someone make a fanfic of like Elliot rogerz, or like Adam Lanza or Andrew Blaze X reader n plz tag me
this retard is soooo old šš„³ idk how old he is but omggggg im so happy
(had to change it cuz the president of the United States didnāt like it lol)
haiii guyzzz ^_^
I just wanted to come here n ask if anyone has like a link 2 an archive of Adamās videos because I think his voice is prime porno maturrial
Nikitaās face to my right asscheek
me: *says hi to my tc without fucking up*
me: nice
I've never had a TC account but as someone that was in the community for 3ish years,,, here are some things I'd like to share after now being about 4 months out of highschool
-If you see those posts about watching out for red flags, how older men shouldn't be friends with teenage girls and how they should Definitely never persue relationships with them and your first thought is "not me, I'm just mature for my age, it's fine if I do it and I can handle myself" I was you for years. As soon as things start to get iffy, get out fast. Grooming is very real, and a lot of older people do use their power positions to manipulate younger people. You could very well have a healthy, mentor like relationship with your TC, but know where the lines are and when they're being crossed.
-it is completely normal for younger people to take an interest in older people, especially ones in power positions over them. It is the adult's job to never entertain that idea. (Not that you should Ever persue a much older adult as a minor though, you do have some responsibility but victims of grooming are victims and are more than valid)
-Learn! The! Signs! Of! Grooming!! If you are ever uncomfortable or feel as though you're being perceived by your TC in a way that makes you uncomfortable or just not feel right, don't brush it off. Set your boundaries and avoid that situation as much as possible after boundaries are crossed.
-It's okay to feel uncomfortable. I know a lot of people on here talk about how much they would love more or a certain type of attention from their TC, but if you're in that spot, don't let anyone make you think you have to be grateful for it, even and especially if it makes you feel wrong/uncomfortable/violated in any type of way
-I'll add more if I think of anything else, and feel free to comment anything along these lines I missed. More than anything, keep yourself safe. Your health and safety come before anything else, even their job or reputation if it gets to that point. Whatever you're feeling IS valid.
My asks and DMs are always open for anyone that needs it. I hate that I have to look back at highschool and have it laced with memories that now make me feel sick to my stomach knowing those moments weren't what I thought they were and it's hard to not have anyone to talk to about it because no one knew, but that also means I have no room to judge or blame anyone in the same spot. Just stay safe guys ā£ļø
My tc told me off today in the middle of a corridor (not in lesson :/ ) and now I feel like shit. He was accusing me of skipping a lesson basically because he saw me walking around. He kept being like āDid you go?ā And I kept saying that I did and he was like then why did I see you walking around with E and I was repeatedly like āI still went though, Iām not lyingā. I was literally about to cry like I think he could tell I was getting upset because he was like āyouāve got such a good thing going on here donāt let yourself downā and then he left me alone. I felt like shit, if it was any other teacher I literally wouldnāt have cared but itās because it was him. Tbh I hate being told off and the fact he was the one telling me off just made it worse, I couldnāt even laugh it off because I care about what he thinks. I kept saying I wanted to get in trouble with him I take it baaack, itās horrible. Apparently his weekās been quite stressful though so maybe thatās what it was?? Because when I went to see him later to collect some work he was quite cold then as well siiigh, idk if I can do this whole having a tc thing. š„ŗ
Honestly things with my tc have been fine but nothing amazing to write about. I love that when I see him in corridors though we always talk, like the other day he asked me if I was alright and it just took my by surprise and I fucked up but like heās so sweet, and heās always smiling and saying hello to me siiiigh tbvh.
Anyway Iām in such a tiff rn because I think Iām crushing on someone else and omg, my heartbeat like fuuuuuck, Iāll talk about who it is in the next post (itās lowkey still a tc)
If you donāt know how to start up a conversation with your tc, since Christmas is coming up, write them a Christmas card!!
If you donāt want people to get suspicious write Christmas cards for all your teachers (if you have too many, maybe your favourites other than tc) but just make your tcs really personalised.
If you want to seem even less suspicious get other people to sign it as well, like the rest of your class (just their names or maybe a little message with that) and after everyone has, you can write a personalised paragraph or two yourself without people finding out how personal you made it or how much you wrote.
If youāre not sure about when to give it to them, Iād suggest on like the last day or two days (in case they end up not coming in or something) before the Christmas break or at the end of your last lesson with them before the break. You can go to their office and hand it in and have a little chat or you can just do it after lesson and have a little chat. If itās after lesson you probably want to wait behind a bit so itās not awkward for you if people see you or end up listening in on your conversation and also so you donāt feel rushed. Iām telling you about it now so you have time to think about what youāre gonna write, what card youāre gonna get etc etc (if you donāt have the money to buy one, make one!!)
Good luck!!
P.S. this is a little disclaimer, please respect their privacy and donāt do anything reckless thatāll get them to lose their job.
P.S.S. This is also applicable to birthdays. If you know their birthday you can write one for then too.