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3 weeks ago

welcome everyone ! for this pac we will explore your future spouse se*xua*l style with you. so buckle up! I will be giving possible astrological signs (based on traditional astrology, so no mars) and characters that resemble what I interpreted. please don't ask this on people who are not your future spouse! be respectful. MDNI! 🚫

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DISCLAIMER: This is a general reading so take only what resonates.

Pile One

Your future spouse may appear to be difficult to read in their approach and attitude toward intimacy. Their approach is nonverbal. They are not the type of person who comes up to you abruptly, kisses you out of the blue and tells you he wants you right then and there and before you can react they are already undoing your buttons. No, no. He does it more with his eyes. An intense look. But calculating. They watch you carefully, and it takes them a while to show their desire for you on their face. Like when a lion watches its prey. They go slowly towards you. They study you and know your weak points and use them to their advantage to explore you. They don’t grab you roughly, or lean you against the wall. After breaking you down with their gaze, their actions are more restrained, slower. They do not lose control. They watch what makes you gasp and do it again and again until you can’t take anymore. Maybe it seems so controlled and as if you have no effect on them. Until you look straight into their eyes.

When things get intense and the atmosphere leaves a warmth in the air, and you look at them - they will find it hard to look you in the eye. Their pupils will turn away and they will hide their face in your neck. Their se*xua*l desires for you will revolve around the emotional connection you have. It won't be rough or wild. It will be rather deep, and even intense when they finds it hard to hold back as much. They will have a hard time expressing their desires to feel loved, wanted, or for either of you - safe in s*x. They are so observant that they need to feel safe before they let themself go completely. They are the type who will hug you for a long time after intimacy or look at you closely waiting for a reaction from you.

There will be times when he takes the dominant role: holding your chin for you to look at them while they caress you. But also in those moments where they feel emotionally more comfortable, they will let you take control. Like when you climb on top of them. They will respond passively and let you lead the way.

Signs: Venus in virgo (specially if it is in the 12th or 8th house), venus in taurus in the 4th house because it adds quiet intensity over the wild and combusting one, mercury in pisces (since it is in a fall sign, it makes communication weak), saturn conjunct venus. For characters, Kaz Brekker (TV Show) the intensity of his scenes with the girl when they were not even kissing resonates so much with this, Giyuu (Demon Slayer) for how deeply caring he is despite appearing cool and detached.

Pile Two

Your future spouse is quite open, warm in their approach and attitude towards intimacy with you. It will not be superficial at all. They will approach you and start caressing you leisurely, wrap you warmly and even look at you while doing so. They will enjoy foreplay quite a bit. They are the type who likes to explore every nook and cranny they can of your body before diving into you. Their hands will go around every curve while you feel their soft breath on your neck - letting you know you are safe.

They may, after intimacy, lace their fingers with yours and embrace you. If they go quiet or pensive it won't be out of discomfort — It's because they feel at peace staying close to you. They may leave kisses on your forehead or on your temple as they stare at the ceiling and have a leg over yours. They will highly value the emotional closeness they have with you after intimacy. They will like to feel comfortable without anything rushing or disturbing them when they are with you.

They are someone who adapts to your pace. They will relinquish control to you but not completely. Princess/prince/royalty treatment. They will spoil you. But It's not that they'll be someone passive, they just won't impose things on you and will adapt to what you want in the moment. A gentle dom. If they let you have control they'll still have constant gestures of firmness that are so subtle. They may rest their hand on your hip as you pick up the pace, press a kiss on your forehead when you feel over stimulated and whisper a soft "you can take it, baby, come on". Their se*xu*al style will make you feel pampered.

Signs: Venus or moon in taurus, or libra. Pisces comes to mind too. Venus in the 5th or 7th house. Good aspects with the moon and venus. Ascendant or rising ruler in 5th or 7th house. For characters, Gilbert Blythe (Anne with An E) mature though! The way he stared at Annie lovingly and how warmth he was with her gave me the same vibes. Jamie Fraser (Outlander), Taki Tachibana (Your Name).

