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Send me a 💠+ a character's name and I'll talk about how my self insert views that character!

It can be anyone; romantic/queerplatonic f/o's, familial f/o's, friend f/o's, even characters that aren't on the f/o list! Just make sure you practice reblog karma - send it to someone before you reblog it from them~

Self-Insert Ask Game:

🏳️‍🌈: What is your self-insert’s gender identity? What’s their sexuality? Are they the same as yours irl?

🐣: What are some unique experiences that your self-insert has had that you have not?

🧜: Are there any important parts of your self-insert’s life that can’t be recreated irl? What’s the most interesting one?

🤷: What is your self-insert’s most mundane hobby?

‼️: What is your self-insert’s most extreme hobby?

🏃‍➡️: Is your self-insert cautious, or are they a risk-taker? Does this match how you are irl?

👑: What’s something about your self-insert that completely matches up with you irl?

💞: What canon character has the most in common with your self-insert?

🌻: Who would your self-insert say that their biggest role model is?

⭐️: What does your self-insert do when they feel awkward?

❤️: What does your self-insert do when they feel happy?

❓: What’s a random fact about your self-insert that you want to share?

Fleshing Out Your Selfships!

PRE-RELATIONSHIP

How did they first meet?

What was their first impression of each other?

Did any of their friends or family want them to get together?

Who felt romantic feelings first?

Did either of them try to resist their feelings?

If you had told one of them that the other would be their soulmate, what would they think?

What would their lives be like if they had never met?

GENERAL

Who initiated the relationship, and how did it go?

Did they have an official first date? If so, what was it like?

What was their first kiss like?

Were they each other’s first anything (kiss, relationship, etc.)?

What’s their height difference? Age difference?

What’s their relationship with each other’s families?

Who takes the lead in social situations?

Who gets jealous easier?

Who whispers inappropriate things in the other’s ear?

LOVE

Who said “I love you” first?

What are their primary love languages?

Who uses cheesy pick-up lines?

How often do they cuddle/engage in PDA?

Who initiates kisses?

Who’s the big and little spoon?

What are their favorite things to do together?

Who’s better at comforting the other?

Who’s more protective?

Do they prefer verbal or physical affection?

What are some songs that apply to their relationship, in-universe or otherwise?

What kind of nicknames do they call each other?

Who remembers the little things?

DOMESTIC LIFE

If they get married, who proposes?

What’s the wedding like? Who attends?

How many kids do they have, if any? What are they like?

Do they have any pets?

Who’s the stricter parent?

Who worries the most?

Who kills the bugs in the house?

How do they celebrate holidays?

Who’s more likely to convince the other to come back to sleep in the morning?

Who’s the better cook?

Who likes to dance?

(stolen from hatorishimaselfships who took it from a proshipper who took it from an anti)

F/O Ask Game!

(proship safe)

these can be applied to any type of F/O, not just romantic!

🦄 - What animal, plant, or flower does your F/O remind you of?

🌈 - What color do you associate with your F/O?

🎁 - How often do you and your F/O exchange gifts? What do you usually get them? 

🎹 - What is your favorite hobby to do with your F/O? Do you have any shared hobbies or do you have to compromise? (Or do you like to “parallel play”, each of you doing your own thing while in the presence of the other?)

🌹 - What is your F/O’s love language? How do they show you that they care about you?

🧹 - Let’s say you’re sharing a living space with your F/O, how do you split up chores? Are there any chores your F/O particularly likes or hates?

📱 - What’s your contact name for your F/O? What’s theirs for you?

⚔️ - Would your F/O fight someone on the internet? Would they bully anyone? How different are they online compared to in-person?

🤝 - Does your F/O get along with your S/I’s friends/family? How did you introduce them?

👋 - How did your F/O introduce you to their friends/family/loved ones? Do you get along?

🔪 - Has your F/O ever killed anyone? If they did, would you help them hide the body?

🌏 - If your F/O had the opportunity to take over the world, would they? Would you help them?

💭 - What's the first scenario that comes to your head when you think of being with your F/O?

💝 - What’s your F/O’s opinion on Valentine’s Day? Would they get you anything?

(yes i know valentine’s day was like two weeks ago shhh)

🗯️ - What do you and your F/O call each other in private vs. in public? Are there any names you call each other in your mind that the other doesn’t know about?

🌻 - What does your F/O like doing with you the most?

