really hate how so many people are aphobic, transphobic, etc without being OPEN about it. i just wanna follow some new people without having to search through their blog to make sure they dont hate me or other people for simply existing
I agree with the labels not being contradictory towards whatever orientation you may be yet I have to add
heteromantics are queer and thus LGBTQ+.
You don't have to like the same gender to be queer you just don't follow amatonormativity and/or heteronormativity. Let me add, this is typically not by choice like how asexuals and aromantics don't have a choice in not feeling attraction.
They have a different experience than that of heterosexuals. You may not notice, as I am going to assume that you are an allosexual/romantic by your word choice, but this world is heavily sex and romance crazed.
I am an aroace demiboy and you won't believe how hard it is to live in a society like this. We do face oppression like you as well, I'm not going to argue which is worse homophobia or aphobia because oppression isn't a contest but we do have to face discrimination as well.
Not just corrective rape and conversion 'therapy', but some doctors even put ace patients off of meds if found to lower their libido. There is nothing wrong with feeling no sexual and/or romantic attraction yet we feel broken for years. When we hear the terms asexual or aromantic we realize there is nothing wrong with us afterall.
You have to remember that this community was made to protect everyone thrown out by the amato/heteronormative society. Asexuals and aromantics experience oppression and need support just like everyone else in the LGBT+ community. Instead of infighting and saying who gets to be allowed in or not lets actually fight discrimination.
Is this person trying to say that being ace or aro makes you less of your sexual orientation…? This is just,,, so silly. A gay ace or a gay aro isn’t “basically” gay, they are gay.
Being gay doesn’t make you any less ace and being ace doesn’t make you any less gay. They aren’t contradictory! Same goes for every other sexual orientation and with being aro
~Mod Pluto
police literally dragged disabled protestors out of the capitol when they were doing a sit-in for healthcare and teargassed + shot blm protestors marching for human rights but try to deescalate and take selfies w armed insurrectionists and people still want to act like the police don’t exist specifically to enforce oppressive systems
So I have like 15 names and I keep adding more everyday. My main two with people I know irl is (Ares/Ace) but man do I have a lot I go by in every other situation. I fucking love it. Why choose when I can have multiple fucking cool names?
it is my good indecisive trans right to have as many names as i like. after all it’s harmless, it’s fun, it’s sexy, and it’s free.
People will scream socialism the second someone proposes better and cheaper healthcare. They'll think that somehow black people being lifted up out of their oppression means less rights for themselves. Most left policies are about basic human rights and I can't believe some people aren't okay with that.
DNI
If-
MAP/A supporter of MAPS
Racist/Anti-BLM
NSFW
DDLG
Queerphobe ( that means asexuals, transgender, and aromantics as well)
Exclusionist of Any Kind
TERF
A Trumpie/Support Trump
Anti-MOGAI
Don't Like the Use of Queer (not saying you are horrible for feeling uncomfortable, this is just a warning, I do use it a lot.)
shout out to my fellow aromantics! especially anyone who has ever felt guilty about not reciprocating someone’s feelings! here’s your reminder that:
you don’t owe someone a relationship no matter how kind they, are or how much they like you
you aren’t broken or missing any pieces
there are so many beautiful types of love in the world; the way you love is just important as anyone else’s
i love you (platonically)!
2020 just blew it out of porportion. Hey 2020 don’t disappoint us.
2020: Global Pandemic, Economic Depression, and A Lot of Quartines.
♠️Ace/Kaito♠️ |Read My DNI| |Anti-Exclusionist||BLM & All Cops Are Bastardized (ACAB)|It/its, Star/Stars Preferred| They/Them|Genderfluid | Bi | White
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