Pile Three

Your future spouse is very patient and confident in intimacy with you. They love to flood themself in every pleasure they can get from s*x/intimacy with you. Especially if it involves all five senses. Candles, aromas, sensations, flavors, etc. The complete experience. For your spouse, intimacy with you is something to savor and enjoy without rushing. They will like to take their time with you. Multiple rounds even. This is the type of person who delights in and enjoys for*eplay. I usually leave the power dynamic at the end, but your spouse-to-be is naturally inclined to be more dominant.

They will give more than they get sometimes. You two will share that feeling of insatiability. But one thing they'll like is if you also do your part in the se*xua*l and intimate realm. They may like to give more than they get, they are a giver — but they also like to know that you're both on the same page. If you are quieter than usual, they will notice it — they will be attuned to your reactions. They like it when there is reciprocity not only se*xu*ally, but emotionally with you. They will have a hard time expressing this openly, so it is important that you are more attentive to reciprocity with your future spouse.

They want to create something committed and lasting with you. They will provide loyalty, commitment and security. This is something lasting. They are able to see that se*xu*al intimacy is not just about s*x — it involves commitment and sharing. They will be reliable, generous and a committed partner. They will remember what you like, what you love, what makes your skin shiver. Oh, and this is someone who is protective of you. Hickeys, strong grips. They will convey their dominance not loudly, but subtly. They will do things like manhandle you or hold you down in ways that make you remember who is really in charge.

Signs: Venus in Capricorn or Scorpio. Capricorn definitely in their chart somewhere. Venus doing a trine or sextile with Mercury because they are quite attune to your reactions. Mercury conjunct Venus in earth or water signs. Scorpio, where? I don’t know, but somewhere in their chart lmao. A good aspect between Saturn and Venus. Venus in domicile too. For characters, Anthony Bridgerton (Bridgerton) and how ardently that man was for Kate is so this description, Loid Forger (Spy x Family) the commitment and spouse material gave me the same vibes.

PILE ONE

Energy check to see if this reading is meant for you:

If you’ve been intuiting things that you can’t quite confirm, but there’s a voice in your head telling you it is true. It also applies if you’ve had difficulty letting go of this connection, or if you’ve suddenly felt a disconnection or blockage with this person.

What do they think of you?

In short, when they think of you, they think of a missed opportunity. As if things didn’t play out in their favor. There was a good opportunity for something beautiful, that simply couldn’t happen because of external reasons. It’s possible that there was bad timing. This person left me with a feeling of resignation in the air. Maybe you felt capable of offering something reciprocal and even committing, but apparently it was only on your part. This person didn’t know how to give back to you in the right way, and that resignation I mentioned earlier comes filled with passivity on their end. This person seems like they didn’t have the will to fight for the connection the way they should have.

Signs: This person seems like someone who rationalizes a lot before acting, so it made me think of Libra and Aquarius. They tend to emotional protection and stay silent when they feel they’re losing control. A troubled Moon in Scorpio or Virgo. Oh, and they have a hard time closing chapters. It makes me think of a Moon or Venus in fixed signs: Taurus or Scorpio. I’d put Leo but there’s too much passivity on their end.

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PILE TWO

Energy check to see if this reading is meant for you:

This reading applies to people who, after experiencing this connection, have become more grounded. If you have worked on setting healthy boundaries and are now approaching the situation more mature.

What do they think of you:

This person feels both clarity and shame. They’ve realized they didn’t act in the best way with you. They may have acted evasively, lied to you, or been very dishonest. That’s where the shame comes from. Even regret. They know they played a role in making things between you unstable or even difficult. They wish things had been different with you. But that shame is camouflaged in denial and doesn’t let them fully process that clarity. They’re not ready to face it openly and have a hard time being completely honest with themselves to know how to fix it.

