I miss when -philia/phile meant a deep love and fascination for and not ‘I want to have sex with’
Like I have a deep fascination and love for death as a concept and it’s a beautiful and poetic thing. But I can’t say I’m a necrophile but I don’t wanna fuck dead people.
Can we start making new words and stop reusing the same ones for two completely different things? Love ≠ sex
THIS. Why do people care? Like genuinely it doesn’t affect you. I’m neutral about endos. Idc why you’re plural. I’ll respect you either way cuz personality disorders suck from what I’ve heard from my one system friend. And I applaud you for dealing with it constantly no matter if it’s endogenic or traumagenic.
Endogenic or traumagenic I’m proud of you all.
pro endo in the sense that I've studied psychopathology and am well aware that we're all just making up the categories of disorders for insurance purposes and like idk man maybe people can be plural for other reasons I genuinely don't care.
Like yes sure my plurality is trauma-based but I don't give a shit of someone else's isn't it doesn't affect me.