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Coming into a fandom late
INTP Gifted Kid + autism = therapy
me (INTP with Asperger's): *frantically wolfing down books*
concerned friend (ISTJ): dude, stop. Why are you doing this? You don't even enjoy half of those!
INTP: Because if I don't, then I feel stupid and then I can't feel like "I'm not like other girls" anymore
ISTJ: ... are you serious
INTP: Believe me, I am perfectly aware of the unhealthyness of the situation.
INTP: My childhood feelings of inadequacy and isolation due to my autism pushed me to think of myself as intellectually superior to my peers in order to cope.
INTP: It's silly and childish, but my superiority complex has to be fed as of yet I have not reached an adequate level of emotional maturity let it go and confront my crippling inferiority complex.
ISTJ: I cancelled your subscription to the library.
INTP: *SCREEEEEEEEEEE*
ISTJ *wrestling feral INTP*: Get in the car, loser. We're going to therapy.
This is so wholesome
I was cleaning out my computer and I found a bunch of screenshots of text posts from 2013-2014. The golden age of tumblr.
I take no credit for these posts.
Sex stuff you probably won’t learn from fanfiction and/or porn:
Erotic fic and porn can be a lot of fun! But if you aren’t being provided with adequate sex ed through other channels (comprehensive sexual education, frank and open discussions with trusted adults, etc.), turning to fanfic and porn for your understanding of sex is gonna leave some major blindspots and may leave you with some unrealistic expectations. While there’s nothing wrong with these kinds of erotica, they are fictional and tend to leave out a lot of the more realistic, human parts of sex - they serve a great purpose, but that purpose isn’t primarily educational. The following is an incomplete list of some things you should probably know about sex that a lot of fic and porn tends to leave out:
It isn’t always super hot or super sweet. Sometimes it’s super silly. Or sometimes it’s sort of mundane and you’re both simply scratching an itch. That’s fine too. (Hell, sometimes you’re talking about comic books while boning and your partner is laughing that you’re getting REALLY ANGRY about spider-man while they’re going to town on you.)
You will probably not climax at the same moment. It’s a sweet idea, but extremely hard to coordinate, and if all your concentration is going into coming at the exact same moment, you’re probably not enjoying yourselves as much as you might.
Sometimes bodies make weird, goofy noises. Squelching, slapping, air-escaping, un-sexy noises. It’s okay to laugh at this.
Hell, it’s okay to laugh during sex in general.
Sometimes you fart. Sometimes you fart while someone is going down on you and it is embarrassing as hell. This isn’t the end of the world. Embarrassing body things happen. Heck, sometimes, with anal, there’s a little poo. You get over it.
Sometimes sex is… kinda bad? This doesn’t mean it’s assault, or something traumatic – sometimes it’s consensual but just kinda bleh and not what you hoped for. The best thing to do (if you’re talking about sex with a partner and not just a hook up who you can not call back) is talk to them about it. Figure out what went wrong, what you enjoy and what you don’t, and communicate what techniques you do and don’t like. Also don’t be afraid to stop someone in the middle of the sex act you’re not enjoying and offer guidance on how to help make it good for you too. (Side tip: masturbation makes great research into what you personally do and don’t enjoy sexually)
You won’t enjoy every sex act. Not every body is wired to find every thing pleasurable. You might find anal does nothing for you. You may find g-spot stimulation just makes you really anxious that you’re about to pee. You may not enjoy giving or receiving oral. You’re not broken if you don’t like something that every pornstar or smutty fanfic protagonist seems to have earth-shattering orgasms from. Everyone’s got nerve endings in a range of places – it’s quite literally, different strokes for different folks.
On that note, not all orgasms are earth-shattering. Sometimes it just feels warm and nice. That’s fine too.
Sometimes, if you’re neutral on a sex act and your partner loves it, you can suck it up for them, and they’ll suck up something they’re not crazy about for your pleasure in return. But communicate preferences with each other! Know that when a partner does that thing you love that they don’t get much from, that it’s an act of care, and vice versa.
