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i am so angelic and stunning ΰ¨ΰ§
my aura is sweet and intelligent ΰ¨ΰ§
i am my own dream girl ΰ¨ΰ§
i am kind, soft and gentle ΰ¨ΰ§
i look in the mirror and fall in love ΰ¨ΰ§
my beauty is eternal ΰ¨ΰ§
i can have and do anything i want ΰ¨ΰ§
i am the ultimate lucky girl ΰ¨ΰ§
my energy is protected ΰ¨ΰ§
my hair grows strong and healthy ΰ¨ΰ§
i am cherished like a princess ΰ¨ΰ§
i love and accept myself unconditionally ΰ¨ΰ§
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Girlhood things that I love
Getting my daily overpriced drink
watching Vogue Beauty Secrets while doing my skincare or makeup
taking pictures of everything
Scrolling through Pinterest late at night while listening to Lana
the everything shower
Celebrating small wins by going to cute cafes with my friends
Buying fresh flowers for myself every week
Obsessing with aesthetics and love
Writing in my diary
"We were girls together."
Going to bed with freshly shaved and moisturised legs
manifesting and making vision boards
Being a Victoria's Secret girly
adding ribbons and bows to everything
Buying everything in pink
being delulu
Doing my nails while watching Gossip Girl
Vanilla-scented candles and perfume before bed
Girls supporting girls and being a girl's girl <3
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Be grateful.
- Why?
Normally being grateful makes us and the universe (or God, whatever you believe) happier.
For example: you give a gift to a person, if they receive it gratefully, you will want to give them more gifts. The same thing happens with the universe, if you are grateful, you will be rewarded.
- How?
We all know that it is difficult to be grateful if we are going through a bad time, we must know that something much better always happens from something bad.
Here I will tell you how to do actions of gratitude:
Express gratitude: Taking the time to say "thank you" to the people in our lives and to the universe itself, you can make it a day or night routine, accompanied with meditation if necessary.
Reflect: Take a few minutes at the end of the day to reflect on the positive things that have happened.
Acts of kindness: Performing acts of kindness and help toward others can also foster a sense of gratitude.
ππ€KNOW YOUR WORTHπ€π
π€" In order to be valuable to others , we need to be valuable to ourselves first " -The Wizard Liz
πTo develop self-worth, you must realize that it is not extrinsic but intrinsic. It was present since the day you were born . You will not find your self-worth in other people or their opinions. Self-worth is innate , it comes from within.
π€Your value does not come from your status or followers . It does not come from anything that is external , it is always intrinsic. You have control over your self-worth. Nothing or no one can make you feel bad without your consent. We all have the same level of intrinsic value , the problem is not everybody sees it.
πWhen God created you , he did not put your value in your grades , skin color , in size of your nose or flesh . He put your value in your spirit. Your spirit was made in the image of God. Understand how valuable you are , you were created in the image of an eternal , infinite and omnipotent God.
π€If you do not acknowledge your worth , you will sell yourself short. If you start valuing yourself , others will start valuing yourself. If you know your worth or value , you will have high -standards . You will not be desperate, you will be highly-selective with who you allow in your inner circle and life. Don't allow everyone to have access to you or your energy.
πNever try to find your self-worth in other people's opinions . If you allow other people's opinions control how you feel , you are giving them your power. You will become their puppet . Be strong in yourself , know your worth and never settle for less. Never ever make your value go down because of anyone or anything.
π€You matter , you are important and precious. It does not matter who made you feel small . You have the power to make your confidence go back up. Start acting like you matter because you do !
πThe Universe wants you to know your worth , If you ignore the Universe's message, it will continue to be louder. You will continue to attract people who will mistreat you and treat you as if you are less than them.
π€If I crush or beat 20$ , it would still have it's inherent value. Right ? You must know your value and not try to find your value in others or their opinions or how they treat you. How others treat you is a reflection of them , it is never personal.
πTo cultivate a sense of worth, shift your focus to your strengths , believe in yourself and be clear about your values - have boundaries for yourself , speak up for yourself and find ways to validate yourself. You can also use affirmations to develop self-worth. Tell yourself, " I know my self-worth " .
π€Never underestimate your self- worth . Know and own your self-worth . Refuse to be treated any lower than what you deserve. You are worthy of love and happiness . You deserve the best life !
daily affirmations κπκ
β i am doing my best
β i am grateful for what i have
β beautiful things are coming into my life
β i love myself, flaws and all
β i am becoming the best version of myself
β today is going to be a good day
Little things to be more charming ౨ΰ§
holding eye contact when speaking to someone. takes some practice but so so worth it <3
don't be shy about your niche interests!! even if people don't fully get it, it makes you interesting!!
remember people's names!!
accept compliments, don't go "oh noo you're too kind I'm so ugly I look awful blah blah blah" when people say something nice to you.
signature pen. Don't question it. every cool girl has a signature pen.
always look out for others, make sure no one feels left out when you hang out with a group, check up on your friends, etc etc
listen closely and think before you speak, that way you won't stumble over your words and appear more collected and calm! :)
"please" and "thank you" ALWAYS.
you don't have to be perfect at something to have fun. I'm terrible at golf (a danger to myself and others) but people don't mind and think it is cute and fun... a win-win for me lmao
dressing up? normal to you. Don't save your cute outfits for "special" days; every day is special and you deserve to look gorgeous. <3
Oh and sit up straight ;)
As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments! <3
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This is so fvcking good I love this
From now on, whenever I catch myself thinking about a man, Iβll replace these thoughts with positive thoughts about me !
Iβll get over this phase over centering my life around men. Theyβre not worth it.
Why is this so beautiful
beauty in everything.
Gonna get blackout drunk by myself and listen to lanaβ¨
Borrowed a fenty lipgloss yesterday, feeling hot π