A gentle reminder for when things donāt feel okay. The sun will shine on you, and the moon will smile at you, and things will feel okay again with time. ā”
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Itās really tough, but sometimes you still gotta move forward, even when youāre sad.Ā
My drawing tablet completely broke a few days before my calendar deadline, coming in after a week of stress with my payments processor, so it hasnāt been the best time for me. But I gotta keep going- working on my calendar the best I can on my iPad, paying extra fees, and setting up the holiday sale. I just have to make it through!
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I know itās hard to believe now, but youāre going to make good things happen! šIām the kind of person who worries a LOT, about everything, especially the unknown and distant future. But we just have to remember that weāre working hard for a reason, and it helps to look forward to a good future rather than to fear a bad one.
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Peeling back the anxious thoughts is the toughest part, but it helps so much, especially when you write them down! Some of my favorite techniques:
1. What is the worse case scenario, and could you live with it?
2. What would you tell a friend going through this?
3. Will you remember this is in 5 years, or will you overcome it like you did with your past challenges?Ā
Iāve been thinking about this little analogy for a bit, and itās helped me reduce the weight a recent stressor has had on me. A manufacturing issue had been making me anxious this past few week, but when I stripped it down, it was just another blip that Iād deal with. I realized I had been adding all these layers of anxious thoughts onto something that Iād definitely overcome, even if the worst case happened. So I hope picturing your anxiety as an onion with a smaller, baby stressor inside can help you lighten the load of your anxieties!
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When someone understands your silence >>>
Iāll admit, Iām going to miss the little wizard guy. However I do like this thing where they completely change their logo randomly every few months.
Iāve started a collection:
āDonāt just learn, experience. Donāt just read, absorb. Donāt just change, transform. Donāt just relate, advocate. Donāt just promise, prove. Donāt just criticize, encourage. Donāt just think, ponder. Donāt just take, give. Donāt just see, feel. Donāt just dream, do. Donāt just hear, listen. Donāt just talk, act. Donāt just tell, show. Donāt just exist, live.ā
ā Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā I think writing as a skill is often underappreciated. In that, I mean I think even writers hold ourselves to a standard that no other creator does. Out of all the skills or hobbies, itās probably one of the least physical ones, which is often seen as the ābenchmarkā for skill, or the limiting factor in someone improving something.
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā For example, musicians get more nimble and can reach their notes quicker and more accurately, allowing them to play more difficult pieces. Athletes get stronger and gain in endurance, allowing them to score more goals or otherwise go farther in the season with their team.
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā I see writers all the time who believe they should be able to do anything because they donāt have that physical benchmark to limit how far they can go, and then the draft doesnāt come out how they wanted it to, and they get discouraged.
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Hereās my take, writing as a skill is just like any other. It needs practice. Itās not something youāre either born with or not, it needs to be developed and strengthened.
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā With that in mindāI promise your idea isnāt beyond you. No one is ever going to finish a perfect draft on their first tryāthatās never how anything works, and it has nothing to do with how ātalentedā you are.
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Rewrite the scene until itās capturing what you want it to. Rework that character until they are who you need them to be. Edit until your motifs are coming through. Itās all practice, every draft is another practice towards nailing the end product. Do you think artists nail drawing hands on their first try? What about on their tenth try?
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā So why are you holding yourself to this idea that itās taking too many drafts to perfect?
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Itās okay to keep trying. If youāre really struggling with realizing a concept, take it out of its context. Write the character you want to see in different situations separate from your project. Read how others have done something similar, take notes. Gather sources and inspiration for what you want to do. Reach out to other writer friends for advice.
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Overall, donāt not write because you think itās beyond you. With a little bit of work and practice, thereās no story you canāt finish.
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Good luck!
love beautifies everything, love connects everything in a poetic way. human connection is art. when your lover talks to you, their words first touch your skin like kisses and then build a home in your heart. when they hold your hand, your souls share an intertwined state. when both of your eyes meet, you enter a meeting behind a physical veil; a spiritual meeting of minds. when you look at your lover, all you see is a walking poem, speaking to you in between the lines and knowing you will understand them even, or especially in a shared silence.