👑 - What's your F/O's favorite physical feature(s) of yours? Your F/O's favorite personality trait(s) of yours?

🍔 - Does your F/O share food with you? Is there any food that you both like to the extent that you’d fight over it?

🍄 - Give an example of a conversation between you and your F/O. (You can use an incorrect quote generator or similar!)

📸 - Show your favorite picture of your F/O! (If your F/O is secret or doesn’t have any visual source, show a picture that reminds you of them or something they enjoy)

disclaimer: some of these were highly inspired by ask games that weren’t proship safe, but i tried to customize them so i wouldn’t be entirely copying! hope you understand <3

(i mainly made this for others to use, you don’t have to send me any of these unless you want to!)

🖤a little villain F/O ask game🖤

👹: how "evil" is your F/O? (more anti hero, full on baby murder, something in-between?)

😈: is your relationship with your F/O consensual? if so, how consensual? (fully consensual, dubiously consensual, unconsensual?)

🗡: is your relationship with your F/O healthy? (no manipulation, stalking, etc)

💋: does your F/O being a villain play a part in your sexual life with them? (role play, any dom/sub or master/servant or master/pet dynamics for a few examples)

💀: are you both villains, or are you a civilian/hero/something else?

⚠️: what is the most toxic and/or abusive thing your F/O has done to you?

🕷: what is the most toxic and/or abusive thing you have done to your F/O?

🥀: is there anything your F/O could do that would make you leave them, or at the very least, consider leaving them?

🍷: what is your F/O like drunk? (and if they don't drink, what are they like when they're drugged?)

🔪: what would your F/O do if someone tortured you? (if you are not comfortable with torture, what would they do if someone kidnapped you?)

🪚: what would you do if someone tortured your F/O? (if you are not comfortable with torture, what would you do if someone kidnapped them?)

💊: does your F/O have any permanent injuries and/or disabilities caused by their career choice?

🩸: do you like how your F/O looks covered in blood?

🚬: does your F/O have any vices? (smoking, drinking, drugs, sex, fighting, etc?)

(OP would appreciate asks but they're not required to reblog! please don't feel pressured to send any ^_^)

❤️ Valentine's Day Themed Proselfship Asks!! ❤️

Please remember to practice reblog karma!

😍 — How does your F/O compliment you? How do you compliment them? What are some of your favorite pet names for each other?

💌 — Your F/O hands you a love letter! What did they write for you? What's your favorite part of it?

💋 — How does your F/O express their affection? How do you express yours?

❤️ — Tell us about a soft moment shared between you and your F/O! What made this moment so valuable to you?

🫀 — Tell us about a heartfelt moment shared between you and your F/O! What made this moment so remarkable to you?

💐 — Your F/O made you a bouquet! Which flowers are in it? If you were to make them a bouquet, which flowers would you choose for it?

🍫 — Your F/O takes you out shopping for snacks! What do both of you fill your cart with? Are there any shared favorites? What about least favorites?

🍷 — It's date night! What do you and your F/O get up to? What makes it a night to remember?

🎁 — If your F/O wanted to surprise you with a gift, what would they choose? What would you choose if you wanted to surprise them with a gift of your own?

🎧 — Pick some songs that remind you of your F/O and let them pick some that remind them of you!

🎟️ — The two of you get a free ticket/invitation to any vacation spot or event you can imagine! Where are you going? What will you get up to once you arrive at your destination?

🧸 — What's a keepsake that reminds you of your F/O? What's a keepsake that reminds them of you? Were any of those gifts from one another?

🧺 — If you could fill up a basket with things that would make your F/O as happy as they can be, what would the stuff inside it be? What about the other way around?

💎 — Based completely on sentimental value, what's the most precious gift your F/O has ever given you? What's their most treasured gift you've given them?

Proship/comship/darkship shipping-centered ask game for you and all your followers to play because there's not nearly enough of them in the world 👍🏻 (by the way the ship and character questions, unless it's talking about fandom specifically, includes OCs and your selfships if you want it to! There are also some OC and selfship specific questions)

❤️: What's your favorite ship ("taboo" or not) of all time? (If you can't think of one, then just go with your current most favorite)

🧡: What is the first taboo ship you *remember* having?

💛: What's your newest taboo ship?

💚: What's the taboo ship you've been into consistently for the longest amount of time? (Doesn't have to be your first one ever)

💙: What's your favorite dynamic (age gap, toxic relationship, different species, incest) in general?