Signs: Definitely Virgo or Capricorn badly aspected in their birth chart because of fear of not being enough. Pisces and Cancer in sun or mercury, or even Venus. Some air in there, because of the tendency to overthink. Definitely no fire in their chart due to the lack of initiative, and if there is, it must be very weak lmao.

PILE THREE

Energy check to see if this reading is meant for you:

If you felt that this person at first showed interest but then their actions weren’t consistent over time and you noticed them as empty or even manipulative, this pile is for you. It also applies if you’ve noticed that this person isn’t as honest or self confident as they seem. If you’ve picked up on insecurity, immaturity, etc. If you’ve recently snapped out of the confusion they left you in and now feel more disappointment than anything over how they treated you.

What do they think of you:

This person knows things didn’t end well: they’re fully aware of it. Maybe it was pride, misunderstandings, or even a clash of temperaments. Whatever the case, it left you both distant. They won’t say it, but they know they lost a chance with you because deep down, they admire you. It’s a bit complicated to explain, but they admire how strong, reserved, or even hard to read you are. Maybe they’re one of those masochists who feel a weird admiration when someone finally sets a strong, clear boundary and slams the door on them when they’re not used to it lmao. To this person, you were important or even different from the rest, and they think you’re the one who came out better from this situation.

Signs: There’s an internal struggle to keep the peace, but not as strong as Libra’s diplomacy, sounds like Sagittarius to me. Very weakened Sagittarius with some 12th house placements. They might have some Scorpio. But since there’s so much avoidance, most likely they have Pisces or Cancer (or both), misaligned/weakened. There are chances they have a Mars in Libra or something Libra-related in there. Venus in Aquarius sounds very fitting to me.

PILE ONE

Personality wise? Intuitive, loving, good-natured person with whom you'll click with instantly, even though they'll have a hard time expressing their deepest feelings for you. They're going to be somewhat unstable in how they express them - one day super passionate, next day distant. They tend to just avoid addressing emotional issues directly. This is because they’ll carry emotional baggage from previous relationships that will make them struggle to open up to you.

What you’ll like about them is their ability to stay calm, even when things get challenging. For example, if you’re overwhelmed or dealing with stress, they’ll be the type to quietly sit with you, not needing to say much but making you feel supported just by being there. They’re ambitious and hardworking, and though they may struggle to express deep emotions sometimes, they'll be really comforting and stable to you. They’re the type who, after facing a setback, will dust themselves off and keep pushing forward without complaining, which you can find inspiring. Their calm nature will help you feel at ease, (somewhat like some INFJs where their mere presence can calm people down) and while they may not be super expressive or the most touchy-feely, their presence will have a comforting, almost healing effect on you, especially when you need it the most.

In the relationship, their emotional baggage and hesitancy with expressing those deep feelings might make them seem a bit reserved or even detached at first. For example, they’ll take time observing and analyzing, almost like they’re “studying” how things are going instead of going “all in” with romantic gestures. They could be juggling a lot, maybe between work and personal stuff, and sometimes they’ll struggle to keep everything steady. They’re straightforward but can focus on their own needs first if they feel overwhelmed… They’ll be resilient and loyal once committed but will need reassurance that the relationship is worth their energy. They won’t rush or make bold actions. Because of past experiences, they’ll hold back on fully opening up right away, needing to feel truly secure before they can trust deeply. If you push them too fast, they may pull back, but when they finally commit. Once they’re “all in,” you’ll see a different side of them—you know the saying: “Once bitten, twice shy”.

Will you marry them? It’s unlikely this person will be your future spouse. This relationship will be meaningful and bring personal growth for both of you, but eventually, you’ll find that your paths don’t fully align. They’ll be an important part of your journey tho, teaching you a lot about yourself and what you want, but it looks like you’ll each move on to pursue different futures.