Most people crave for perfect hair, perfect face, perfect body or millions of dollars.
But I crave for your arms around me, your head on my chest, whispering, "I love you" into my ear as we lay there at 1 am.
This thought saddens me because I have a constant ache in my heart that craves for your love, but you don't even know I exist.
February is right around the corner, which means itās soon time for Funguary 2023! the drawing event where we draw a bunch of mushroom based characters during the month of feb.
Hereās how it works:
Each week of the month will have a theme with seven different prompts, draw something mushroom related within that theme in order to join. The themes are Weird, Mystical, Malicious and Friendly. You donāt have to complete all the prompts, just one mushroom per theme/week is plenty!
If youāre hardcore you can definitely try and finish all the prompts though ;). The challenge intensity is adjustable to what suits you. This is a chill event where the goal is to just have fun and vibe, and honor the fungi kingdom with some really cool artš
I invite you all to come draw mushrooms with me! Use the hashtag #Funguary when posting your creations. Iāll be posting some of the creations here, and Iāll also be hanging out in the hashtag and comment sections! Really hope yāall join and draw fungi with meš„°ššæ See you all on the first of February, LETS GOOOO!!
Day 58/365
sometimes that everything you want that might not come in your way that events not turn out that way you want them too
24/02/23 Friday 8:58PM
past valentines
šš·thank you soo much
Hii,happy new year 2023!!
Thank you & the same to you. May God bless you & yours in the year ahead ššāļø
Happy New Year!
Thank you jesus for new day in mylife š·š
I'm thankful for all your good dids to me.
Thank you heavenly father !!
"In the 21rst century, Make sure if you are Buying a house, Close your mouth. If you are Buying a new car, Close your mouth. If you are Getting married, Close your mouth. If you are Going on a holiday, Close your mouth.
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If you are Going to do a course, Close your mouth. If you are Getting engaged, Close your mouth. The majority of your "friends or people close to you" want to see you do well, but Never better than them! Thatās why when you fail they will be the first to open their arms and pretend like they care. So close your mouth, let achievements do the speaking. God bless"
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It's so true most people are not on a journey of self improvement, low agency so someone else's hustle triggers them so they will do what they can to sabotage it even on an energetic level. Most people would rather be lazy and keep their limiting beliefs than level up so if they see you succeed they will go after you. Crabs in a barrel.
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I had an incident with someone in the level up community who wasn't putting effort in therapy, in leveling up, in appearance, just reading all the books and implementing nothing. We met two years ago or a year ago I believe. Since then girls who started with us go their engagement rings some married, and definitely many girls had a date at Michelin start restaurant with a multi millionaire even if it did not go well in these groups. She was so sweet in the beginning. As she became more and more and more behind and struggled getting to above a coffee date and ladies around her were surpassing her, she became bitter and started passive aggressive behavior. For example she would deliberately contradict whenever someone who leveled up more than she did speak.
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It's okay if you move slow but you try to implement something and are hopeful and move. We are all at different stages of the journey but the key is to keep moving. People who are not trying to always improve themselves lose hope and then get upset at others.
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At Miss Universe all the ladies were nice to each other, opposite of catty, because everyone was on a self improvement journey. Our success depended on how well we did, not on other ladies. We are our only competition.
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Even a lot of people who say they are on a journey of self improvement are not like the catty backbiter who was nice but after she was behind started back biting. Catina the BackBiter is actually a compose of quite a few ladies I saw and walked away from. I also notice this in person.
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Don't show off. I didn't realize I was showing off but I got attacked for getting engaged and getting married by feminists I met at a conference. Its so funny now they are considered TERFS and the woke mob went after them later.
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Don't trust people who are not actively leveling up and putting effort to be a little ahead next year more than this one, who aren't doing inner work and working on their limiting beliefs. Of course that means networking is difficult - then just keep it superficial with most people unless you see them passionate about growth.
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Stagnant people bite. Growing people don't. Most people are stagnant so be careful who you share your joy with. Don't show your plans until they happened so that nobody sabotages you.
