Pastelalleycat - Blog Posts
My cat's name is technically Blackberry, but in my language it's pronounced the same as Cherry, so it counts. But the funny thing is - I RARELY call her by her name, my regulals are "Baby", "Little one", and " Hiiiiiiii!!" 'cause I always greet her whenever I see her multiple times
Here's Cherry btw :)
The absolute silly:)
Also, Buddy is so cute, especially the muzzle, I wanna squish him /affectionate
pick one of the many pet/nicknames i call my cat:
bub/bubba
bud/buddy
sweet pea
sweet/little man
piss boy
shithead
batman ("but specifically dick grayson batman! not bruce wayne!")
brat/bratman
rat/ratman
couillon
squeaker
beeper
cute cat photos for reach (his name is buddy):
howdy! i'm liz (they/she), a queer, neurodivergent person who lives smack dab in the middle of the bible belt.
my immediate family is maga, queerphobic, and evangelical christian to an extremely uncompromising degree. i have tried over and over to get them to understand how terrified i am for my rights and safety, to get them to use my preferred nickname and pronouns. after watching the state of the union with them the other night, i'm convinced they'll never change.
my mom has outed me to her siblings without my permission. my sister has outed me to one of her best friends. my dad is a pastor, and i don't know if he's outed me to anyone or not. my extended family on all sides are 98% conservative, and i don't have any irl friends, so i'm stuck at my parents' house with nowhere else to go.
due to the pandemic and social anxiety, i have neither a driver's license (though i have a permit) nor a job. i hope to get a job very soon; still, my transportation is extremely limited and will likely continue to be for a while.
i'm not in danger of being physically hurt or kicked out. but long story short, i NEED to move out asap and get to an safer place. i struggle often with thoughts of ending my own life and harming myself. i don't have a therapist and my mom is only willing to sign me to a christian one. i have literally nowhere else to turn but online. if you can donate anything to my ko-fi, please, i need help. i also have selfship art comms open if you want one.
for full transparency: right now, the majority of donations will be used as savings while i work on getting a job, while some will go to more immediate concerns such as gender affirming and self-care items (like a chest binder).