Rb If You Support Heteromantic Asexuals And Heterosexual Aromantics!

Even on days when I feel cis I don't like she/her pronouns and that is largely due to me never feeling completely like a girl. The most I get to that is a demigirl.

I literally go by every pronoun (yes, even neopronouns since those are my favorite and they are fucking valid) except she/her which is unfortunately what everyone I'm not out to calls me 😃

Also pronouns aren't attached to gender as they are literally just words and gender is a fucking social construct anyway.

hell yeah

When people hear the word “transgender” typically they think of the gorgeous models and actresses in the media. These are not the only people that deserve rights and recognition. There are trans women who have a hard time “passing” and living up to cishet men’s idea of “womanhood.” There are trans men who are severely under-represented in the media. There are also of course non-binary people who very few see represented and respected outside of queer spaces.

Ergo, trans rights are for ALL trans people, not just those that cishet men find attractive enough to deserve them.

About Me

Hi, I'm Ace or Kaito- whatever you prefer! I use it/its and star/stars/starself. If you *absolutely* can't use those, just use they/them or he/him. (Otherwise I will ask you to call me either 'it' or 'star'.)

Examples of those are:

It went to the clothing store and it really enjoyed the wide selection there.

Star went to the clothing store and star really enjoyed the wide selection there.

I am fluidflux, it is similar to genderfluid where my gender may change frequently-except the intensity of the gender changes as well.

For example:

One day I am perfectly fine as a bigender but then it may shift into a demi-gender or I may be completely agender for a bit.

I'm not neurotypical, I have ADHD and MADD (Maldaptive Daydreaming, which is a dissociative disorder.)

Gender can be an extremely confusing thing for me because of the way my brain operates so I may associate with some MOGAI genders to cope. If you don't support MOGAI, kindly get off my page and block me while you are at it! :)

Sad but true.

my friends r so talented. rb if ur friends are talented

call me a trender, but even people with “weird” identities deserve respect, even if you don’t understand them

I find it amusing whenever you tell someone you had a stressful day a popular phrase to respond with is 'tomorrow is another day.'

Well yeah, but today is also a day so in that moment I hate days. Jee thanks, I can't wait to relive the same harrowing experience over again!

anyway, the idea of “the one” is so innacurate and outdated. there are literally so many people that you could be compatible and share a really strong emotional connection and healthy relationship with. like if you think about it... even in platonic terms, friendship. how many best friends have you had throughout your life? your childhood best friend? high school best friend? college best friend? these were all people you were very in tune with emotionally and shared a meaningful relationship with. did they not understand you? did they not see you for who you were? did they not love you unconditionally? and you did the same. in a world w 8 billion people, one person was not the end all be all. remember that if a relationship dissolved it was for a reason; it wasn’t meant for you. there are plenty of people with whom you can form bonds with. who are willing to meet you where you are, and do what is necessary to earn a place in your life through consistent effort and actions. the “one” doesn’t exist, and they’re not out there for you to find.

fr though.

trans gay men are gay men cry about it clowns

okay but like. Queerphobia is queerphobia. Disrespecting microlabels/MOGAI and not welcoming them in the community accomplishes nothing. It’s just queerphobic. The arguments you use against them have been used against you, but by appealing to the monogamous cishet society, you assimilate. They see you as “one of the good ones”, not as fully equal. You are not paving the way for acceptance of queer identities; you are paving the way for toleration of “understandable” and cishet appealing queer identities. Identities where it’s possible for them to pretend you’re not very queer at all.

The arguments of “that doesn’t exist, you can’t just do that, you can’t be a boy or girl and look like that, this is just an attention seeking liar or abomination” towards nonbinary people in general, nonbinary microlabels, and gnc trans people has been and will be used against you. You’re not being completely accepted by society, you are blending in. You are just as queer as the people you mock, and they are just as queer as you.

But because they don’t “make sense” or “aren’t normal” or are “weird” or don’t clearly and visibly conform to cishet ideals, they are easier to turn the flame on. That flame is still there. That burning disgust and hatred of open queerness is still there. But because you are like them, because you pass and are “normal enough” to them, you have some ability to redirect the heat.

You have the privledge of passing, of being understandable to what they consider normal and acceptable, and that acceptance and toleration is at risk if you’re lumped in with clearly non-passing or conforming queer people, so you join in on their oppression. You say, “don’t hate me, hate them, I’m the normal one” when you used to not be. You bear burn scars and don’t want any more, so you push the flame to people that are easier to burn.

That heat and hatred is not gone, it’s just not directly pointing at you anymore. If someone were to use those arguments against you, which they have, you’d be hated just the same, which you were. You are not abolishing the flame, you are just redirecting it.

MOGAI, xenogenders, neopronouns, microlabels, all of them are in our community, and they always have been. Their ability to be specific and happy with their labels because they have the comfort and space to openly explore their gender and sexuality in much more depth, is not a disgrace to what we’ve built, but something to be celebrated. They feel safe enough to and have a community for terms to describe themselves as much as they want, and that is far from a bad thing. Discovery is a long and difficult process. Whatever they find and whatever they try, if it stays or not, is valid. What helps them is valid. Their queerness is valid.

All you are doing is separating yourself from that community, our community, so that you are not burned with them.