire involves the use of a chastity belt or device it may be considered to be a fetish, or a bit kinky, but that’s no bad thing really! We all need a bit of spice and excitement in our lives sometimes.WHAT ATTRACTS HIM:

It’s a secret fetish that Your man finds highly provocative, arousing and very sexy, to the point that even just an image of a chastity device could cause the beginnings of an erection.

It links in with the sexual fantasy of surrendering himself to You in erotic submission.

It’s not just concerned with physical sensations, but the mind, body, emotional and inner most self. He will understand chastity as all encompassing desire, fetish or kink, that’s an intellectual, physical, emotional, sexual and spiritual experience.

From his sexual fantasy perspective the allure is that his loving Wife or Girlfriend holds the key to his penis. His cock becomes Yours, it’s freedom is dependent upon You releasing him. You hold the key to this release. You become his Keyholder.

Your lover believes that he’s masturbating far too much and would like Your help to control this by making him wear a chastity device to prevent him touching himself.

He longs to be “Loved, Locked and Owned” by You, and he believes that wearing a chastity device will demonstrate his commitment and faithfulness to You.

He longs to escape from every day realities and to allow his submissive desires freedom. This is a “need” for many men who long to set free their sexual submissiveness in the safety and security of their own homes and with their loving Wife or Girlfriend.

Orgasm denial is highly arousing to him.

He believes that You are superior to him and needs to demonstrate his acknowledgement of this by wearing a chastity belt or device.

A highly sexy aspect is that Your husband will aim to seek his pleasure in pleasing and pleasuring You, thinking of his keyholder’s needs above his own. Wearing a chastity device help him to sexually achieve this.

He is interested in practising Tantric Sexuality and wearing a chastity device may help save his sexual energy for his higher, emotional and intellectual self.

Although the above list is inclusive of the most common themes, Your husband or boyfriend may find chastity appealing for one, several or none of the above reasons. A fetish or kink is a very personal thing and You might want to discover from Your lover what is it about chastity that personally turns him on.

If he’s found the courage to tell You about his desires and sexual fantasies he’s probably done so because he believes it’s something very special he can share with You, and feels that, in being his keyholder, You may really enjoy and relish it just as much as he…