You act as if homo relationships are plentiful. When, in reality, the most that we normally get are one-off characters who’s entire personality is built on the fact that they are gay. It is not toxic to look for subtext that sometimes is actually there. Yes, there are people who are toxic with it, but I personally believe that you should be quiet and leave nonproblematic shippers alone.
like take Merther (Merlin and Arthur) lots of hardcore fans ship them even though they are just friends in the show. Why is it that men just can’t friends? Idk but it feels toxic