another example of this was in one of my classes today we were doing safe space training (basically teaching people how to be allies) and the person leading it asked us to raise our hands if we had come out before and me and the girl I sit next to both raised our hands and looked around and it was literally just to two of us and it was definitely a brutal reminder that I am in fact part of a minority lmao
sometimes when i go out in public i am brutally reminded that being queer is in fact a minority as i am currently surrounded by straight people and i hate it