💜: If you like incest pairings, what's your favorite dynamic specifically? (Parent/child, sibling/sibling, grandparent/grandchild, you get the idea)

🤎: If you like toxic relationship dynamics, in what kind of way is your favorite? (Manipulation, blackmailing, gaslighting, psychical, emotional, financial, or psychological abuse, etc)

🖤: What's the most dark/disturbing ship overall (what defines this varies from person to person so just go with what you think) that you like?

🤍: What's the most fluffy/wholesome/pure ship overall (whether or not it has taboo elements) that you like?

❕️: What's a ship dynamic *and/or* (you don't have to answer both) a specific pairing you expected yourself to like, but you just don't?

❔️: What's a ship dynamic *and/or* (you don't have to answer both) a specific pairing you didn't expect yourself to like, but for some reason you really do?

🌻: What's a pairing with a *purely platonic* (not romantic, not sexual) relationship you like?

🌵: What's a pairing with a *purely romantic* (not platonic, not sexual) relationship you like?

🌹: What's a pairing with a *purely sexual* (not platonic, not romantic) relationship you like?

☀️: What's your favorite pairing featuring a human x non-human partner?

✨️: What's your favorite pairing that includes more than two partners? (Polyamorous and/or polygamous relationships)

🌙: If you selfship, what is your favorite dynamic to do with you/your self insert and your F/O(S)?

🪐: What's the "weirdest" ship (crackships, crossovers, just ones that make no sense) you unironically like?

🌌: If you like interspecies relationships, what kind is your favorite? (Human x monster, human x alien, etc. Applies to any species, doesn't have to include humans)

🔪: What's, at least by comparison to your other ships, by far the most popular ship you like (in fandom)?

🗡: What's, at least by comparison to your other ships, by far the least popular ship you like (in fandom)?

⚓️: What's a ship dynamic that's really popular but you could never get into? (Do not use this as an excuse to bash others, just share your own personal opinion.)

📰: What's a ship dynamic/concept (get as specific as you want) that's really unpopular or entirely unknown, that you wished people talked about more?

🚬: What's a taboo ship you disliked initially, but you grew to love for whatever reason?

⚰️: What's a taboo ship you loved initially, but you grew to dislike for whatever reason?

🍷: What's the pairing you like that features the largest age gap out of any of your other age gap ships?

🎭: What's a ship you like/liked that is/was clearly problematic (or just not up to anti standards), but because it was popular and well liked in that fandom, no one ever came at you for?

🎯: If you selfship, who was your first F/O?

☎️: If you selfship, who is your newest F/O?

🎪: If you selfship, what was your first introduction to the concept of it that you remember?

🎱: If you have OCs and ship them together, which pairing between them is your favorite?

🎲: If you have OCs and ship them together, what is your favorite dynamic to do with your characters?

🌸: What was your first introduction to "problematic" ships that you remember?

🌷: What's your favorite rarepair overall?

🎀: If you like lolis, what's your favorite loli character? (What constitutes as a loli can be defined by you)

🧸: If you like shotas, what's your favorite shota character? (What constitutes as a shota can be defined by you)

👑: If you like kodos, (gender neutral/non-binary version of lolis and shotas) what's your favorite kodo character? (What constitutes as a kodo can be defined by you)

♂️♂️: What's your favorite taboo gay ship overall?

♂️♀️: What's your favorite taboo straight ship overall?

♀️♀️: What's your favorite taboo lesbian ship overall?

F/O Questions

I decided to make some f/o questions since I haven’t really seen any before! ^^ For those of you who don’t know f/o stands for fictional other it’s like significant other.

1. Where is their favorite place to be kissed? 2. Is your f/o ticklish? 3. How would you describe your f/o’s laugh? 4. What’s their favorite kind if date? 5. Do you propose to them or do they propose to you? 6. Does your f/o want kids? 7. What does your f/o smell like? 8. How does your f/o sleep? (some examples: Do they toss and turn or are they still? Do they snore? Do they talk in their sleep? Are they sleepwalkers?) 9. Does your f/o like video games, or do they prefer books? 10. Does your f/o like movies? If yes, what kinds? 11. Does your f/o have any habits? 12. When they smile how does it make you feel? 13. What your favorite word to hear your f/o say? 14. Can your describe your f/o’s voice? 15. Can you describe how your f/o kisses?