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PILE TWO

TRIGGER WARNING: Mentions of abusive behavior. Ooh, to be honest I don’t like the magician reversed. This is going to be the longest reading out of all the piles. Your first romantic partner will be pretty charming, their energy will be contagious and they’ll be really smart. But I believe this person to be really immature when you meet them. For some of you they won’t be a good person. I know you entered here to have your hopes up but sometimes things like this can happen. I sense both of you are avoiding growth and when that happens, the universe brings you closer to certain types of people as a wake up call. Maybe a few of you are still quite young and are more susceptible. With that said let’s get into it:

Personality-wise? Again, charming, smart and energetic/fun. Although I believe sly is the real term here, not so much smart lmao. But they're the type who might have big dreams but when it comes to taking real, consistent action, they lose interest or get distracted. They often rush to conclusions without getting all the facts. They tend to avoid taking real accountability when things go wrong. They can be sneaky about getting their way. For example, if they make a mistake at work or in school, they might cover it up or pass the blame to avoid the fallout. If there’s something they want, they might subtly manipulate situations to make it happen. For instance, instead of directly asking you to skip plans, they might plant seeds of doubt, hoping you’ll change your mind on your own. They might brush off conflicts, hoping they’ll just go away instead of addressing them directly. Again, really charming and sly. They have amazing intuition and quick decision-making skills, but doesn't always use this gift wisely: like catching on quickly when someone isn’t being truthful. But instead of using this insight positively, they might turn it into a way to win conversations or prove themselves right, rather than genuinely helping or connecting.

What will you like about them? Well, to explain this it correlates to your lack of growth. You tend to let your guard down too easily, often sacrificing your own happiness and emotional well-being for the sake of keeping the peace. You're still avoiding some necessary growth and maturity in your life. Even when you feel drained emotionally, you might push those feelings aside rather than setting boundaries or confronting them. So because of this, despite seeing the flaws in their personality, you’re still likely to feel a strong pull toward them. They may frequently talk about personal struggles, past issues, or dramatic events in their life. This could be anything from ongoing issues with friends or family to frustrations at work. You find yourself wanting to understand these layers, even if they never quite resolve them. After peeling those layers, you might find they have an inner resilience in them that will impress you, even if it sometimes comes across as stubborn. Their imaginative way of seeing the world, their charm, their intelligence and their dreams will make you feel like life with them could be exciting and filled with possibilities. Their practicality will fly right above your head (sorry for the drag 😭).

In the relationship? In the beginning, this person may be all about the grand gestures—like planning elaborate date nights, surprising you with meaningful gifts, or saying all the right things that make you feel special. That's why you always gotta be suspicious of the grand gestures, specially if they are too soon in the meeting stages (be careful with love bombing). But as time goes on, they struggle with consistency. Maybe they’re super romantic one week, but the next, they’re distant and non-communicative, leaving you wondering where you stand. They’ll make you feel amazing on a fun night out, but if you need someone to talk to about stress or personal challenges, they might shut down or avoid the topic altogether. Remember the part I mentioned of them avoiding conflicts? Well here it is.

When it comes to routines like regularly checking in about your day or planning a future together, they might become disengaged. They might say things like “Let’s just see where things go”, you know, brushing it off, which is a no-no if you’re looking for stability. If you try to bring up your feelings about the relationship or where things are heading, they might change the subject, become defensive, or pull away rather than engaging with your concerns.

This person is likely to be quite manipulative and somewhat fake in their approach to life. They put up strong barriers and tend to be overly protective of their resources - whether that's time, money, or emotions. To put it simply: they may make you feel like you’re asking for too much even when you want basic attention or support. While they might act tough and logical, they actually struggle with emotional immaturity. Like when their own emotions flare up, they’re likely to overreact or act impulsively, revealing that they actually don’t have good control over their emotions. They tend to be manipulative, using tactics like guilt-tripping, withholding affection, or even silent treatment to get what they want or to keep you feeling off-balance. This person keeps parts of their life hidden or vague, making it hard for you to feel close to them. They might dodge questions about their feelings, where they’ve been, or their plans for the future, giving you a sense that they’re always holding back or hiding something.

