F/o Positivity - Blog Posts
Happy Halloween!!
How are you spending it with your f/o? Do you stay indoors and watch movies, maybe wait for trick or treaters to come so you can hand out candy together? Or maybe you’re out and about, at a party or just on the hunt for candy!
Maybe you’re in the mood for scares - why not bring them to a haunted house to see them get spooked? All in the spirit of the season of course ;)
Whatever way you choose to spend it, it’ll be lots of fun I’m sure.
You will always be important to your f/o. You don't have to be a perfect individual, you don't have to achieve anything for them to see you as enough in their eyes. Your f/o sees you for who you are, and they love you so much for it. Being yourself is something your f/o loves so much about you, and making sure you feel cared for, supported, and validated is what matters the most to them.
Imagine your f/o stroking, playing with, or fidgeting with your hair as the two of you relax. They sigh contently, appreciating this simple yet comforting time with you.
Imagine your f/o sending you a list of reasons why they love, appreciate, adore, and care about you. It's long, sentimental, and you can tell they put a lot of thought and genuine feeling towards it.
"I wanted to make this for you! This way if you ever feel bad, you can look at it and know just how loved you are."
Imagine your f/o resting their forehead against yours. They close their eyes, taking a deep breath. After a moment of silence, they smile and whisper.
"You mean everything to me, and I appreciate your presence."
Imagine your f/o holding you while you cry. They rub your back soothingly, providing you with a feeling of safety and support. They validate and listen to you without judgement, giving you words of encouragement and appreciation. They will always be so proud of you for opening up to them in these ways.
so this is love
I was walking down the street, returning home from work. It was calm- the leaves fallen on the ground in different shades of brown, orange and yellow, the ambrosial of sweet potatoes, cinnamon, pumpkins, cooked butternut squash and much more, telling that fall had arrived. A hand had made its way around my shoulder; I'd recognized the scent of cloves and vanilla from the perfume. I knew who it was and a smile had already formed on my lips.
"Good evening" said the voice as we continued walking. "evening; how was your day?" I asked while wrapping my hands around his. "Good to be frank never had a day off for myself, walked the dog and slept in the whole day" Fabio answered, we continued talking loving the presence of one another. The hair on my neck and arms rose up due to chilly breeze and the next thing I knew was being pulled in and hugged by Fabio, while my body was covered by his long coat.
"better?" "much better". We stood on the quite street as the classics of 1950's love songs started playing from one of the houses. "may I ?" Fabio asked while locking his eyes with mine that showed pure love, affection, they held trust and felt the same when we first met or when he was there by my side at my worst times saying that 'it was all going to be okay'.
I nodded smiling as he guided me in the middle of the street, it was late and there weren't vehicles on the road. I felt his hands on my waist while I wrapped mine around his neck. We moved our bodies serenely to the sound of music, staring into each others eyes with deep affection. Our lips were inches apart, Fabio closed the gap between us. His lips were perfectly synced with mine as if it were a red string of fate bringing two people deeply in love with one another back together. It felt warm, fuzzy, slow and ardent. They felt home and comfort. It was one of his ways to tell me that he was never going to let me go.
The calm music expressing true love, leaves falling on the ground, harvest of cranberries and two people madly in love in the middle of the street dancing and kissing. It felt like the time was moving slow. It was perfect.
a/n- please ignore the grammatical errors. Credits to google as well for help <3