Falling asleep in each other’s arms right after wild passionate sex seems really romantic, but dried and crusty fluids are gonna be a bitch in the morning. Also, after sex, you should both (regardless of your equipment) go pee to clear out the urethra of any gunk or bacteria to reduce risk of a UTI.
Putting a towel down on the bed before sex means you don’t have to sleep on wet funky sheets. (it’s also verrrrrry useful for period sex if you or your partner menstruate.)
A lot of people don’t like dirty talk, or rough sex. Always ask first. (Fanfic on the whole does a better job than porn at showing communication, but a lot of it is still highly fictive on this point)
PROTECTION PROTECTION PROTECTION. Use condoms, dental dams, etc. not just to prevent pregnancy, but to reduce risk of STIs. (Yes, even couples with the same genitals who don’t need to worry about pregnancy).
Lube is great and very important, but random goopy things around you are not good lube. Random oils especially, since oil doesn’t flush out well and can trap bacteria inside the body – oil-based lubricant also degrades condoms. Use lube specifically designed for intimate purposes. Water-based and silicone-based lubes help sex feel really good!
Bigger isn’t necessarily better. A lot of people with vaginas don’t enjoy the feeling of being repeatedly punched in the cervix by a monster cock. Some people enjoy a larger size when being penetrated by an appendage or toy and some don’t.
Bodies are hairy. Genitals are hairy. You may get a pube stuck in your teeth at some point. If your partner is WAY fuzzier than porn ever led you to believe they’d be, well, that’s normal.
Not everyone loves the taste of ejaculate. Sometimes it’s nasty (flavor tends to vary from person to person depending on their diet, but sometimes you just really don’t like it no matter what. Some of us hate the taste of peanut butter. People don’t always like things). It’s okay not to swallow, or to request a penis-having partner warn you so they don’t ejaculate in your mouth (in fact, it’s polite for them to do the latter).
If you’re gonna have shower sex, get one of those rubbery mats for the shower floor that gives you traction, because otherwise it’s super embarrassing to call for an ambulance while dripping wet and naked because you slipped and accidentally broke something and your partner got a concussion while you were trying to bang in the shower.
Moaning and screaming wildly during sex is fun but it will make the neighbors in the apartments adjacent to you hate you. Make choices accordingly.
put in the tags the first thing that comes up when u type “i am,” “i’m not,” “i love,” “i hate,” and “i wish”
Do you have any kinks?
That second sleep after you’ve woken up too early
I laughed way too hard at this
That moment after you’ve ate too much food
from Darrrrcy DY
I find myself opposed to the view of knowledge as a passive copy of reality.
- Jean Piaget 1896-1980
How do we learn things? The answers to this age-old question have been examined and analysed by many scientists. There are plenty of prominent theories explaining cognitive development and helping us to understand the foundation of knowledge.
One of the most prominent answers to the question has come from a Swiss psychologist, Jean Piaget.
The legacy of Jean Piaget to the world of early childhood education is that he fundamentally altered the view of how a child learns. And a teacher, he believed, was more than a transmitter of knowledge she was also an essential observer and guide to helping children build their own knowledge.
As a university graduate, Swiss-born Piaget got a routine job in Paris standardising Binet-Simon IQ tests, where the emphasis was on children getting the right answers. Piaget observed that many children of the same ages gave the same kinds of incorrect answers. What could be learned from this?
Piaget interviewed many hundreds of children and concluded that children who are allowed to make mistakes often go on to discover their errors and correct them, or find new solutions. In this process, children build their own way of learning. From children’s errors, teachers can obtain insights into the child’s view of the world and can tell where guidance is needed. They can provide appropriate materials, ask encouraging questions, and allow the child to construct his own knowledge.
Piaget’s continued interactions with young children became part of his life-long research. After reading about a child who thought that the sun and moon followed him wherever he went, Piaget wanted to find out if all young children had a similar belief. He found that many did indeed believe this. Piaget went on to explore children’s countless “why” questions, such as, “Why is the sun round?” or “Why is grass green?” He concluded that children do not think like adults. Their thought processes have their own distinct order and special logic. Children are not “empty vessels to be filled with knowledge” (as traditional pedagogical theory had it). They are “active builders of knowledge-little scientists who construct their own theories of the world.”
