“We Often Want It So Badly That We Ruin It Before It Begins. Overthinking. Fantasizing. Imagining.

“We often want it so badly that we ruin it before it begins. Overthinking. Fantasizing. Imagining. Expecting. Worrying. Doubting. Just let it naturally evolve”

— Unknown

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10 months ago

Starving is NOT an option when you're my friend!

11 months ago

Also I feel like a smutty headcanon for jack would be amazing too

Sex / Aftercare with Jack Harlow

Also I Feel Like A Smutty Headcanon For Jack Would Be Amazing Too

You know everyone thinks this man is vanilla, but he just needs the right person to match his freak. That person is you

Missionary may be his favorite position only because he's staring into your eyes, lifting one leg over his shoulder so he can go deeper and harder.

He will talk you through it

Vocal during sex. Praises you, pants and those deep ass moans LORD

Breeding kink to the fucking max: Will nut on you, but why waste it when it can be inside you

Loves slow makeout sessions even if it doesn't lead to sex. He loves kissing all over your body and hearing your soft moans

Makeup sex is rough and dominate. He uses his size and height to his advantage

Gets turned on seeing you in his clothes. Doesn't even care if his hoodies are missing as long as you got them.

Wipes you down with a warm towel, offers to make some food (he can't cook for shit but still does his best for you)

Cuddles after a passionate session. Talks about future plans with you.

Loves to big spoon, but occasionally on stressful days: laying his head in your chest is the cure to everything.

Loves to spoil you. He knows whatever gets swiped on his card he has the honors of taking off of you at night.

Takes sexy polaroids of you to keep with him on tour

Needy for you 24/7

Has a kink for public sex. Will pull you into a restroom for a quickie or pull your panties aside in the dressing room just to get a little taste.

Loves to use toys on you. Favorites? Rope, blindfold and a vibrator.

Inner child is happy when you play with his hair

Comes up with the most bizarre nicknames for you:

In absolute heaven when you're riding him

I probably didn't clarify, certified muncher

Says I love you first during a passionate moment

6 months ago

Romance Masterpost

How to write it

How to write romance

Love Language - Showing, not telling love

Love Language - Showing you care

Honeymoon

Slow burn

Forbidden Romance (+ prompts)

Reasons for a break-up while still loving each other

How to write a wedding

How to create quick chemistry

How to write a love-hate relationship

How to write enemies to lovers (+ prompts)

How to write lovers to enemies to lovers

Arranged matrimony for royalty (+ prompts)

Date gone wrong

Academic rivals to lovers

Romantic Fall Date Ideas

How to write a polyamorous relationship

Milestones in a relationship

How to write age difference

Fluffy Kiss Scene

Reasons a couple would divorce on good terms

Reasons for having a crush on someone

Ways a wedding could go wrong

Prompt Lists

Romance Prompt Lists (Masterpost)

Bad romances/unrequited/break-up (Masterpost)

Flirting + Teasing Prompts (Masterpost)

Kisses Masterpost (Prompts, First Kiss, Accidental Kiss, …)

Two smart and also stupid people in love

Push and pull romantic prompts

Lovers to enemies

Love to hate relationship

Smut Prompts (Masterpost)

One-Liners Dialogue - Romantic, Smutty + Physical

Things said during sex prompts

Jealousy Prompts

OTP Christmas Prompts

Fluffy Winter Holiday Prompts

Romance Sentence Starters

Romantic Question Prompts

Domestic Fluff Prompts

Fluff Prompts

Fluff Bingo

Fluffy Sentence Starters

Sleepy Starters

Fluffy Dialogue Prompts

Super soft intimacy

make ‘em swoon

Cute Interactions

Romantic, non-sexual intimacy prompts

Fake Dating Prompts (Masterpost)

OT3 Prompts (Masterpost)

Meet Cutes/Meet Uglies

Royal Love (Masterpost)

Hurt/Comfort Dialogue Prompts

Hurt/Comfort Prompts

Caring for their partner prompts

Roommates to Lovers (Masterpost)

