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🧁🎀QUOTES BY NEVILLE GODDARD🎀🧁
🧁" Change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live . Do not try to change people , they are only messengers telling you who you are . Revalue yourself and they will confirm the change "
🎀" The world is a mirror , forever reflecting what you are doing, within yourself " .
🧁" Do not concern yourself as to how it is going to happen , simply go the end. The most creative thing is your power to imagine a thing into existence " .
🎀" The great secret is a controlled imagination and a well sustained attention firmly and repeatedly focused on the feeling of the wish fulfilled until it fills the mind and crowds all other ideas out of consciousness ".
🧁" If we do not like what is happening to us , it is a sure sign that we are in need of a change of mental diet " .
🎀" Don't let anyone make you feel little. They may try to do it but only if you feel small already ."
🧁" Ask no one to help you , simply persist in your new thoughts and let your changed thinking reproduce itself in your outside world for it is only an out picturing of the world of thought withn you ".
🎀" Stop trying to change the world since it is only the mirror. Man’s attempt to change the world by force is as fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing his face. Leave the mirror and change your face. Leave the world alone and change your conceptions of yourself. The reflection then will be satisfactory."
🧁"Dare to believe in the reality of your assumption and watch the world play its part relative to to its fulfillment"
🎀"Imagination and faith are the secrets of creation."
🧁"To reach a higher level of being, you must assume a higher concept of yourself."
🎀"Do not waste one moment in regret, for to think feelingly of the mistakes of the past is to re-infect yourself".
🧁"To attempt to change circumstances before I change my own imaginal activity is to struggle against the very nature of my own being, for my own imaginal activity is animating my world."
🎀"Never claim, “I shall be that,” Let all claims from now on be, “I AM that I AM."
🧁"You are free to choose the concept you will accept of yourself. Therefore, you possess the power of intervention, the power which enables you to alter the course of your future. The process of rising from your present concept to a higher concept of yourself is the means of all true progress. The higher concept is waiting for you to incarnate it in the world of experience."
🎀"Only as one is willing to give up his present limitations and identity can he become that which he desires to be."
🧁"Because of your belief in external things you think power into them by transferring the power that you are to the external thing. Realize you yourself are the power you have mistakenly given to outer conditions".
🎀🤍KNOW YOUR WORTH🤍🎀
🤍" In order to be valuable to others , we need to be valuable to ourselves first " -The Wizard Liz
🎀To develop self-worth, you must realize that it is not extrinsic but intrinsic. It was present since the day you were born . You will not find your self-worth in other people or their opinions. Self-worth is innate , it comes from within.
🤍Your value does not come from your status or followers . It does not come from anything that is external , it is always intrinsic. You have control over your self-worth. Nothing or no one can make you feel bad without your consent. We all have the same level of intrinsic value , the problem is not everybody sees it.
🎀When God created you , he did not put your value in your grades , skin color , in size of your nose or flesh . He put your value in your spirit. Your spirit was made in the image of God. Understand how valuable you are , you were created in the image of an eternal , infinite and omnipotent God.
🤍If you do not acknowledge your worth , you will sell yourself short. If you start valuing yourself , others will start valuing yourself. If you know your worth or value , you will have high -standards . You will not be desperate, you will be highly-selective with who you allow in your inner circle and life. Don't allow everyone to have access to you or your energy.
🎀Never try to find your self-worth in other people's opinions . If you allow other people's opinions control how you feel , you are giving them your power. You will become their puppet . Be strong in yourself , know your worth and never settle for less. Never ever make your value go down because of anyone or anything.
🤍You matter , you are important and precious. It does not matter who made you feel small . You have the power to make your confidence go back up. Start acting like you matter because you do !
🎀The Universe wants you to know your worth , If you ignore the Universe's message, it will continue to be louder. You will continue to attract people who will mistreat you and treat you as if you are less than them.
🤍If I crush or beat 20$ , it would still have it's inherent value. Right ? You must know your value and not try to find your value in others or their opinions or how they treat you. How others treat you is a reflection of them , it is never personal.
🎀To cultivate a sense of worth, shift your focus to your strengths , believe in yourself and be clear about your values - have boundaries for yourself , speak up for yourself and find ways to validate yourself. You can also use affirmations to develop self-worth. Tell yourself, " I know my self-worth " .
🤍Never underestimate your self- worth . Know and own your self-worth . Refuse to be treated any lower than what you deserve. You are worthy of love and happiness . You deserve the best life !
How to balance your own life/self improvement & a relationship?
A guide ~
So this is for me because I’m in a loving wonderful relationship for exactly 8 months today but ever since we started dating I threw all my (very high maintenance) routines out of the window in a way I don’t do them frequently anymore.. and I want to start taking beter care of myself again.
So maybe someone else also finds some tips in this post.
🦢 communicate
I think it’s best to start of with the most important one and that’s openly communicating with your partner.
Which means tell them about your values, dreams, goals..
I personally think that can be a difficult thing because it was for me since my girlfriend has always known me as extremely confident in myself (and I still am) so I didn’t want her to know I too would like to change certain things about my life. But I did end up telling her I wanted to start taking beter care of myself again because I’ve being neglecting my good habits.
And good partners will be supportive of you! She was, so if you’re also struggling with this I assure you it won’t go wrong!
🦢 shared goals
To follow up discuss the goals you might have together.
For example maybe both of you want to start exercising? Or setting some extra money to the side for a vacation?
There might be some things you two can do together if both of you are up for that! Which can be a great motivator for some.
🦢 be a little selfish
No this doesn’t mean doing whatever you want without taking into account your partner’s feelings.
For example it is when you want to have some alone time, that you can do so even when your partner spontaneously wanted to go out. You also deserve some time for yourself.
It’s simply giving yourself some things you enjoyed/did when you were single and still being able to do them in a committed relationship.
🦢 compromise
Following that up, also be able to compromise. You obviously aren’t alone in your relationship and just as you’re allowed to want to do your own thing you’d also have to let your partner do the same.
It will not always be the way you planned it, in those situations you’ll have to compromise with your partners wants.
For example you wanted to give yourself a selfcare day but your partner would love for you to come to this family event. Why don’t you join them to the event since it’s important for your partner and do a selfcare day tomorrow if you have time?
🦢 include your partner
Obviously you’re dating this person, so I’m guessing you want a future with them. Since you do.. and since you and your partner will most likely end up living together just get it over with and include them in your self improvement journey.
It can be little things, for example she holds my hair when I do my skincare at her house and I don’t want to wear a headband. Or she’s just there when I search pilates workouts to do later. As well doing things a little more outside of your comfort zone like for me.. her knowing about this account 😅.
But it’s your partner, the person who will know you best of all. I think including them in your personal journey really will make your bond stronger!
🦢 prioritise your relationship
Lastly, but also very important your relationship should be no. 1 place!
There really is no more explaining to do. Be open with your partner, go on dates, skip a (not yet booked) facial appointment for something important they want to do with you! They’re the person you love after all.
A girls world💖
