yeah pretty much
when it comes to headcanons for characters for me it’s literally just “anything goes, just don’t make them cishet”
like, the character is a cisman in media?
oh is he agender? cool.
oh they’re transfemme? fucking tight.
they’re transmasc? love it.
you think she’s pan? valid as hell.
acearo? fuck yeah dude.
i like my little fictional gay people, as long as they’re done justice in whatever identity they have in that piece of media, i am content.