Men I think it’s important that you know that more than just your dick is sexy. Your HANDS. Your ARMS. Your BELLIES. Your THIGHS. Your SHOULDERS.
i'm on the ace spectrum but still enjoy sex sometimes depending on the partner. i won't delve too deep into explaining it because it might take up the whole word limit haha but i was wondering what frank would think about that? like i still do it and i enjoy the closeness and the making out and cuddling afterwards so in a sense, i do like it. just wondering what your take on frank's reaction would be🙈
Ok I've actually got these headcanony thoughts on this situation!
So if you felt comfortable with sex occasionally, he'd be his usual king of consent. He's never gonna assume it's a yes. Even if it was a yes yesterday or a yes an hour ago, he's not making any assumptions. He's asking a lot of questions like "S'ok when I touch you like this?" or "This spot ok sweetheart?" or "Tell me to stop if it's feelin' like too much."
I think he'd even get a teensy but teasing with it. Maybe you were being cuddly or guiding his hand to spots you wanted touched, he'd say "Nah I can't touch there til you give me permission doll" and he'd make you grant him permission before any touch until you were no longer giving permission but instead begging him for it.
And then he'd go so so so heavy on the aftercare and cuddling. He's already good about that but when he knew it was necessary for your comfort, he'd be so vigilant in making sure you felt secure and connected. Phones away, TV off, skin to skin-- just lots and lots of intimacy.
Oh my god girl you have made me get back into frank castle after like so many years I have been reading like all of your work. It’s so fucking good. I have a request if you are up to it. So am asexual and what would you think frank would be a in a relationship with an asexual reader if you don’t mind.
Hi and welcome back!
Ok I genuinely believe Frank is capable (and loves to) form really deep bonds with people he loves. Consider Karen -- yes there's wonderful tension there but Frank would keep Karen in his life for the rest of his life even if it never materialized into anything sexual because he fucking loves that woman and, importantly, respects her deeply. Frank is the type to have a really small inner circle because the people who make it there are incredibly important to him. So it's less about what you can give Frank, it's more about how deep the connection feels.
Now, I do think he'd struggle! He's a sexual guy but I think he might discover he's actually a tactile guy and so long as he could have his hands on you -- snuggling, holding, grabbing, etc -- I think it'd scratch an itch for him. He'd be fiercely protective of your boundaries though and I think he'd have to take care of himself quite a bit, though he'd do so by discretely excusing himself after a snuggle session that got him a little too riled up and taking a hot shower while he knew you were comfy on the couch.