Piaget’s Four Stages of Development
Sensorimotor Stage: Approximately 0 - 2 Infants gain their earliest understanding of the immediate world through their senses and through their own actions, beginning with simple reflexes, such as sucking and grasping.
Preoperational Stage: Approximately 2 - 6 Young children can use symbols for objects, such as numbers to express quantity and words such as mama, doggie, hat and ball to represent real people and objects.
Concrete Operations: Approximately 6 - 11 School-age children can perform concrete mental operations with symbols-using numbers to add or subtract and organizing objects by their qualities, such as size or color.
Formal Operations: Approximately 11 - adult Normally developing early adolescents are able to think and reason abstractly, to solve theoretical problems, and answer hypothetical questions.
Albert Einstein once called Piaget’s discoveries of cognitive development as, “so simply only a genius could have thought of it”. As the above shows, Piaget’s theory was born out of observations of children, especially as they were conducting play. When he was analysing the results of the intelligence test, he noticed that young children provide qualitatively different answers to older children.
This suggested to Piaget that younger children are not dumber, since this would be a quantitative position – an older child is smarter with more experience. Instead, the children simply answered differently because they thought of things differently.
At the heart of Piaget’s theory then is the idea that children are born with a basic mental structure, which provides the structure for future learning and knowledge. He saw development as a progressive reorganisation of these mental processes. This came about due to biological maturation, as well as environmental experience.
We are essentially constructing a world around us in which we try to align things that we already know and what we suddenly discover. Through the process, a child develops knowledge and intelligence, which helps him or her to reason and think independently.
For Piaget his work was never just for a closeted coterie of scholars and researcher but had real world application. Piaget was able to put his work in a wider context of importance. He said, “only education is capable of saving our societies from possible collapse, whether violent, or gradual”. Piaget’s theory centres on the idea that children, as little scientists, need to explore, interact with, and experiment in order to gain the information they need to understand their world.
After that turtle insta story, all I can think of is how sweet going to a petting farm/zoo with Carter would be
the bestest insta story he ever posted, hands down.
The two of you are a bit out of place at the petting farm and stick out like a sore thumb among all the children and their families. In fact, taking a close look around will confirm that you and Carter are the only couple present in that time without children to accompany you, but it doesn’t bother either of you. Or really, anyone else. There’s just so much to see and so many animals to pet that most people are concerned with running after their own kids and making sure they’re keeping safe despite the animals being pretty docile: one enclosure has a few sheep and their babies, another has domestic goats and across from them, a few ponies are lounging around underneath the warm summer sun. The map you received upon arrival also confirmed a few ponds hosted koi fish and turtles, while birds like ducks and geese were left to roam freely.
“Carter,” you say carefully, inching a little behind him while narrowing your eyes towards a group of geese who seemed to have taken a particular interest towards the two of you as you weaved your way towards the nearby bodies of water.
Carter, having been a little distracted by your surroundings, barely tears his eyes away from the area holding several rabbits. For the time being, most of the children claimed territory there so the two of you made a unanimous decision to circle back to it at some later point when it’ll surely be less busy. After all, the ponies are just a stone throw away.
He hums in question, then seems to note that you’re using him as a human shield and a laugh leaves his mouth in surprise. “Don’t tell me you’re scared of a few birds,” he says, looking from you to the geese.
“I’m not scared,” you correct although your almost defensive stance says otherwise. It’s as if you’re keeping yourself ready to engage a fight or flight instinct though when it comes to those particular birds, it’s almost always the latter. “It’s just unsettling how closely they’re watching. Look at that, they’re literally zeroed in on us.”
“So, you’re scared,” he concludes because he knows you too well to buy into your bullshit and apparently, today he doesn’t even feel like pretending much. It’s hard to when you’re pinching the back of his shirt, almost gluing yourself to his back.
Between the two of you, he’s the bigger one and though you’re pretty sure absolutely no human on earth could win a fight against a group of geese that may randomly be set off hissing in warning at any given moment, you’re willing to let him take the fall for you on this front.
