I'd never think that having language kink could be a struggle... And here I am now. English is my second language and I love the way dirty talk and praises sound in English. But in my mother tongue phrases such as "good girl", "such a cockslut for me", "such a sweet cunt" and etc. either do not sound pretty or simply do not affect me as strongly as they do in English. It wouldn't be a problem if my partner spoke English... and was comfortable with dirty talk but this is a story for another time 😒