KPop 2019 Is A Dark Age...

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Spread the word!

Ok, I barely dip into the Twice and Suju fandoms

But oh. My. Word.

You are all accusing Heechul of being a predator??? For dating another consenting adult???

YOU. DON'T. KNOW. THESE. IDOLS. PERSONALLY.

By calling Heechul whatever disgusting names the internet loves to use, you are questioning Momo. You all claim to love Momo and want to protect her when you automatically assume that she can't possibly be dating Heechul because, I don't know, HE'S A GOOD GUY who is famous for how respectful he is to women?! And you automatically assume a bunch of sexual stuff and not that he's dating her because he LIKES HER? You are questioning Momo's ability to think for herself and be a grown working woman making adult choices.

I have seen countless young girls go full on crazy over male idols. I've heard 14-year-old girls say sexual things about idols who are almost 30. Several of the people crying over Heechul and Momo have said these things themselves. Also apparently Heechul admired her "when she was a teenager" - you're leaving out the fact that she was 19 - AN ADULT.

And to all the people sobbing about how they're both actually gay and it's a coverup, you disgust me. You actually disgust me. These idols sexualities are none of your business. Oh, and throwing shade to someone because they're not the sexuality you wanted them to be? That's not only a million times creepier than anything you claim Heechul has done, but is hateful and contradicts everything you supposedly stand for - which is supporting people no matter their sexuality.

Momo and Heechul are both adults with their own private lives who don't owe these bratty, selfish, so-called "fans" anything. I've seen people giving Heechul DEATH THREATS. Which is in fact illegal (their relationship is not).

In short - Heechul and Momo deserve all the love and happiness in the world. You're allowed to be uncomfortable as I know many people have had bad age gap experiences but please PLEASE for once just realize that not everyone has the same experiences as you.

And to everyone accusing Heechul of horrible things and to everyone who's so concerned for Momo's safety - I sincerely hope you can get a life and stop infantilizing women as well as stop assuming the worst about a man simply because he is a man. Oh wait - this is your life. I don't hate any of you - I'm sorry for you. You must feel so bad about yourself that you feel the need to try to ruin innocent people's lives that you have no involvement in because for some reason you've decided it's bad.

Stop treating idols like they're fictional characters who must adhere to your headcanons and ships. Stop infantilizing grown adult women making their own life choices. Stop threatening men on completely baseless accusations. This is the most disgusting thing I've seen in a long time. I sincerely hope you all learn from this and stop acting like the terrifying cross between Puritans and Radfems that the internet seems to breed so prolifically.

and we keep living anyway

We are right by your side Han ❣️

~Reblog if you also suffer from an anxiety disorder,He is not alone.

Yixing in NYC

I'm soooo excited to Yixing tomorrow. Finally!!! If you are going, let's friends. If you aren't, we can still be friends.

This is super important!!!!

this is important !

i’m really disgusted by people continuing to hurt, disrespect and insult idols, who literally work their ass off to satisfy us and make us happy. and that includes invading their personal space, which is something that’s simply not okay to do, along with so many other things that have happened.

to start this post off;

s/o to the rats entering nct’s tour bus and going through their stuff

or the one who went to johnny’s house the day he was visiting his family for the first time in 3 years

people calling them bts, interviewers not being able to tell apart nct dream and nct 127….

however there’s a lot more than just the recent incidents with nct:

a fan once told tzuyu to “shut up” during a fan event when she was giving her final greeting. others joined in and told her to keep her mouth shut which resulted in her asking jeongyeon to do it for her.

aoa’s mina was cussed out by a ‘fan’ who told her that “a singer needs to be good at singing. use the time to care for your fucking face to practice singing.” which brought her close to tears.

during a seventeen fan meeting, a joshua stan was upset about something he had supposedly done and decided to express her anger by throwing some papers (and a pen) at him. luckily she was taken out from the meeting by security.

pristin’s kyla got rejected by fans at yet another fan meeting when she had some one-on-one time with them. instead of taking pictures of her, most of the cameras in the crowd turned away from her to shoot pics of the other members.

there was another time when monsta x held a fan meeting and minhyuk was leaning closer to jooheon to tell him something. a fan decided to stick her hand into his face to basically push him away from jooheon. (I don’t think she touched his face but the gesture alone is too much.)

during a got7 fan meeting, the fans had a chance to get partnered up with one of them for a game. youngjae picked a yugyeom fan, and she basically told him that she wanted to be partnered with yugyeom instead of him. he told her “you want yugyeom? go, it’s okay.” he kept saying that is was alright when clearly, it wasn’t.

some comments on an article about p.o’s mother passing away were about other groups. for example: “bangtan oppas will have a comeback in february please support them a lot.” ; “since this news isn’t fun, give us at least news about bangtan’s comeback.” ; “give us news about exo’s recent update. these kind of news are boring.” //// I’m getting so angry only writing about this

a lot of incidents happen during live streams - fans telling them to speak english when they’re clearly not comfortable in doing so. or asking for another member is simply disrespectful.

during one of nayeon’s livestreams, she read a few comments out loud which were downright cruel. some called her a grandma, others called her stupid when she didn’t know a word/term (I guess it was something trendy at that time). she played it off by saying “you guys are too much. onces (fandom name) are so cruel.”

.. or at the airport:

when exo-m and shinee arrived in korea, luhan was knocked down by a crowd of fans, and could’ve gotten swept away in the crowd if baekhyun hadn’t grabbed him.

another fan shoved t.o.p out of the way at the airport to get to daesung.

there’s also a lot of people calling idols ugly while hiding behind their twitter (or any other sort of social media) account.

y’all suck and I wish you nothing but bad luck for the rest of your life. may someone disrespect you the way you disrespect them and their privacy.

thank you for listening to my ted talk. feel free to add to this post.

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STAY, this is Chan

I’m writing at this late hour since I worried about STAY who must be more shocked and have it harder than anyone. I always wanted to give strength to STAY but today I feel like I made it hard for STAY so my heart was heavy all day.

When we first became 9 I was really happy…I’m sorry that we couldn’t protect the number 9 until the end. But it became a situation where we have to admit that we can’t continue as 9 anymore, and we’re trying to accept that truth now.

Of course STAY worried a lot about us SKZ today.. We are okay, so we hope STAY are not hurt.

The road Stray Kids have to go from now on is not an easy challenge, Stray Kids have to gather courage once again as 8. Us Stray Kids will continue to go on and give STAY strength and comfort through our music and performances.

STAY…I’m always sorry and thankful. You Make Stray Kids STAY

(translation by me, I apologise if there are any mistakes)

psa

this account does and will always support Bang Chan. if you don’t, feel free to unfollow or block me. thank you. he did nothing wrong and the hate he’s getting is literally for no reason. he’s not a racist. where that came from?? idk.

anyways, i love chan. he’s a whole cutie and an amazing person. thank you for coming to my ted talk