“They won’t do anything to you, you know that right?” he says in a matter of fact tone that makes you throw a glare up at him, though it lacks any heat. “Here, look.” Carter clicks his tongue against the roof of his mouth quietly as if that’d lure the birds closer and when he actually begins taking a few steps closer to them, a rush of no, no, no leaves your mouth, words stumbling into each other. It makes him laugh, this time properly and you shove your shoulder into his body lightly.
“Yes they will and they won’t even hesitate to,” you defend. “My grandparents’ neighbours used to have them around their house and every time I went around, I swear they could tell whenever I walked past. Actually, I’m pretty sure they had some sort of anti-me radar because they’d always hiss even beyond the gate—hey, don’t laugh! I’m serious.”
As he leads the way ahead, still caught up in a fit of laughter, he brings his arm up and a little behind him to pull you forward to walk by his side instead, reeling you in even closer so he can drop a kiss to the top of your head.
“No one and nothing is or will ever be anti-you. There’s no such thing,” he tells you and his words prompt an involuntary smile to form on your mouth. “Are you sure you didn’t do something to set them off?”
“Definitely. I had a very strong sense of self-preservation even as a four year old,” you mumble and relax into his hold; half because you know he wouldn’t let anything you don’t like come close to you and half because, well, Carter is cozy.
The two of you make several stops on your way towards the pond hosting turtles because you know that’s the main attraction for him. Over the course of the past few weeks, Carter has been dropping several not-so-subtle hints to you that maybe the two of you could consider having one for the simple fact that he likes them. Really, really likes them. You lost track of the amount of times he’d message you various links to online articles about caring for turtles or the number of photos he’d send your way along with random facts about them. You built up quite the arsenal of turtle-related information recently so much so that you’d consider yourself a damn near expert in the field.
You don’t really know what you’ll do with the fact that one of the oldest recorded turtles on Earth is 188 years old, but you preserve that fact as if it’ll come in handy one day. Who knows when you’ll join the team on a quiz next and win them a ten point question with that. You appreciate Carter’s enthusiasm, though, and gradually, you feel yourself being won by his arguments.
Not to mention your growing fondness and interest for the National Geographic Kids’ pages which he tells you about at random points of the day because apparently, they have the best facts.
“Babe, look,” he says breathlessly, drawing you out of your thoughts.
It doesn’t take much to figure out he’s pointing towards one of the fawns that is currently resting its head on the wooden railing, watching the two of you with big Bambi eyes that have your heart swelling. Carter leads the way slowly, carefully as if scared he might scare it away; all the while, he’s cooing softly and if you weren’t in the current situation, you know you would’ve squealed over how absolutely adorable he’s being. Here’s a grown six-foot man who rakes in praise from commentators across the league for his fantastic goalkeeping, metaphorically melting over tiny animals. It’s not exaggerating to say you can feel your heart actually melting.
Actually, consider it a puddle because Carter reaches out carefully, stopping when the fawn lifts its head so that he can give it all the time it needs to decide if it wants to accept him or step away. The fawn watches the two of you, remaining entirely still but it must sense you’re not approaching with any ill intentions. Slowly, it rests its head back down on the railing and when Carter’s palm meets the top of its head, he caresses the fawn slowly, carefully.
A whispered “oh my god” leaves your mouth in wander. Thankfully, he allowed you to slip from his hold without any resistance and you have just enough space to pull out your phone and take a photo of the moment. It’s picture perfect, but you don’t let your eyes linger too long on the device if you have the real deal right in front of you.
Carter is smiling softly, bending down just a little so that he is almost exactly eye-to-eye with the fawn whose ears wiggle a little before settling. He’s talking quietly. Some words, you can’t make out but you pick up on the “hey buddy” he greets it with, along with other phrases like “aren’t you so pretty”. You have to physically bite down on your bottom lip because the sight is really one in a million. Part of you wants to pull Carter towards you, squeeze him in an embrace as if that’s the only way you could properly express the intensity of your love for him while part of you wants to just let him be so you can drink in the sight. It’s the latter that wins, of course. You’ll shower him with plenty of love and affection at some point later on.