Regarding marriage potential - absolutely not. You'll likely feel confused about where you stand with them, and while things might feel dreamy and wish-fulfilling at first, there's a lack of real foundation for something long-term. It might seem picture perfect at first, but when you get closer to it, it looks unstable.

PILE THREE

Personality-wise? Charming and smart. They stand out, unlike pile 2 while they are also charming and intelligent, this traits are not overtly malicious or as badly channeled. Now, for the raw traits: When it comes to commitment, they might seem enthusiastic at first, the will express genuine interest and will make you feel like you’re their main priority. But then, when things get more serious, they could pull back or start questioning the relationship. They will be the type to avoid talking about future plans or shy away from labels, leaving you feeling unsure of where you stand. Also, they tend to overthink. Even small decisions might become a source of stress, as they’re often their own biggest critic. They will be someone grounded and quite stubborn, but they could be highly practical and reliable.

You'll be drawn to their unique mix of maturity and playfulness. You'll admire how they can switch from being super focused on their goals (they are quite ambitious tho) to being spontaneously fun (they’re the type to surprise you with random outings or last-minute plans). They keep things interesting to even the simplest of dates. And if they mess up a dinner they cooked or accidentally get lost while driving, they are the type to laugh it off and turn it into a fun moment rather than stressing about it. Their different perspective on life will intrigue you - they might introduce you to new experiences, hobbies, or ways of thinking that you hadn't considered before. Probably related to their ambitions. While they might not be the most organized or conventionally successful person, you'll find their determination and drive quite attractive. This person will make life feel more exciting and vibrant for you.

In the relationship, they'll show a mix of behaviors. While they can be quite romantic and charming (surprise date nights and buying you your favorite album, cooking your favorite dish or buying you a bouquet of flowers), they also have a tendency to be passive-aggressive when dealing with conflicts. Don't get me wrong, they'll genuinely enjoy making you feel special. But when disagreements arise, they might avoid direct confrontation. Leaving you guessing at what’s really bothering them. They will keep certain feelings or vulnerabilities tucked away, and their career or personal ambitions often take center stage, sometimes at the expense of your relationship. This can lead to moments where you feel like you’re not getting their full attention, or even that they’re not completely transparent about their priorities.

You'll likely meet this person through mutual friends or they can be a childhood friend. A classmate or even a coworker for some of you. However, they can be quite rebellious and threw that with that stubbornness of theirs, they will prefer doing things on their own terms most of the time. Overall, someone set on their ways.

Oh, and whether they're your future spouse - while there's potential for a significant relationship that teaches you a lot about love and yourself, this person is likely not your future spouse. This seems more like a stepping stone that prepares you for your future spouse.

PILE FOUR

Personality-wise? Will be someone who appears strong and protective on the surface, but deep down they will have a sensitive side. They’re resilient and can be emotionally supportive. They are thoughtful, so when life gets tough, they’ll often retreat, not wanting to share their pain or burden anyone else. Ig they’re having a rough week, they might go quiet and pull back from social interactions, choosing to process things alone instead of reaching out.

What you’ll appreciate most about them is their vulnerability and honesty. They’re not perfect and have been through their own heartbreaks, but they’re working to make peace with their past and be open with you. They’ll show you that even with scars, love can grow. Despite sometimes doubting themselves, they’re committed to building something real and meaningful with you, and their willingness to be raw and imperfect is something that will resonate with you deeply.

In the relationship, they'll be quite attentive and nostalgic, often reminiscing about your shared memories - like saving ticket stubs from your first date or recreating special moments. They love celebrating small, meaningful memories and might even keep a box of shared mementos. Think of the type of partner that remembers the anniversaries with a cute meaningful gift (how cute). Will make you feel valued and celebrated. However, they might struggle with expressing vulnerability, sometimes acting controlling due to their own insecurities. They might ask for frequent updates on where you are or get uneasy when you’re spending time with others. Despite this, they'll be emotionally intelligent and caring, even if they may occasionally get lost in their own fears and even anxieties. They’re generally good at reading your feelings and are caring, but they sometimes get lost in their own worries. Like, they might overthink something you said or get stuck in anxious thoughts about the relationship, which can occasionally affect their mood. But I do believe you can easily bring them out of it with communication.

