Positive Vibes - Blog Posts
update 1:
FRANKFURT YAY! okay, my dad will try to get FZ tickets for Gelsenkirchen tomorrow and we will try to get tickets for one Frankfurt show in the LIFAD presale once more, extra early and prepared this time:-D
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When did you send this? And how dumb do I have to be to not see it? (Nvm it's me we're talking about sooooo 😂)
Thank you for the kind ask btw! Never thought I would get something like this 👀 Thank you again! Haha idk what to say 🤗💙
Nothing is better than being comfy and snuggled into a weighted blanket pulled up around your chin.
Something to chill to
🟢 You are still a writer even when you haven't written in a while.
🟢 You are still a writer even when you feel like you aren't writing enough.
🟢 You are still a writer when you feel like your work isn't good.
🟢 You are still a writer when other people don't like your work.
🟢 You are still a writer when you aren't published.
🟢 You are still a writer when you only have works in progress.
🟢 You are still a writer if all you write is fanfiction.
[ID: A small, round, bright orange goldfish with big black eyes. The goldfish is holding a tiny knife in its fin. There is a shiny sparkle next to the knife. The fish looks serious but still cute. The artist’s name, “TITSAY,” is written near the fish’s tail. Above the goldfish, there is a speech bubble with the words: “GOOD THINGS WILL HAPPEN TO YOU!!!” In smaller text, it says: “THIS IS NOT A THREAT.” /End Image Description]
Trying to get myself to do things art-related, but honestly I’m already really proud of myself for waking up before noon—I woke up at 8:20, fifteen minutes before my alarm went off!
Be proud of the little things, and try not to beat yourself up over not making huge changes in a day. Slow down, your goals will be waiting for you ^^
Autumn in France 🍁🗼✨
Today is World Mental Health Day! Let's focus on peaceful things. 🕊️🕊️🕊️✨✨✨
🍂Autumn Self Care🍂
Drink your favorite tea, cocoa or coffee ☕
Get cozy & relax with a good book 📖
Bring nature indoors 🌱
Put on warm comfortable clothes 💖
Bake something you love 🥧
Get some exercise, take a walk through nature 🍁
Go apple or pumpkin picking 🍏
Carve pumpkins with family or friends 🎃
Watch your favorite Fall movie ☀️
Take a nap to recharge 💤
Positive Affirmations✨
You deserve happiness, respect, peace & love 💕
You will overcome challenges & obstacles 💫
You are talented, you are strong, you are brave 🌈
Your voice deserves to be heard, you matter 🗣️
You are loved 💛
You are enough 🌟
GENTLE REMINDERS 🤗💡❤️
Drink lots of water, stay hydrated, take breaks 💦
Circumstances you can't control aren't your fault 🍂
It's okay to say "no" ❌
Treat yourself with kindness ☺️
It's okay to reward yourself 🍧
It's okay if you're not where you want to be yet 🛣️
Your illness doesn't define you ☀️
It's okay to take a day of rest & do nothing 🆗
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60 Resources & Hotlines 🌍
https://socialworklicensemap.com/social-work-resources/mental-health-resources-list/
🍂Take care of yourself 🍂
Hi So someone in my family just told me that I gained weight (( as if I didn't already know that and feel super insecure about it 🙄🙄)) and it just ruined my day tbh like my feelings are hurt and I'm mad af bc I feel fat and having it pointed out was completely unnecessary and ironically my weight gain was pointed by someone who's damn near 300 pounds. I hate people and my family really ain't shit sometimes I swear. Sorry I just needed to vent I hope you're ok with it, I'm not asking for you to solve my problem I just know you're the only nice blogger I follow. Everyone else is weird af about people venting. But yeah I'm really upset now and I was about to eat but I lost my appetite. It's a reason I gained weight, my family is basically homeless living in our car rn bc of the pandemic and fast food is all we can afford so it's not like I'm just out here being a fat bitch, I'm relatively skinny but I hate having my weight gain pointed out like wtf 😒
Oh wow, okay this is a lot to take in. I'm okay with you guys venting, as long as you understand that I'm not a therapist & I don't have the answer to every question/problem. As far as this situation goes, whoever pointed out your weight gain was incredibly rude, hypocritical & insensitive, & you have every right to be upset. No one likes having an insecurity pointed out. The next time they do that you should point out that they're on the verge of 300lbs & see how they feel (sometimes you gotta give people a taste of their own medicine for them to realize how fucked up they're being). They also need to be more self aware & realize that pointing things out like that could affect someone's mental health & cause/trigger an ED. I'm sure you're beautiful. Please remember though that it's an insecurity - insecurities are not a reflection of who you are, they are simply negative emotions, & a lot (I mean a lot) of people have gained weight during the pandemic, you're definitely not alone. Even my sister has, lol. But it looks good on her & we don't make her feel like shit for it. If they do it again, call them out on it. Keep them in check, don't let people disrespect you. Nobody asked for their opinion of your body. I'm really sorry about your living situation though, if you were to set up a GoFundMe or something I'd be happy to donate & share! All the best to you, dear! Stay safe. 💛☺️♥️