Slowly, you approach the fawn yourself, brushing your palm gently down the back of its neck. The baby sighs shortly but you guess contentedly, and a grin forms on your mouth as you watch it close its eyes.
There’s movement behind it that you catch out of the corner of your eyes and when you tip your head up a little, you watch another fawn approach. This one has a dusting of white fur all across its head that makes you think of constellations and it’s also a little smaller. So much so that once it finally reaches the wooden railing, you have to actually crouch down a little in order to slide your hand between it. You keep your hand held out, palm upwards and let the animal sniff it curiously although it probably deduced from its sibling’s welcoming behavior that your and Carter aren’t a threat. The smaller fawn takes a few steps closer, effectively closing the distance between its head and your hand. When it pushes closer even further, its nose brushes against yours and you laugh softly.
The unmistakable shutter of a phone camera goes off and when you look up, Carter has his device pointed towards you.
“Thanks for my new wallpaper,” he says and you laugh quietly.
“Same to you,” you respond.
You turn your attention back to the fawn that has come to you, brushing your fingers lightly across the top of its head and along its neck but your bliss is interrupted by the distant sounds of children squealing. They must’ve realized the two of you had drawn the fawns closer and were probably bounding towards the enclosure given their parents’ yells of “slowly so we don’t disturb them”.
It’s a bit difficult to tear yourself away but before you do, you caress your thumb against the side of the fawn’s head. “Won’t be gone too long, baby,” you say towards it.
When you rise back up to your full height and look towards Carter, he releases something akin to a dreamy sigh. “Babe,” he says towards you and you laugh, shaking your head slowly.
It’s your turn to read him like a book. “We can’t have fawns, Carter,” you tell him and cozy up to his side again, pulling him away a little just as a family draws in closer. “I’m pretty sure apartments in Philadelphia aren’t very fawn friendly. I don’t think they’d like it themselves.”
“Then I’ll get us a house way out of the city,” he says with such conviction in his tone that you can’t help but roll your eyes to playfully.
“Let’s settle on turtles first and then we’ll take it from there, okay?”
“Oh, so you do want one.”
You pretend to sigh heavily, shoulders drooping a little. “In theory, I’m an expert at caring for them. Might as well put that to practice now, don’t you think?”
Carter leans down and his answer comes in the form of a kiss he presses to your mouth, forcing you to drop the act and perk up immediately.
“Who would’ve thought? Carter Hart, pet whisperer.” You look up towards him, take in the sheer joy on his face and then shake your head. “Actually, I’m not surprised at all. But no geese.”
“Damn, just when I was planning on names,” he sighs heavily, then promptly laughs when you let out a sharp “Carter” in warning.
New Girl | 1x05 - “Cece Crashes”
😦
The Half Hour S05E09 – Emily Heller
I feel attacked. 😶
Mood.
🤷🏼♀️ This kinda sucks..
But I tried with my other name, and this case up. It is very accurate for the most part, I kinda like math👯♀️
New Tag Game!! Look up your name on urban dictionary and tell us how much you agree with the definition. Tag 10 people to keep it going 💞💝💓
Thanks @emwritesfootball for tagging me 💙
Well it’s… something. Not my description the black hair and stuff and this describe me as an angel which I’m not 😅 Popular? I say no but the other things quite true
a little love for all you ladies 💜🖤
Not a fanfic writer, but reblogging to support my favs and other writers on here, really grateful for all of you! 🙌🏻🙇🏼♀️
Fanfiction is becoming people’s primary form of entertainment right now because most media right now is so cheap, bland, recycled, and sponsored by people who love money more than the source material. Fanfiction is written for free by people who genuinely love what they’re writing about. That’s why it’s better. That’s why it’s more satisfying. Fanfiction is a home-cooked meal made for yourself and for your friends. Media today is junky fast food spoiled by too much grease and the knowledge that the people producing it are being criminally mistreated and underpaid.
Which Baby Are You?
JANUARY BABY
Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth. Stubborn. Repost this in 5 mins and you will meet someone new in 8 days that will perfectly balance your personality.
FEBRUARY BABY
Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexiest out of everyone. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest And loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions. Repost this in 5 mins and you will talk to someone new and realize that you are a perfect match.
