I'm tired . Of how cruel the world can be . How cruel people can be . We just want a break . One break . Five seconds .
there is a HUGE difference between wanting // feeling like my guts should be made out of candy and my eyes should be pink, etc. etc. and wanting // feeling like one should be a different race, or differently abled . i do not condone the spread of hate and violence, but i also do not condone transability and transraciality . there's probably other not good ones i'm forgetting (if there is, pls feel free to let me know) ,,,, but i digress . the idea that one can "transition" to another race, another ethnicity, another culture the idea that one can "transition" to being disabled is FOUL . because no, if you were born a certain race, that is your culture- that is your heritage- you can choose to be disconnected from it, and be really interested in other cultures, but you cannot claim to be another race entirely . i am like- so white- like really white- (i haven't dna tested, but my mum has, nd most of her heritage is from like- germany-) and as a white person, i am saying LEAVE THE OTHER CULTURES ALONE !!! you are NOT transafrican, or whatever you want to call it, you need help from a therapist . and being transabled ?? is virtually a mockery of disabled people . disabilities are not cool, they are not something that you can just decide to be . as a partner of someone with disabilities, i've seen how much they can affect your ability to basically function, and to just decide to say "hey, so actually, i'm somethimthisehitimeithin-about-limbs-and-i-don't-remember-any-of-the-disability-words-but-yk" like- no . you're not . you have a well-oiled perfectly functioning body . put the mobility aids and your sticker collection away . actually, yk what ?? DONATE those mobility aids to someone who NEEDS them .
all that being said, there's the mental aspect of it let's start with systems once again--there's a HUGE difference between having or being a headmate who is of a different ethnicity // race than the body xx having or being a headmate with abilities than that of the body and everything i've said above because that's actually a different person, not just someone whose thought process is wonked . then there's like- mentally ill mental illness- like i'm talking a little lady strolling around thinking that she's a mexican deadlifter--she is going to physically harm herself trying to do things, because whatever's in her brain has gotten so twisted that she is convinced of something physically impossible in the end, i hope everybody can jsut- open their eyes and we can all be happy together and wish we all had star pupils and not that we were born a different culture ,,, if you got this far, thanks for reading <3 it's almost 1:20am, i should probably get to bed-
i kid you not i have spent the past ~5+ hours SCOURING the web downloading images (+ like- 2 videos) uploading them to pinterest with credit, link to source, and a statement that it is problems and solutions content bc i wanted to fill my board i'm so tired, chat SOBS it's 1:30am ,,,, get me out of here ,,, here's the link, if anyone's interested https://www.pinterest.com/xoxotwig/pas/
"what do when the rsd hits bc rn i feel like dying" wikihow ?? /cj /u
came across an acct made within the past 2 days based solely on hating on the osc the creator is a former member of the osc, but says bc of the trauma he experienced by being cyberbullied by members of the community, he left i'm not going to tag him, because that's going to give him a lot more clout than he deserves but i jsut wanna say: i understand trauma, and it's definitely a big thing if it means you can't enjoy something anymore, then it's sad, but it is what it is but hurting other people isn't going to heal you do you rlly think that hating on the osc and all of its members is going to bring some kind of better being about ? it's not going to fix anything object shows, ESPECIALLY ii, have tended to be a safe haven and comfort space for many people, esp those in the queer and neurodivergent communities hating someone you don't even know for having a special interest or hyperfixation on something that people who who hurt you also had an interest in is just continuing the cycle of abuse let people have their enjoyments and be nice everyone just be nice
i don't think so !! terms and pronouns don't define ur gender !! and vice versa ! whatever u feel most comfortable as, whether that's transmasc, nonbinary, or anything else, is up to u !! ik that some people identify as nonbinary, but are still so chill with being called "woman" bc terms and pronouns aren't your gender your gender is you !! not the words used to describe you !! or at least, that's how i see it :3
is it like. a bad idea to come out as nonbinary when I like masculine terms and pronouns and want to present as a guy?