Your first romantic partner will be an adventurous and passionate person. While they sometimes feel stuck in their own mental barriers (like overthinking everything before making a move), they're actually quite successful and satisfied with their life when you meet them. Professionally or in their personal achievements, they’re doing well—maybe they’ve landed a good job, run a successful business, or already reached their dreams. But despite this confidence in other areas, they’ll often hesitate when it comes to romance. They might double-check a message before hitting send or worry too much about saying the “right” thing to you. They probably had some traumatic experiences tho, I sense a difficult upbringing or maybe they were victims of cheating. This makes them careful, sometimes overly so.

Will you marry them? It's not set in stone. So this will likely be a very important and impactful connection to you. A very few of you will get marry to them. The other majority of you will not. You'll both feel a strong pull toward each other, and with patience and dedication, this could lead to something lasting. While there's potential, there are those trust issues to work through first, so it is not going to be a smooth sailing. For a majority of you this can actually be the problem that will pull you apart: the trust issues and unresolved past heartbreaks.

PILE FIVE

Personality-wise? They're emotionally mature and logical, someone who's broken free from toxic patterns in their past (yay! finally!). In emotional situations, they’re likely to stay calm and look for practical solutions. Say you have a disagreement—they won’t get caught up in the heat of the moment but will try to address it diplomatically and with logic. Your first romantic partner seems to be someone who approaches relationships with a level-headed mindset, someone known to keep their emotions under control (not hiding them though nor in a controlling way). They value independence and will not be hesitant to leave what doesn't work for them (love this). Previous experiences have taught them to put their own well-being first. If something feels strange, they don't hesitate to speak out or take a break to evaluate things for a moment. This could be a person who has dealt with some unhealthy partners in their past, and they’re now committed to keep their peace intact and avoid a relationship that could become possessive (controlling) or too emotionally draining. They’ll avoid possessiveness and try not to cling, wanting a partnership that’s healthy and balanced. Someone that knows when to step back if things aren’t working and isn’t easily swayed by sentimentality (while still remaining caring and responsible).

In your relationship, they might struggle with long-term planning at first, but they're genuinely invested in building something stable with you. For example, if you mention planning a big trip together in the distant future, they might say, “Let’s see where we’re at when the time comes.” This isn’t necessarily a lack of interest but reflects their cautious approach to long-term planning until they feel completely sure. They'll be direct in their communication - sometimes almost too direct! (lmao) - and while they take their time processing things (like that awkward pause when you ask about meeting their family), once they make up their mind, they move forward with conviction. Like imagine you ask them: Hey what are we? and they reply with something straightforward like, “I really like you, but I’m figuring out how we fit into each other’s lives.” They won’t sugarcoat or hold back to please you, they will prefer to be honest and clear about their intentions (I mean, sounds great tho). Because once they are in, they will BE fully in.

You'll like that they are passionate, driven and willing. But when it comes to personal matters, especially about themselves, they might downplay their own accomplishments lmao (yk, humble). And at the same time someone that completely changes your perspective on love. They build trust slowly. You may find that they take small steps over time to reveal personal details, like sharing a meaningful childhood memory after several months together. They’re careful about building trust, so their reserved side isn’t disinterest—it’s simply their way of ensuring stability and safety in relationships. So if you ask them what’s wrong they'll be pretty honest with you and won’t play any games unlike previous piles. They're also determined to overcome their challenges and aren't afraid to go after what they want. They’re not the type to give up on a goal or dream, whether that’s in work, personal growth, or the relationship itself. You’ll likely notice that they’re committed to improving themselves and won’t let insecurities hold them back for long.

Will you marry them? As for whether they’re your future spouse, the potential is definitely there. Higher than the other piles.