MARCH BABY
Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others. If you repost this in the next 5 mins, you will meet your new love in 8 days.
APRIL BABY
Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others. Very confidant. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and traveling. Systematic. Hot but has brains. If you repost this in 5 mins, a cutie that’s caught your eye will introduce themselves and you will realize that you are very much alike in the next 2 days.
MAY BABY
Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High-spirited. If you repost this in the next 5 minutes, you will become close to someone you do not speak too much in the next 4 days.
JUNE BABY
You’ve got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have an a very attractive partner. a wicked hottie. It is also more than likely that you have a massive record collection. You have a great choice in films, and may one day become a famous actor/actress yourself - heck, you’ve got the looks for it!!! IN the next 6 days you will meet someone that may possibly become one of your closest friends, if you repost this in 5 minutes.
JULY BABY
Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover. Repost this in the next 5 mins and your reputation will boost someway in the next 12 days
AUGUST BABY
Outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. No self-control. Kind hearted. Self-confident. Loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. Easy to get along with and talk to. Has an “every thing’s peachy” attitude. Likes talking and singing. Loves music. Daydreamer. Easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. Hates studying. in need of “that someone”. Longs for freedom. Rebellious when withheld or restricted. Lives by “no pain no gain” caring. Always a suspect. Playful. Mysterious. “charming” or “beautiful” to everyone. stubborn. curious. Independent. Strong willed. A fighter. Repost in 5 mins and you will meet the love of your life sometime next month.
SEPTEMBER BABY
Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people’s problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional. Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand. If you do not repost this in the next 5 mins, someone very close to you will become mad at you in the next 8 days.
OCTOBER BABY
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all. repost this in 5 mins or you will not meet the love of your life for 10 years.
NOVEMBER BABY
Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the greatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind. Repost in 5 mins & you will excel in a major event coming up sometime this month.
DECEMBER BABY
This straight-up means you are the most good-looking person possible… Better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer.Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves music. Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive.
Why empaths love differently
🌙 Empaths crave deep and meaningful relationships.
🌙 They value trust and authenticity more than an average person.
🌙 Empaths don’t like small talk. They long for deep conversations and they want to be able to share their thoughts and feelings with their partner and that their partner shares their inner world with them.
🌙 Empaths have a calm and soft presence and are therefore often a magnet for toxic people and narcissists. Empaths are understanding and excellent listeners and they have to be careful not to be used for that by toxic people.
🌙 Empaths tend to attract people who want to be healed or saved instead of to be loved.
🌙 Empaths are a sponge for other people’s emotions and energies. They need a partner who has an aura and energy that isn’t draining for the empath.
🌙 Empaths are honest, very honest. They can’t fake things. They will honestly tell you how they feel and what’s on their mind. This deepens and tightens the relationship because the relationship will be pure and authentic.
🌙 They are givers. It’s in their nature to give more than they receive. They need to find a balance between giving and receiving in a relationship, so they do not give more love, affection and energy than they receive from their partner because that would make them feel drained and tired. They need love and energy in return.
🌙 Empaths need time alone to recharge themselves and cleanse themselves from all the energies they soak in. Their partner should understand their need for spending time alone.
🌙 Empaths tend to take things personally and they can feel hurt quickly.
🌙 Empaths absorb other people’s emotions and understand things without you directly telling them. They will feel it when there’s something the matter even though you didn’t say a word about it.
🌙 They need a relationship in which they can grow and develop.
🌙 Empaths need someone who understands and respects that they feel overloaded and tired often and not take their tiredness personally.
🌙 Empaths love with all their heart. They love with passion, with pureness, with authenticity. They will love all of you. Your flaws, your imperfections, all of you, without skipping a part. Because that’s who they are. Empaths are loving people with a spark in their heart that changes into a fire of passion once they fall in love with you.
Love with all your heart, empath. Chase the deepness and meaning you long for in a relationship until you find someone who makes it all feel natural. You’re a beautiful complicated puzzle piece who loves differently than most people. It’s a true gift, to be able to love with all your heart.
-The soft universe
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PARK CHANYEOL