Frustrating...

Needy and submissive

Sir has teased me all night and I'm so very horny and submissive. My last orgasm was a ruined one and I'm currently on no touch. I'm so aroused and need more pleasure.

2nd day of denial

Today sir teased me and made me keep my vibe to my clit for a really long time and was very close to cumming then he told me to take it off. He’s now teasing me by licking me while I write this ><

I take my place on the floor.

“Keep your eyes closed” He says, and so I do.

I feel his hands spread my legs open firmly.

“Do not close your legs” He says, and so I don’t.

I feel his fingers across my skin, softly grazing oh so close to where I actually want them to venture.

His mouth on my earlobes and moving down my neck.

I move around, starting to get impatient. His fingers trace my thighs, my breasts - yet he always avoids touching the sensitive spots directly. “Please Sir, touch me.” I beg at last, unable to stand anymore.

I hear the sound of the wand switch on right next to my ear. He drags it down my side, until it rests right next to my cunt.

I hear it, feel it, so close. Finally, it’s going to start. Then he turns it off.

A soft kiss on my forehead.

“That’s all for today.” He says, and so it is.

The best

So good after a really bad day getting snuggles and scritches from Sir! 

Scrolling

I'm being Sir's horny obedient pet and scrolling tumblr while he teases me.

So horny...

Currently almost halfway through 2 weeks of denial. I feel so sensitive and horny. Sir has spent quite a long time this evening teasing me and making me feel so very submissive.

I ordered a blonde flat white from Starbucks while on my break and the barista must have been having a long day bc he goes “that would be my stripper name” and there was like five seconds of dead silence between us before he looked up realized he said that out loud

D/s 101: If you call yourself a Dominant, don’t do this stuff...

You have adopted a title that should come with a giant heaping dose of honor, respect, and trustworthiness. 

1. Don’t make demands of submissive girls that don’t belong to you. You should know the difference between having the ability to control your own submissive, and how you should be treating all the rest that don’t belong to you.

2. Don’t talk intimately/woo other submissives behind the back of the one that belongs to you. All the time and energy you have to put into the submissive world should be aimed at your own submissive. If you want a different submissive, do the right thing, and break with the one you currently own first.

3. Don’t ditch submissives. How would you feel if the person you depend on for nearly everything suddenly went up in a puff of smoke, and was never heard from again? How would it effect your ability to trust someone else to take up the same role in your life? Stop ghosting, and ruining perfectly good submissives. 

4. Don’t cut your submissive out from contributing to your relationship. Yes, I know she put you in charge, but relationships evolve, and if you don’t attend to what she wants out of yours, your relationship is likely to evolve in separate directions. You can still be in charge, and listen to her wants and needs, I promise. 

5. Don’t ask someone you just met to be your submissive. It’s your job to inspire her to submit to you, by getting to know who she is, and showing her that you are the single most qualified man to be her Dominant. Don’t be lazy. Being a Dominant takes a lot of focus and energy. If you’re not up for that, go find another title to adopt. 

6. Don’t put your submissive on a shelf when caring for her is not convenient to you, and take her down off the shelf when it suits you. Submissives are human beings, and though some of them like to be treated like objects from time to time, they should not be ignored when you don’t feel like dealing with your relationship. If you don’t have to the time and energy to adopt the role of Dominant for someone, then don’t do it in a half-assed way.

7. Don’t compare your current submissive with past submissives. It’s not a competition. You should be making her feel like she’s the most important person in your current world, so don’t make her feel like she’s less than other submissives, or that you’re pining for something you no longer have, and feel you can’t have with her. 

8. Don’t skimp on the essential ingredients in D/s relationships. Don’t be that guy who limits your submissives safeword in any way. A safeword is the difference between consensual sex, and possible rape and abuse. Don’t skimp on aftercare. Let her know how much you appreciate all the control she continuously allows you to have over her, and how well she is performing for you. It’s the difference between a proud and happy submissive, and a sad and confused one. 

9. Don’t make unilateral decisions that your submissive is directly opposed to. You don’t get to decide your submissive needs a sister because it suits you to have a second submissive to play with, when it’s patently against her wishes. Once again, it’s her relationship too. 

10. Don’t lie to your submissive. It’s all about trust. It’s trust that inspires her to submit to you. It’s trust that inspires her to allow you to continue to hold her submission. One or two breaches of trust, and it all falls apart. 

JD🌹