Just in case any of you were wondering what an m-spec lesbian was
what’s an mspec lesbian
I'm glad you asked,dear anon. An m-spec lesbian is any sapphic that identifies with both an m-spec label and the lesbian label. (M-spec means multispectrum,so any orientation attracted to more than one gender.) So they may be romantically attracted to multiple genders,but sexually attracted to women and feminine genders. Or they are attracted to all genders excluding men. They could be reclaiming the label lesbian, as it used mean any woman who had relationships with women,no matter the sexuality. This ended in the lesbian separatist movement of th 1970's. Finally, you have those that use it to show they prioritize their attraction to women, for whatever reason.
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Hello, just a reminder-
Trans people are supported by science so your argument of 'well, i bElEVe in sCiEnCe.' is invalid...
unlike my existence.
Nice gender, did your mom pick it out for you?
This is probably my favorite joke now.
Genderfluid people? Amazing Genderflux people? Incredible Demifluid people? Lovely Demiflux people? Gorgeous Girlflux people? Stunning Boyflux people? Beautiful Genderfae people? Astounding Genderflor people? Precious Genderfaun people? Great Fluidflux people? Irreplaceable All people with a fluid gender identity? Fucking effervencent babeyy
Roses are red,
New love is tender,
You don’t need dysphoria to be transgender
I used to be really against neopronouns and felt it was a "making trans people look bad" but like now I realize it really doesnt matter. Let people express themselves how they want and use whatever pronouns they want.
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
[ tw for this post, it mentions sex/sex-repulsion a few times (just the word, nothing else) and i get heated/angry talking about it. this isn’t directed at anyone, i’m just pissed off about acephobia. ]
I think a lot of people get hung up on some ace people not liking sex or thinking it’s gross/repulsive on a personal level. Even in 2020. And I’m getting sick of it.
Even other aspec people I’ve spoken to have legitimately gotten pissed off at ace people who are averse to it. I feel like a lot of y’all only accept ace people if it’s the ones who are just as okay with sex/sexual topics/etc. as you are, and I can and WILL call you out on it when it happens. Sex-averse ace people deserve just as much goddamn respect as any other ace person.
There is a BIG difference between being sex negative and sex averse/repulsed. I’m personally very sex-averse, but you don’t see me stopping anyone else? Ace people do not walk around and claim that sex is objectively bad, and if you genuinely think we do this shit on a massive scale then you might want to try actually talking to an ace person and not exclusionists a few times in your life.
If us asking for you to, I dunno, talk about it somewhere else where it won’t make us uncomfortable, spoiler it, or maybe just tone it down a little bit, feels like being “sex negative” to you, then I genuinely worry how you treat other people and topics that make them uncomfortable. Y’all respect people’s discomfort and squicks until that person is ace and it shows.
Oh and if you try and tell me this isn’t an issue, that nobody is actually doing this, I will personally put crabs in your pillows. This shit is so constant I have the (dis)pleasure of seeing it in spaces I am apparently supposed to be welcomed in. My discomfort is not respected even in spaces that I’ve made myself. I’m laughed at and not taken seriously and viewed as childish/naive for not liking or understanding extremely sexual conversations/jokes even in my own friend-groups, and even around other aspec people, and even after I ask people to stop multiple times. Do not tell me what I, a sex-repulsed ace person, “actually” experience.
We’re allowed to joke about it being weird and not something we like. We Are Allowed To Not Like Sex, Guys.
yes- an aroace demiboy
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i hope straight trans people know they’re amazing 🥺🥺 it has to be grating to endure all the Straight Jokes when you don’t share the same privilege as cis straight people
straight trans people are wonderful, your attraction and love is wonderful, your relationships are wonderful, and being straight doesn’t make you less of a part of this community
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♠️Ace/Kaito♠️ |Read My DNI| |Anti-Exclusionist||BLM & All Cops Are Bastardized (ACAB)|It/its, Star/Stars Preferred| They/Them|Genderfluid | Bi | White
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