Ok, so I need help. I (22) live with 2 roommates (my bffs jj, and lilly). My family is Christian conservative and I'm genderfluid. I have been dating Lilly for 2 years now (our anniversary was yesterday) and I dont know how to tell my family about my sexuality and my gf.
For context: I have used binders since I was 15 (when jj bought me one). My mom helped me set up my dorm when I was in college (I dropped out 😅) and she saw my binder in a packing box labeled 'private'. She asked what it was so since I was in nursing I made up this giant lie about it being a chest compressor to help restart the heart. Now my mom thinks binders are for resurrection.
When my cousin came out as gae to my family at age 17 at our family reunion, they kicked him out of their house and the family.
I want to come out but I'm horrified of the backlash. What do I do?