Professor/TA Romance

Friends with benefits to lovers Prompts

Romance Dialogue Prompts – Uncomfortable with affection

Matchmaking Prompts

Valentine’s Day Prompts

Hand-holding

Kisses

Hugs

Touching

Hugging Dialogue

Physical Reactions

Casual Affections

Intimate Moments

Doing nice things prompts

Love Languages (Masterpost)

Subtle Acts of Love

Bed Sharing Scenarios

Seeking out physical affection

Asking for permission

Love Confessions (Masterpost)

Lovers being caught Prompts

Love Triangle Ideas

Soulmates AU (Masterpost)

WLW Plot Ideas

Second chance trope

Cooking/Baking Dialogue Prompts

Quiet movie night Prompts

Grumpy + Sunshine Dialogue

Grumpy Affectionate Dialogue

Exes to lovers Prompts (Masterpost)

Reluctant allies to friends to lovers dynamic

Best friends to lovers Prompts

Childhood friends to lovers Prompts

Workplace Romance (Masterpost)

Secret relationship dialogue

Date Prompts (Masterpost)

One Night Stand Prompts

Parallel Universe Romance Prompts

Lover being hurt Prompts

Relationship Milestones (Masterpost: moving in, getting married, honeymoon)

Relationship Problems

Relationship Changes

Ship Dynamics

OTP Prompt Challenge

Enemies to Lovers Masterpost

‘Imagine your OTP’ Prompts

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3 years ago

Things no one tells you about when you’ve been mentally ill for years and it won’t get better

— everyone will give up on you. Some will say it upfront, some will have indirect ways of showing it (you’re a lucky mf if you still have someone )

— your symptoms/ breakdowns/ panic attacks are cute for a few months. Everyone wants to help. Later on people find them annoying and inconvenient

— you will be blamed for not getting better. Doesn’t matter if you’re doing therapy, taking meds, exercising, eating well and sleeping. You can do all of it, some of it or none of it. They will find fault in your efforts.

— desensitization to your pain. This one isn’t their fault, it’s human nature. But it happens and yes it hurts cuz you would wish you were desensitized to your own pain but you have to feel it no matter what. Doesn’t matter if it’s the millionth time. It demands to be felt.

— people move on. But you can’t. You see people cope and get over things while you simply can’t. And it’s so much worse if you’ve been mentally ill for years. Even the smallest things break you and trigger you.

— you slowly realize this world isn’t made for mentally ill people in any way

— you’re tired / fatigued all the time. You have been for years now. You simply exist but you aren’t capable of living anymore. Your illnesses have taken everything that made you feel alive. You’re nothing but a shell. A body.

1 year ago

Don't tell people your boundaries. Show them.

If you tell someone they can't talk to you a certain way or do certain things, those are not boundaries. Boundaries are things we show. If you tell someone "if you do that again I am not going to speak to you" and you stay and continue to speak to them, that's not a boundary. Just words. Words that they now know means absolutely nothing and they can take advantage of.

You show people how to treat you.

You reinforce your boundaries with your actions. Unless you show someone with your actions that what they are doing is not okay, and you do not continue to allow it, they will keep doing it.

1 year ago
Sofia Found Herself In A Career Rut. Harry Was Coming Off A Six-month World Tour And An Unexpected Break-up.

Sofia found herself in a career rut. Harry was coming off a six-month world tour and an unexpected break-up. They both end up at the same studio. Sofia working the front desk and Harry writing his sophomore album.

A story about Malibu, unexpected friendships and why timing is everything.

part one

part two

part three - harry’s pov 

part four

part five

part six - harry’s pov

part seven*

part eight

part nine

part ten*

part eleven

part twelve*

completed!

vogue drabble*

nye 2019

nye 2020

harry’s camera roll

sofia’s camera roll

contact photos

*denotes mature content

inspo | sofia | harry | masterlist | let’s talk

1 year ago

“I don’t regret us but I wouldn’t do it again.”

— Unknown

10 months ago

This is the beginning of loving yourself. Welcome home.

10 months ago
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