Credit Maria Al Massani
Child of The Fire
My youth is laid out in front of me
Like scattered polaroids
Depicting a Golden Girl
Ready to face the troubles she know avoids
I spy with my little eye
A soon to be no longer
She longs for a different tide
She longs to be younger
The gruesome waters drown the crops before the harvest
Greet settles in and the Fallen get the farthest
Daughter of the Divine
Child of mother earth
Do you know where the sun sets?
Do you know itās worth?
You mourned winters end
But wished for warmth
You shoe daggers into heaven
And raindrops fell in swarms
Lover of the Light lives in a cave beneath the mountains
Nothing will bring you back, no bridges, no fountains
Board the ship and sail towards the stormy sea
Desperate and naiv, conceited by dreams, youāre no Hercules
Wings of fire light up the sky
The sweet scent of honey
Your eyes reflect the flames
And the work turns sunny
Icarus welcomes me with loving arms
Embraced by wishful thinking, by an old friend
His heart beats like mine, his skin is painted by burns
With you I soar, with you I meet my end
(a poem i once wrote, iāve always been incredibly self conscious abt showing other ppl what i write but itās fun to share it and see what other think! iād love to hear your thoughts!)
youāre allowed to simply Exist. productivity is not a competition that you are constantly losing, and you donāt need to earn your rest
there will never be a moment quite like this one again - take the picture
leave your work at work! those after hours emails can wait until morning to earn your time
how hard you work doesnāt go unnoticed or unappreciated
on that note, itās okay to way to be noticed or appreciated for how hard you work
youāll never stop surprising yourself
donāt forget that everything you do, you arenāt doing it for numbers or notoriety; youāre doing it for your younger self who would be so amazed youāve done what youāve done
no one will ever be as hard on you as you are on yourself
give yourself a break from time to time
doing your best is, in fact, doing enough
youāll earn that money back but the memories are irreplaceable
disney is, in fact, the most magical place on earth
spending time with your best friend will truly heal your soul in ways you can never explain
youāre going to say the wrong thing. youāre going to do the wrong thing. being wrong is a part of life you canāt avoid
your anxiety will be so loud, itās okay to ask to be loved louder
getting lost in a book is a great escape unlike any other
the more you focus on your recovery, the more youāre going to notice the habits that lead you to choose recovery
donāt hate yourself for sucking in your stomach in photos
donāt be so hard on yourself for having to actively make the decision to eat
just because it doesnāt come naturally to you, doesnāt mean itās impossible for you to do
you can do hard things
the bad days can, and will, be forgotten
the good days can, and will, happen
when in doubt, shave your head
you donāt need to or be anyone that you arenāt; who you are is just fine
youāre hurting right now; you havenāt been hurting the entire time
even though it can be hard to remember such a time, there have been moments without pain
itās okay that you didnāt cherish them at the time
(cc, 2022)
Best way to revange someone is success
JAB AAPKI SUCCESS KISHI KA WEEK POINT HO AUR YE AAP JANTE HO AUR USHKE BAAVJUD BHI AAP KUCH NA KRO TOH USHE BADA MURKH INSAN KOI NAY HAI KASAM SE .
Guys? I think I'm really tired. Sometimes I just sit listening to people and I think: "I really wish I could hear you..." You know? Like with my own ears. I wanna listen to your voice completely unaided by technology. I wish I could hear what you sound like with my own ears. I just wanna hear you without everything sounding so dulled like it's underwater. It's been so freaking long since I really heard someone and I really just wanna hear you talk. I just wanna hear you talking, not even saying much, just talking. For hours and hours if you have the time. And I wish I could say things back and not stutter and sound like an idiot. I wish I could carry a conversation like other people can. I wish I could freaking talk. But I can't talk to you about all the crazy things I think of or listen to all the dumb things you have to say because some guy thought that it was more important for them to drink and drive than it was for me to be able to tell you the joke I heard yesterday the way I heard it said. I just really wish that accident had never freaking happened.
priya AWANA
i feel so familiar i must have loved you more than one lifetime