Why do you think the only value you hold is what you can or can't do?
Why do you think the only value you hold is what you can or can't give me?
Why do you think you're less?
Why do you think you're not good enough?
Why do you think these things?
Why do you feel this way?
Who did this to you?
Was it me?
Was it them?
What can I do to help you?
What can I do to support you?
What can I do to fix this?