Late night cannot sleep EPIC thoughts with Sunny:
Odysseus, at least, in the Gigi animatic for Monster, looses Polites bandana. Symbolizing that he has finally moved on. Yet, just because he got rid of what he thought was the problem of that part of his trauma, it never actually did.
Telemachus was always pushed around by the suitors, and that makes you wonder. What if he would still creep through the halls, trying to hide when he was doing so, and had to be reminded that they were dead, and that they wouldn't be there to bother him anymore?
Penelope was never seen for her intellect and cleverness, just as she shows in WYFILWMA towards Odysseus when she tests him with their wedding bed. All except for Antinous. When he puts together that she's been buying "someone", as he may be thinking, and as we know this someone is Odysseus, so that "someone" can claim the throne before they have a chance. You could put together that he finds her actually quite smart for causing them to believe this was possible for a common man for such a period of time. In the end, it was most likely the worst man of them all to actually realize how smart she is, out of all of them.