y'all this song is so good and i'm learning it on bass it is so fun
listen, i like christmas because i like eating and making myself into a blanket burrito, not because i like seeing the brightest christmas lights known to man on my block at the beginning of november !!!
tumblr has become a safe space for me recently. other sites like tiktok and instagram, and especially twitter (which i refuse to call X and is also notorious for ppl horribly misrepresenting the goth subculture), are so overstimulating that tumblr is just a nice breath of fresh air. there are people who post about things that i am genuinely interested in on here and the ppl generally just seem way more down to earth and relatable. it's nice to have a space that i can post about anything and have a community separate from people i know irl too bc i feel even safer to just be myself without having a second thought about what ppl in my life might think. i can just share my thoughts and interests and it's so much easier to find like-minded people to follow on here, too.
tumblr is like the library of social media. relaxed, yet loaded with information and cool things to see and the people who come here are usually looking for the same thing i am; some peace and freaking quiet.
Being plus size AND goth AND a Christian is probably one of the biggest inconveniences I have ever subjected myself to.
Finding clothes as a plus size person on its own is one thing, but finding my style in my size while also trying to stay away from satanic and pagan symbols is even harder.
Does anyone know of any goth sites that are good about not sticking a satanic cross or a pentacle/pentagram on literally everything while also having a decent selection of plus sizes?
A girl is in NEED.